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Shreya

@PehliDafaHai

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Thank you so much Zulu di for this apt post..👍🏼

Things are not as they seem..a much needed post

I never comment on Ashdeep posts but I do go through them..I do feel Ashdeep would be cute together but I don't extremely ship them..no offense to who ship them..

I had an experience..There was a guy in my class and he got a dare to propose me and it went fine..but from the next day...there were rumours like we like each other and blah blah..We both didn't mind as eventually rumours die down..and it did but except in our class and the adjacent class..they were behind us..I don't know what all they said to him..but if I sing a romantic song, it's for him..if I posted a picture, it's for him..if I am in Restaurant, I am waiting for him..Everything I do was for him basically...I got so mad that I played a big prank that made all of their mouths shut..I won't give details about the prank😆We are still friends

Basically, I wrote this personal post to convey that healthy shipping is fine and I also enjoy but going overboard with that and making them uncomfortable and linking everything to each other would be outright very annoying..not everyone after this kind of attitude would stay friends with that person..I would be very happy if they're together in the future but if they are not, then it's okay..no offence to anyone

Peace for everyone 😃

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Kavila

@Kavila

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#22

👏zulu di I can't thank u enough for this much needed ND awaken post ..

Wish wish wish people have that audicity ND brain to adapt these ...

Exactly actors are not god they are human ...

The characters are responsible to us ND the actors to some extent but that doesn't mean fans has right to interfere in thier personal space everything is healthy to a some extent ..( don't count shipping in it please I did not mean that everything is always welcome if the fun element is mixed if it goes beyond that the things gets bitter ND worst talking about my own previous exp ) ...we are here for samaina ...so always the oiriritu should be samaina ..ND it is only ...at least in this forum ..ND thank God for that )😊

There is always line to everything .. wish wish wish ...my heart sanks always seeing the madness going around ND that's nothing new. ..this is the old tradition ...but seeing such thing for the show like un dino is getting my heart break all the way .

Half baked info ND truth are always dangerous ...ND ..result is always disaster. ...

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AlmondCat

@AlmondCat

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Take a bow Zulu...you put it out beautifully!!

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"Disclaimer- This post is in no way intended to target any particular set of people...shippers, non-shippers or semi-shippers...It is for all in general...I respect all viewpoints and if I don't agree with something I prefer ignoring it rather than discussing it...So it is a humble request - No body would question anyone's love for Samaina here..irrespective of whether they are a shipper or nonshipper...please we all love them...

No one is degrading anybody in my threads guys...pyaar baant te chalo...😃...humein abhi kuchh aur din takli dadi ko jhelna hai😆...aise karoge toh kaise chalega...😆"

Edited by sbadam - 7 years ago

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Laksh2000

@Laksh2000

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: KashafZaroon30

O bai...yeh kya ho raha hai yahan...

Bai mera post discuss karo ...yeh kya karne lag gaye aap sab log...Maine itni mehnat se ..shippers aur non-shippers dono ke viewpoints respect karke post banaya hai...aur tum log yeh phir se wohi circle mein gol gol ghumne lage...no body would question anyone's love for Samaina here...please we all love them...irrespective of shipper or nonshipper

No one is degrading anybody in my threads guys...pyaar baant te chalo...😃...humein abhi kuchh aur din takli dadi ko jhelna hai😆...aise karoge toh kaise chalega...😆

Yes pyaar baante hi chal rahe hain. Takli Dadi ki baat Mat karo. Usne uske bobby ne aur uske paltu keshav ne milke jeena haram karke rakha hain.

Coming to the point. Yes humans r not tailor made. But rd's reaction to each question was tailor made.😆He was not moody.actually found the segment very funny as if the guy is there to prove that they both r not a thing. I think peoples reaction is because this is not the first interview where they found him ignoring her(which they felt as ignoring).also his answers gol gol ghumake . Some might find it disrespecting ashi. But I was laughing like here this guy goes again.

Yes we cannot judge a person just like that based on ivs. But when u do a co actor segment people expect u to speak about it co actor not about everyone.😆 . I am not bashing anyone here. I liked the segment actually found it funny too for obvious reasons.

