i agree with you in this every mother love thier children unconditional .
Even though ishu loves her kids deeply,her actions have always been pure n unconditional.
.Unlike shags or toshiji who change according to the situation.
But somewhere in the back of her mind this thought will always be playing that ishu never gave birth to these kids.
Ishra as a couple too are similar.
Ishu always takes a back step when it comes to shags.
Because Adi still calls shags as mom.
Aliya has started calling shags as shagunmumma overnight.
Raman still keeps talking about shags.
How can ishu not feel unwanted.
Ishu's excess love for her kids may have increased her expectations from them.
Hence the disappointment of being sidelined.
It's bound to happen .
If Adi/aliya/Raman truly cared for her feelings ,Ishu will not feel unwanted.
What's the point in expecting others to make her feel wanted where her hubby,Raman himself fails.
Raman should come out of surf his bachon keliye to make ishu feel wanted.
This is not a regular mil/dil issue.
As ishu herself has said that she is abnormal.
When she can shower excessive love on others,When she can accept surr as it happened in the show,when her acceptance of raman's ex appears bizarre,ishu's feeling of being unwanted is also unique,which should be addressed by Raman ,her hubby,for all that she has done for him n his family.
Aliya is simply overambitious.
She takes the Bhalla family as granted.
Doing stuff for adi n with Adi is totally understandable,being a newly married bride.
But she can never be ishu in thinking about the family over herself.
Nothing wrong in that.
But for a long long time,all of them had literally created the image that aliya is just like ishu.
Hence ishu assumes that aliya will behave the same as her.
Ishu is simply wrong.
Aliya is not ishu.
Also Raman's way of making fun of ishu's feelings under this situation is making matters worse.
As someone said,Raman may have visualised AA as sharam n ishra as toshiji n bhallaji,of how Raman itself had wanted to please shags then,found his parents being nosey.
AA do appear like sharam.
When ishu cannot change sharam relationship n dynamiccs even now,there will be disappointment that even as a mom/mil she cannot have any kind of expectations /rights over AA .
Raman still keeps reminding ishu just that .
And Yoshi ji and shagun are the same that are that never change so here also toshgi behave the way she is .
As for ishita stap back when its come to shagun its her weakness . shagun is part of the bhalla family becuse of mother of all the children no one change this fect but how she behave with bhallas is all bhallas fault including Raman and ishita . Raman unconditional fate of Raman and ishita the besties if shagun then why children not give her importance.
As for Raman , adi , and aliya care for ishita that all care for her that is why that try to monofy her may be her way is not we like but they try .
Raman and ishita as a couple is always strange . but the way Raman behave with ishita is not ishita fault also ? She give him a permission to behave her this way .she never stand for herself if its belong to Raman . she is angry on adlliya but she never angry on Raman for his abused behaviour the very next day she is normal and happy dappy .
Aliya is over imbetutious is its wrong ? She want to be her mother is wrong in anyways .its at the end weather she succeed or not but trying to be like her mother is not unacceptably. Aliya is one character she is doing bathing negative but still peoplevtry hard to prove her negative.
Ishita expectations for AA still not found by me what she want ?
Anupamaa
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