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Posted: 7 years ago
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earlier it was her anger... that she trusted sameer during the trip but he was doing it for the bet... she was angry at herself that till date she never did anything wrong but for sameer she lied at home for going to his bday party etc... she was angry that earlier her life revolved around studies and family and she diverted herself for love... she used to avoid talking about love or showing love in public but she did all of that...
every individual who is angry doesnt thinks rationally... for anger to subside it takes time... every incident from the moment sameer entered her house her resolve to stay angry from him was residing...

Also preeti's word that he is doing all this so that nothing ends between them... he loves her... everyone said the same thing munna pandit shefali and swati...

naina loves her family and seeing her brother on wheelchair because of her love was not letting her cool down her anger... finally when she saw arjun on his feet she realised that even when sameer was not wrong he still took the blame just for her... she realised that during exam paper leak incident also she wrongly judged him...

she realised again she wrongly judged sameer... her brother is fine and her brother was not hurt because of her love but some other reason... that melted her heart completely... she realised he took all this pain not because he hurted arjun but because he loves her...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-

I feel it was the chachi chachi patchup...

Chachaji is the most valued person in naina's life... She has always looked upto him...
Wen she saw sameer making an effort to mend the most important relationship in chachaji's life... Her wall began to crack


Hmm yeah...their relation is very close to her heart...may be that made an impact on her heart... but seriously...before Sameer mending their relation...none of the family members were shown to be bothered about Anand not talking to Bela...surprising...isnt it😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc


Hmm yeah...their relation is very close to her heart...may be that made an impact on her heart... but seriously...before Sameer mending their relation...none of the family members were shown to be bothered about Anand not talking to Bela...surprising...isnt it😳

U think anybody would be even bothered?
From wat I know of the agarwals... Taiji and tauji are too self engrossed to notice any such thing between the two... They are like those elders who feel their duty was fulfilled the moment taiji stopped chacha from throwing chachi out...Interfering g in hubby wife matters was not their domain...
Rakesh is hooeless
And as far as the younger clan are concerned... Their upbringing stops them from interference in matters related to hubby wife...Its too asanskari to patch up parents...I belong to that era...And I know that wen there was tension between our parents...We just had to act as if they were normal... Ni questions asked...Contrary to todays times wen I discuss my tiff's with my hubby with my teenage daughter and plan surprises with her 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-

U think anybody would be even bothered?
From wat I know of the agarwals... Taiji and tauji are too self engrossed to notice any such thing between the two... They are like those elders who feel their duty was fulfilled the moment taiji stopped chacha from throwing chachi out...Interfering g in hubby wife matters was not their domain...
Rakesh is hooeless
And as far as the younger clan are concerned... Their upbringing stops them from interference in matters related to hubby wife...Its too asanskari to patch up parents...I belong to that era...And I know that wen there was tension between our parents...We just had to act as if they were normal... Ni questions asked...Contrary to todays times wen I discuss my tiff's with my hubby with my teenage daughter and plan surprises with her 😆


Yeah I think you're right... but the way she hugged her Chachaji during the argument... later also she wasn't at all worried even that they weren't talking to each other... if his forgiving her was so important for her... why didn't she even for once think about it 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: delightful.

Lots of reasons
PTA meeting,
Chacha-Chachi Patch up,
Arjun's truth.

It was all a build up. One cannot be angry with the person you love for long. All three played a significant role along with the constant nagging of Preeti. Preeti kept appreciating Sameer in front of Naina which played on her mind and remained. If u notice she said the same thing to Arjun what Preeti said "Sameer sabki taane sunn raha hai this portion. Munna Pandit too kept saying Sameer Badal gaya hai. To add to this Sameer kept winning everyone's heart one by one in the family.

Also..Shefali told her that Tumhe toh jhute logo se nafrat hai na. That also affected her. She cannot hate someone she loves. My interpretation.

Later she wanted to say sorry and thank you to Sameer but Sameer troubled her and said "Maaf kar dena chahiye, tadpana nahi chahiye then she decided to show her love and the bottle scene happened

Now Sameer being insulted and thrown out of her house after doing so much for her family (including Rakesh felicitation and ego booster at the PTA and Arjun's service) and his efforts to win her heart completely. He managed it and now Sameer resides happily in that heart of hers.


