Importance of first young love?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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For everyone the memories of first love are very dear to them. Those who have experienced it know very well about what I m saying and who haven't experienced yet have definitely heard this concept from movies and books. Young first love where we are even ready to do everything for the other person. Many of them are lucky to be with the same first love for the rest of their life. But those who are not there with them should not be termed as unlucky either.
Yes at one point in life we all have dreamed of having a beautiful future with our first love. But life isn't that lovable to us. It is here to teach us that whatever we desire may not be fulfilled always. Like for Naina how we wish she and Sameer remain together till the end of the show. But they are in their teens. They have a long way to go. Over the years people change and we might not find our first love appropriate for our future. Today Sameer might be the ideal person Naina sees in her future, but over the years Sameer might not turn out to be the best for her to spend her whole life with him. Same goes for Sameer, Naina might turn up to be his love and life now, but after few years she might not be the one.
Though we are not together with our first love but we all have those memories with them which we never forget. That person might not be with us anymore, may be we are with someone better than him/her, whom we love a lot, but we always wish that person to be safe and happy.

Right now we all are thinking whether or not they will be together or not, or like Hum-Tum movie they will be together after some years.
There are even chances that there might be no Naina in actual show, no Sameer , these might just be the characters of a book written by the Narrator currently, and he/she might end it the way they want it...there are many books and movies which are left on a note where it is the audience who has to interpret what must have happened in the end...left for audience's interpretation...just like in the movie Lunchbox...nobody know whether the female and male lead boarded the train for Bhutan or not...it's not shown..audience can interpret whatever they want... (now that would be really interesting to watch 😆...something different from the usual stories)
Also there are chances that they might drag the show and test our patience that we almost stop watching it...

Right now we all are loving Sameer, but over the course of time there might be someone who might be more deserving to be in Naina's life than Sameer. Then what will we do? At the end of the day, it's a show, anything can happen, just like our lives.

The best thing to do in this scenario is just watch a nicely made show and relive some amazing moments of your life. Cause we don't know what a TV Show and life has in store for us.

P.S: Excuse me for a long, philosophical post...wanted to convey it since many days...I know after reading this many might say Kyun paka rahi ho, Hawaa Aane de😆





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Posted: 7 years ago
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Right now we all are loving Sameer, but over the course of time there might be someone who might be more deserving to be in Naina's life than Sameer. Then what will we do? At the end of the day, it's a show, anything can happen, just like our lives. 👏
@bold exactly that what I am saying that this a telly show anything can happen and I am 100 percent sure they have not ended up together.

Inspite of what producer have told end of the day is rv show and here script change according to the channel and CVS .

So better to detached the wlemotional attachment as soon as possible .

End of the day trp matters as well as Sony
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I loved your long and philosophical post .
First love is very special because it is blind and unbiased , specially if its in age when we are not aware of a word called " Compatibility".
Our first love is guided by heart and hormones 😆

When we grow up and look back at our first love, we feel like Naina's Bhalu frock that becomes a joke in future, but at that point in our life, that was our favourite and best frock.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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My connection is till I can relate to it I stick.Then bye-bye.I got intrigued because of the scene which actually happened in my teens.So started watching.
Pain and Happiness of first love will always bring happy and sad tears.Those nights of sleeplessness and anxieties,numerous tests,patience,sacrifice and then they simply leave smiling.
Sometimes I wonder if the moment we fell for them was cursed or blessed.
But no regrets.Because that was perhaps a ''favourite mistake.''😳

Mind replays which the heart cannot delete.
Let all happily remain.Let the show run successfully.
Thanks KZ for the beautiful post.😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have been married for nearly 20 years and I have a happy marriage.
But if me and hubby met in school, we would never have become friends. The ones who were my friends, thank god, I didn't marry them 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks

I have been married for nearly 20 years and I have a happy marriage.

But if me and hubby met in school, we would never have become friends. The ones who were my friends, thank god, I didn't marry them 😆

Happy to know that.May God keep showering his blessings upon you and your family.😃 I don't know who is going to settle with me and not get mad with my unmindfulness for years together.😆 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Loved your post! 😊

I agree with your viewpoints on how we should enjoy a well-written and well-acted show without worrying about what the outcome or ending is going to be. This is a creative piece, given to the audience by its makers and writers, and I would like to see where it takes us in terms of the story and characters. That being said, I am a sucker for romance and would love nothing more than a happy ending for Naina-Sameer. 😛



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

My connection is till I can relate to it I stick.Then bye-bye.I got intrigued because of the scene which actually happened in my teens.So started watching.

Pain and Happiness of first love will always bring happy and sad tears.Those nights of sleeplessness and anxieties,numerous tests,patience,sacrifice and then they simply leave smiling.
Sometimes I wonder if the moment we fell for them was cursed or blessed.
But no regrets.Because that was perhaps a ''favourite mistake.''😳

Mind replays which the heart cannot delete.
Let all happily remain.Let the show run successfully.
Thanks KZ for the beautiful post.😊


Those memories are painful till you find "The one" for you and happily settle down. Trust me, time is a great healer and there would be one day, when you'll look back and laugh out loud for wasting so many tears in past.

Sometimes, I feel that Naina is in the mood to laugh at her mistake when she has settled down with someone else .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Love your ananlysis on first love..
I am die heart romantic who really love idea of childhood lovebirds but practical side in me believes that we are in better position to choose a right person when we attain certain mental maturity.
Naina is a normal teenager who fantasize romantic films anf for her sameer is personification of the hero that she admire in those films. Addition to her naivety, innocence and gullibility its very clear more than love, naina seems to be in love with idea of love, her own personal film, where she is the heroine.Iguess that's what first love is all about.

Yes its not necessary first love is the true love but it would be wrong to say that first love cant be true love. Their are lucky ones and I have first hand experience with such couples in my family and friend circle. YUDKBH is itself inspired by a producer's love story who themselves are happily married couple of 25 years.
Whether sameer is naina's just first love or true love as well, I am up for both. I have a feeling they could develop a deep emotional connection once the facade of bet wears down and naina gets jolt back into reality. Their upbringing and traits(which i know many of them are yet to evolve) they could be more to each other than mere first brush of love.
They will evolve with time and could grow apart or grow closer and perfectly mould into eachother's life
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Posted: 7 years ago
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First love remains the first love whether it's successful or we end up seperating 😊
There aren't two choices for this bcoz it's the first selfless feeling that you have for someone else 😊
People might change and mature later in their life but the innocent heart inside which dared to love someone and care for someone more than your own self...that keeps on bringing those memories back time and again...😊
No-one can help but remember the warmth and the pain of if at all it brings with itself😊

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