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ScarletNiki

@ScarletNiki

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#25

Zulu this needs to be an open letter to all the fans seriously👏 Amazing thoughts and perspective!

What you have written is a bitter reality of these times. It is such a paradox that our show is about the 90s when life was so simple as the VO in the show kindly reminds us without cell phones, youtube and social media; this very media is creating havoc in lives of the actors who are living the role.

I wonder if the same people would stop and think about why they like the show so much and why it is impacting their lives in a positive way.

Now coming to being professional that definition in my opinion is being cordial to your coworkers and getting the job done! Personally when I go to work most of my colleagues including me refuse to talk work unless the first cup of coffee is in our system😆 Not that we hate each other or are being rude; its just that we respect our space and after working for so long together we understand when to ask the other person and when to leave them alone. To a client onsite our behavior might look indifferent but we know the truth. Just like this I feel Ashi's and Randeep's bond is way beyond anyone's understanding (for the reasons mentioned above) to be assessed, dissected, and criticized. What I know is that professionally they are doing wonders and that is because they know how to get the job done!!😊

I know everyone is entitled to their opinions but just one question for contemplation. If you could only have one thing what would you choose from the options below:

1) Great chemistry onscreen and not per the expectation IV/bits

2) Bad acting/chemistry onscreen but great off screen IVs 😆. Aise mein serial kitne din chalegi pata nahi.

Socho socho. All I can say is we are blessed to witness the phenomena that is YUDKBH so cherish it ⭐️

PS: IVs toh fans ke liye hote hai and by that standards the fans get full attention from the stars in fact itna ki costars pe nazar nahi jati toh complain kis baat ki hai😃

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May

@SixteenAgain

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Much needed brilliant post Zulu!! 👏

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Aisha

@Samaina_16

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#27

Unreserved on Page 1😊

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Ross11

@Ross11

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#28

Zulu,

Well written post and thought provoking.Hope it puts some sense into fanatic fans who go to extreme levels.

Like you, never had I ever shipped off-screen pair nor am planning to. I don't have any problem with shippers either, each to its own.

Actually the things you mentioned are just catalysts problem is something different which none on your thread touched. I have seen this thing w.r.t different shows too and certainly there is a pattern to it, I'll not go into much detail.Hence stop here only!

Btw, why the Mods and DTs of this forum are sleeping like Kumbhakaran. So many nagative posts and many breaking IF rules, few posts were reported and still no action taken.Arrey bhai, forum needs you now, take some action against offenders.

Your post needs to be on first page for some time, I will say make it sticky for the sake of positivity on forum. Again Mods should be active to make it sticky.

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Laizu Khan

@smiley_lizi

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

#29

Very well said.

Actors should be judged for their acting only.

Not based on interviews here and there.

You explained well.

Hope everyone in the forum takes the message and the actors get their needed space for their personal lives too.

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jasw

@jasw

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#30

Wonderful post KashafZaaroon. 👏 Esp. the line " Blurring the lines is natural for us...but crossing the line is definitely in our control.."

I am also not into shipping as I have seen our association with actors are mostly till the time we see them onscreen in the serial we watch. Once it is over, it is kind of difficult to keep a track. So for me their onscreen chemistry is most important. I do not want any awkwardness/misunderstanding between the leads as it will hamper the serial.

You are so right these days it is so difficult for the actors to keep their personal lives private. Direct access from fans in SNS is both a boon(when they worship u) and bane(when they bash u)! So if there is linkup rumor/posts it is not only you but your whole family knows about it! I think in this case Randeep wanted to play it safe as he was going to his brother's wedding and would meet all his family and extended family. He knows one look one smile to Ashi can be equated to love confession!😆 But he miscalculated that lack of it would gain him the tag of arrogant and rude!

They say kids are the best judge of character. Both Ashi and Randeep are wonderful with kids. One requires certain innocence and a sweet disposition to hit it off with kids.

Also the fact that Ashi was smiling throughout the interview and making faces to his usual weirdo comments show that he is putting up some nautanki in the interview. A person who is rude and arrogant to his co-star for six months wont have his costar smiling at him and saying all sweet things about him.

So before crossing the line, one needs to pause and think because these negative comments can have snowball effect and lead to more serious issues.