Love ,Commitment And Stupidity!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yeah! So Naina didn't do 'tandav' today ..Ofcourse she does not how to dance 'complete classical dance' and 'Tandav' is very difficult form of Classical dance..
But yeah I am planning to do soon a 'Tandav' if CVs stoop more low with their 'fall-to-cliched-rulebook-of-Indian-TV-shows'.🥱

Sameer ka koi haq nahin banta to let her suffer just because of his plain stupidity.I find no proper symbolism in this..

And yes this track showed they only 'Love' each other yet are not 'committed'..Not atlest Sameer.

A partnership is not just about the emotions and feelings of love. A partnership is about commitment, and being responsible to that commitment regardless of what the external variables of the time are.

It's about the commitment to choosing decisions that will serve the relationship even when it would "feel better to not. Married or not married, when you decide to enter into a partnership with another, commitment means you act with integrity, respect and care -even when your emotions are telling you otherwise.

And Sameer clearly didn't respect the 'tears' of the girl..didn't care for her emotions..

Because love isn't enough. Let me clarify, love, in the way most of us define it, isn't enough. It's the responsibility to keeping your commitment. Not just to the other person, but to yourself.

Love isn't rational. It can't be controlled. If you allow a feeling that is so emotional and malleable to dictate your behaviour, you'll realise quickly that it only pans out when things are up, not when they're down.

Commitment on the other hand, will guide you through both. Commitment is not dependant on the heartstrings, it's dependant on a conscious choice you make - and that, is something you have complete control over.

And Sameer again has lost his 'conscience' and 'commitment''..

I hope that atlest they clear out this thing soon.😳



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Dil le lo minu for this post👏
I am glad you thinks this way... I totally agree with you.. This is plain stupidity... Just like the bahus of those saas bahu craps who does stupid sacrifices in the name of love.

Naina's feelings are being totally ignored in all this... She traveled all the way to delhi with the hope of meeting him... And this guy doesn't even meet her once... Khud usko dur se dekh liya aur dil bhar diya... I felt like breaking his head while he was playing hide n seek. The girl was crying in front of him and he ignored it... Like seriously... Is this the same sameer who couldn't see a single drop of tear in her eyes? ... Is this the same sameer who can move heaven and earth to see her smile?

I cant connect to this sameer at all... These kind of behavior doesn't go with his character... He was never like this... You are right... He isn't really committed to her... Otherwise he wouldn't royally avoid her feelings and take decisions on her behalf.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

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I am glad you thinks this way... I totally agree with you.. This is plain stupidity... Just like the bahus of those saas bahu craps who does stupid sacrifices in the name of love.

Naina's feelings are being totally ignored in all this... She traveled all the way to delhi with the hope of meeting him... And this guy doesn't even meet her once... Khud usko dur se dekh liya aur dil bhar diya... I felt like breaking his head while he was playing hide n seek. The girl was crying in front of him and he ignored it... Like seriously... Is this the same sameer who couldn't see a single drop of tear in her eyes? ... Is this the same sameer who can move heaven and earth to see her smile?

I cant connect to this sameer at all... These kind of behavior doesn't go with his character... He was never like this... You are right... He isn't really committed to her... Otherwise he wouldn't royally avoid her feelings and take decisions on her behalf.

What harm she did to pool tears in her eyes? Sameer Sadist/Biased/Stupid Maheshwari.
He showed her 'indirectly' today that he doesnot deserve her and especially her 'love'..
Agree to your lines..👍🏼 Thank god! I thought I was getting 'over -emotional'...😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm no way in support of the way they are showing the track. But the thing is they are still teenagers, so thinking in stupidity is what the age is all about. Even so, if he doesn't come to his senses soon i'm gonna kick him where the sun doesn't shine.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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You're right! Absolutely right!
But shows main kahan logic chalta hi hai? Every god show loses it way and gives us tracks that we will disagree with for years to come even after the show restores normalcy.

