Love ,Commitment And Stupidity!

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braveheartdoc

@braveheartdoc

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

I liked your post Minu😊

But I tend to differ here...even after growing up to be adults... we tend to take some decisions out of some thoughts which dont go with our personality but still we take them... and there can be many reasons for that😳

Recently I too happened to take a similar decision for my loved ones and thankfully i realised it was wrong very soon...rather i should say i was made to realise...and some days later i had to make someone understand the same thing😛

So it happens... he has been a person who has craved for love always...earlier he had only his Nanu and then he lost him ...he was completely shattered...gradually he has got his mother's love and in such circumstances...if someone would say things like this...one is expected to react this way😳

This is a show and so we expect our hero to do something heroic everytime...but the uniqueness of our show is the realistic characterisation...and for a teenager...i feel such a reaction is justified...thats real😊

Also the VO clearly said...akal par taala lag jaana...that means soon uska taala khul jayega when Vishakha is fine and she would make him realise... we just need to keep our patience intact😃

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ssree

@ssree

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

wow well written and i agree to what you said.👏

Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU
Yeah! So Naina didn't do 'tandav' today ..Ofcourse she does not how to dance 'complete classical dance' and 'Tandav' is very difficult form of Classical dance..
But yeah I am planning to do soon a 'Tandav' if CVs stoop more low with their 'fall-to-cliched-rulebook-of-Indian-TV-shows'.🥱

Sameer ka koi haq nahin banta to let her suffer just because of his plain stupidity.I find no proper symbolism in this..

And yes this track showed they only 'Love' each other yet are not 'committed'..Not atlest Sameer.

A partnership is not just about the emotions and feelings of love. A partnership is about commitment, and being responsible to that commitment regardless of what the external variables of the time are.
It's about the commitment to choosing decisions that will serve the relationship even when it would "feel better to not. Married or not married, when you decide to enter into a partnership with another, commitment means you act with integrity, respect and care -even when your emotions are telling you otherwise.
And Sameer clearly didn't respect the 'tears' of the girl..didn't care for her emotions..
Because love isn't enough. Let me clarify, love, in the way most of us define it, isn't enough. It's the responsibility to keeping your commitment. Not just to the other person, but to yourself.
Love isn't rational. It can't be controlled. If you allow a feeling that is so emotional and malleable to dictate your behaviour, you'll realise quickly that it only pans out when things are up, not when they're down.
Commitment on the other hand, will guide you through both. Commitment is not dependant on the heartstrings, it's dependant on a conscious choice you make - and that, is something you have complete control over.
And Sameer again has lost his 'conscience' and 'commitment''..
I hope that atlest they clear out this thing soon.😳

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Shreya

@PehliDafaHai

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Posted: 7 years ago

#23

I am very much hurt by today's episode that I didn't do episode analysis😔

Sam has always been emotionally weak owing to his disturbed childhood. Naina has fell many times but did Sam think that time it was because of him? Nope because his mind was his own.

Naina fell but this time he connected it to his unluckiness. His mind is not his own. It has been manipulated by Dadi's words. So it's just not Naina. If something happens to his loved ones, he will blame himself only. It's rather important for him to come out of this of him being unlucky and I have hope on Vishaka or maybe Rohan. He can't be left like this, in this wrong state of mind.

I was so hurt today when I saw Naina's tears. Maybe because I have lived Naina. We all have. It's completely unfair to get not seeing Sam when he saw her to fullest.

What all she did. She participated in something that she doesn't have any experience in, that needs some courage. She has gotten this courage from Sameer's love, their love and if that love goes from her, she would be broken. Again.

Whatever it is, Sam doesn't have any right to avoid Naina without out telling her the reason. Poor Naina, crying her heart out and thinking he might be in trouble, Sameer shouldn't do this. Atleast tell her the reason and rest, Naina will take care of.

When Sam comes out of this state, I want Naina and the other four to give him nicely that he wouldn't even think about going away from them and Vishaka to Dadi.

He has hurt Mundit and Swati-Preeti too this time as they were also there with Naina in this Mission Delhi.

Sorry for the rant Minu di😃