I agree that all this was a gradual build up... but upto the Arjuns revelations point... she continued to be rude to him... I feel that even if she still was angry with him... but at least those piercing words should have toned down... it came up so suddenly to me... I mean before Arjuns truth was out... she still said mujhe aapke sach pe kisi ke jhooth se zyada bharosa hai... I never felt her love for him was anywhere in her heart... and with one truth out...she is back to her old self...

I wasn't able to understand this sudden change... i expected to be more gradually happening...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: EndlessHope

I think it was all of it...building up gradually...breaking the walls of her anger...gently healing her heart...she was melting all the way...through and through. she voiced it to herself only after chacha chachi patch up VO said it was getting difficult to stay angry with him...she allowed him to pin up her dress even before Arjun's truth came out...that was a sign she started trusting him again...she came to talk to him after he was scolded by Rakesh in front of everyone...she patched up already then...forgiving and healing is a process and then it reaches its climax in an instant and for her the instance was when he declared his marriage plans already infront of so many people indirectly though...when she smiled forgetting her anger...but she let her guard completely off loose when Shefali said those words to her...you hate people who cheat and betray...those words made her see through her own weakness and partiality and she decided to apologise to Sameer.


I feel you're right... to some extent... but for me... even if she trusted him to allow him pinning her dress and next time she is saying those words about bharosa to Arjun... I couldn't relate to the sudden change back to her old days instantly... somehow😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehraan

I completely go with Delightful n Endlesshope answers...i feel it all started with the felicitation award that let her guards down that day...She was vulnerable n saw Sam in a different light...Infact her Vo did acknowledge him wholeheartedly!


That was a big day for her but her behaviour didn't convey that much to me somehow... I don't know I felt something missing😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Muggle_Diaries

I completely agree with @Delightful and @Endlesshope.

It was all of it. The mending of her heart started from the moment in the hospital where she went to see him.

She became vulnerable in front of him for the first time after the bet revelation. She exposed her heart and showed him how much he broke her. She cried her heart out in front of him.

You cannot keep everything inside of you and expect to heal. The toxins and infection has to go out of your body to mend itself. The process started at the hospital. Of course, it is a slow process.

That was the turning point for Sameer as well. Till then he was asking sorry to get out of the burden of guilt. He knew what he did was wrong and went on ask sorry. He did not try to understand the extent of Naina's pain. From that day in the hospital, his intentions changed. He wanted forgiveness from her, but at the same time he wanted her happy. It no more about his guilt. It was taking responsibility of his own actions and taking steps to correct them.

So, I would say the whole thing started at the hospital. With every action from Sameer, Naina started melting. Every time she scolded him, every time she became angry with him, she was letting go some part of the toxin. Sameer wisely did not stop her from being angry. He listened to her patiently, did things for her happiness, quietly set out to mend their relationship.
Love
Kshithi


Well said dear... so all in all it was his true love that reached her heart and she accepted that wholeheartedly 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

It started with pta meeting... Her long time dream was fulfilled because of him... Then helping chacha chachi... Defending her in front of everyone made her look at him in a completely different light... After that she ws happy to be around him... Then arjun's lie made her away frm him again... When arjun ws exposed she started seeing the picture clearly... Hw genuine sam was in his efforts... Arjun's lie exposure was the last push needed for naina... After that there was no turning back for her... Her love for him was completely rekindled... She started making moves... Now they both knows each other ver well... Such a great journey it was. 😊


I myself feel that the way he praised Naina in front of everyone... that showed what he felt for her... that he was aware of the qualities which probably no-one else present there were ... so that was an important thing in this whole changeover😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchi3179

PTA meeting was the start. Chacha chachi made her forgive sameerAfter that his supporting her .she allowed to pin.sorry showed she trusted him too.arjun truth revelation made up her mind to ask for his forgiveness as she could see that how judgmental and stubborn she had been.Overall sameer continous efforts made the breakthrough as confirmed by herself to arjun


Yeah I agree that it has been a journey for both of them 😊

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