I'm sure years after the show ends, we'll discuss how this track was so cliched and unnecessary or what went wrong. All we have in our hands is patience for that day to come when we can forget all of this.

Like the VO said, Sameer is yet to mature emotionally. Galti kar karke hi seekhega.😆

Us Rohan se dosti bhi toh nahi karta hai ki woh hi use samjha de. I'm sure if he could speak his mind out with Rohan, he'll knock some sense into his head and guide him. What say?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

What harm she did to pool tears in her eyes? Sameer Sadist/Biased/Stupid Maheshwari.

He showed her 'indirectly' today that he doesnot deserve her and especially her 'love'..
Agree to your lines..👍🏼 Thank god! I thought I was getting 'over -emotional'...😳

no dear... U weren't getting over emotional... Sameer is seriously behaving like a sadist... If her tears don't affect, then what will bring him back to senses... Even the swag sameer during the bet phase used to get affected by her tears... Naina should teach him a lesson this time... He cant get away with everything like this... Last time during his ahmedabad visit, he unnecessarily fought and ran away leaving a crying naina behind.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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it's amazing how some of you girls can pen down your thoughts so beautifully 👏
Anyways Showing Naina suffering due to Sameer's emotional drama is so unnecessary.. this track was just not needed.. nothing much was accomplished..bas now eagerly waiting for this track to end and the old simple relatable scenes to start!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I can't believe that the sameer maheshwari who has so many things to make naina smile was just standing and making her cry.well he took decision on his own of breaking with her which agn makes his character non dependable
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Minu ekdum zabardast likha hai jo bhi likha hai!! Just reading today's LU I didn't know where to bang my head😲

This is the same Sameer who inspite of everything stayed put at Naina's place to win her love and her family.
At one point Naina told Arjun aap Sameer se sikho now this Sameer should time travel and learn from the old Sameer. Yeah I am not making any sense here but then when you watch a track like this dimaag pe asar toh hona hi hai. CVs are defying their own rules, Sam's character all of a sudden is lost in the woods. First Mawali track now this one...how incorrigible.

It is one thing to care for your loved ones but excess of anything ruins the case. Jealousy, obsession, fanaticism, are all a result of excesses. I am not sure what Sameer is trying to achieve here because he has clearly missed that Naina can't live without him. Has he forgotten how miserable she was post bet revelation.

Sameer needs to trust the power of their love and the CVs need to remember that viewers have brains...duh atleast for now😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Whoa Minu! Itna gussa! 😆

Though I disagree about what you wrote about his commitment to Naina... I don't think that is the issue here. I think its more to do with a commitment to his own self to always have faith in himself and never lose sight of his true worth... But in his current emotionally distraught condition heightened due to Vishaka's illness, he is unable to overcome his fear of losing another loved one... of being alone all over again..


Inspite of his good looks and money, he has always been put down wherever he went, and until now it included his own parents... with great difficulty he managed to gain some confidence in his abilities when he regained Naina's love, and some credibility in PVKM... and also when he procured a job with his talents... all this is a start but years of conditioning otherwise, being told he's unworthy, will not be shaken off so quickly.


I think he is simply incapable of dealing with emotional upheavals, especially when he has no one to talk to... and since he has spent most of his life being alone, he is not quick to open up to anyone, not even Naina. Till date he has hidden all his problems from her and has bottled it up.


In all these months with his mother, I don't think he has shared much about himself. Even the other day he was leaving for the interview, and if Vishaka was not sitting outside he would have just gone without informing.


So being a loner, and not having faced many tough situations, except for his post bet phase where he was guided by Nanu and aided by Mundit, his mind shuts down and he loses all rational thought... remember he even spent a whole night in front of Naina's house without really having a plan? That's him... impulsive and not mature enough to think things through. That's what I'm hoping he will learn now... to face emotionally tough situations and still be able to make the right choice without losing his willpower or strength or rational thinking.

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