WHO AND WHAT IS ISHITA? AND EXPECTATIONS...2/6/17 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Lacustris

"Too much of anything is bad".

With that I will start my rants for today.

To CVS: While your too much love for Shagun is understandable but as a viewer the way we were promised a story from a unique concept of three broken souls coming together as a family that heal each other is totally lost so is my connect to this story. As I didn't sign up for this crappy story of an adulteress, selfish and narcissist and a criminal woman who is nothing but a bio hazard for the story I refuse to sit and take it. Only TRPs will save this torture for the sensible viewers. So keep digging and good luck. You definitely need it.

Adi's embarrassment of Shagun being pregnant when he is ready to get married is perfectly understandable. So I can see this as CVS justification for not giving Ishita pregnancy track or to show the difference where she may feel embarrassed if she becomes pregnant thinking about Adi being at a marriage age? also now that we saw how Adi reacted to Shagun's pregnancy are we going to see a different reaction from Adi if it's Ishita?

And I honestly failed to understand them all distributing sweets and celebrating Shagun pregnancy as if it's a miracle. Although it's funny how she is very fertile every 7/8 years and that explains why she couldn't make Ashok a Papa...

And as I can see the Bhallas never learn their lessons, why do I feel that Ruhi may be hiding something. But then again I didn't watch so I could be wrong.

Raman apologizing to Ishita for whatever he did is wrong and he is sorry didn't cut it for me. When one is apologizing it has to be from the realization of what he did wrong. And his apology sounds like a selfish one as he couldn't live without her. "Selfish apologies aren't apologies" and him blaming her you create the situation and I take it to extreme is totally showing Raman as insensitive and selfish person. So he knows he said something extreme to her but he is not genuinely ashamed or guilty or anything. Throw a sorry at her face because if there is no realization behind it it's just a five letter word and tell her he loves her and can't live without her and she will come running to take the next verbal assault from him.

So other side Romi and Mihika feel the emptiness of missing or not having a child in their life? I wonder who will be the "Vicky the donor" here??? Or are the CVS trying to show if you love a person genuinely having a child or not doesn't make a difference. If that is the case I applaud them. Then that makes Mihika love for Romi is pure and genuine and Raman's love for Ishita is nothing but selfish even after having two kids he cheated her with surrogacy without considering her feelings?

Once again oldies proved that they are very selfish and self-centered as they care about their happiness only but expected Ishita to bend backwards to keep the family happy... very nice.

Simmi and her marriage makes no sense. not that she shouldn't settle but I am failing to see what Simmi wants from her life and why Gaurav is after her as he doesn't come across as a genuine person.

Precap is once again to reiterate the fact that Bhallas are once again selfish and they care nothing about anyone irrespective of how much that person sacrifice for them. The "Me syndrome" is thickly coated in their DNA especially in Toshiji and Raman.

Nice Review Viji!! Once again I appreciate you are doing this. You are such a sweetheart!!

Originally posted by: DikshaN

the episode was good only becoz of the ishra scene
that scene was really cute and adorable the way puttar was apologizing to biwi but from his dialogues u come to know that he has still not realised what the real problem is and he still thinks that she is just angry true he can't stay without her and whenever she goes away from him he becomes hysterical and behaves irrationally we have seen that time and again but just becoz he can't stay without he can't ignore her hurt
ishita seemed to be melting but I hope that doesn't happen and her hurt is shown properly at least this time
I felt romika also had a very mature conversation which ishra seriously need to have now
god knows why the whole family is so happy about shaguns baby is she pregnant for the first time ?? or is it becoz she is pregnant first time with manis child ??
I felt adis reaction very realistic any boy his age would feel like that
my neighbour was 19 years when her mom was expecting her 3rd child and she was very displeased and Adi toh is going to get married imagine how embarrassed he must feel
I loved his dialogues about shagun so apt 4 th pati ke sath bacha paida kar rahi hai lol ( this was my favourite scene )
even if they are testing the waters for ishus pregnancy than I don't think any trp aunty won't want to see ishu pregnant becoz that is what everyone feels bad for her and if she is getting that happiness than I'm sure every one will be happy about it
ruhi chalo finally she is feeling guilty and regretting her behaviour
I'm very very disappointed with toshiji she is very selfish and doesn't want to listen to others at all
dint she see what her obsession for getting her kids married has caused till now ??
from Nidhi coming in their lives to Raman simmi getting married to the wrong people and finally getting divorced to them?? also rinky almost getting married to a fraud and finally settling for Mihir and than dieing mistakenly becoz she couldn't handle the relationship and had an extra marital affair (also she was too young to get married )???? also how can we forget the subbu fiasco!!
she thinks the solution to every problem is marriage (how stupid) also she doesn't care about ishus pain but just wants her back home becoz her family is getting separated, her son is suffering, her husband is away from her and she needs ishu to convince simmi and bhallaji for the marriage just like how ishu convinced rinky to get married
Amma is another big disappointment she is not bothered about her daughter but is bothered that her husband dint listen to her
I mean at this age their husbands won't give them divorce right or go to some other woman?? than why are they so insecure???
also shagun fainted and her BP raised becoz she got suffocated for like hardly 30-45 sec's wow!!!
the woman who suffered gun shot and crocodile attack but still was heal and hearty along with the baby got suffocated
Gaurav seems to be very selfish and has some motive behind getting married to simmi maybe some astrological problem or something becoz in one episode when simmi refused to go with him to the minister's office he called some panditji and asked him what should he do now that simmi is not ready to come with him ( I'm just guessing )
precap is even more irritating to see toshijis fake illness and emotional blackmailing becoz of which ishu will come back and they will conviniently forget about her hurt

Originally posted by: sky-if

@pink 😆

Although you know what? Your comment triggered a thought in me.. there is no way the ShagMani baby is happening without an impact on IshRa.. - so,

while the current IshRa "rootnaa manaana"(?!) is happening [which we viewers thought would be the 'oh these two are finally going to talk' track but is actually here for a TRP boost], stage is being set for the next disaster to hit..

Either the baby does not happen or the baby somehow becomes a Bhalla - adoption track next?!😉 me thinks either IshRa or Romi Mihika wil be forced to adopt the baby - so Shagun can go back to gray or black as needed.

Originally posted by: swa6

hey Viji...

I came😳

lovely review as usual...

Raji, Sumi, Diksha... I liked your analysis...😊

Originally posted by: swa6

Viji today's question is

Who is Ishitha? / What is Ishitha?

Let me answer...😉 bcz aaj I m the first student who raised hand ...😆

My answer to your question is "Mother"...

Not really literally Raman Bhalla's kids mom...By nature She is a Mom..thats it!

Poc:😉

So what will a Mother do in our home?

- She loves all family members, no one can ever tell whom she likes most😉 (its a forever secret)

- She takes care of all family members

- If anyone of family falls ill, she will be the one most worried... she will be the one who takes care of every single minute... In the process, she even ignores her own health issues until n unless they get well!

- Her husband loves her, but not as much as she does! He might have loved her more than his life in early years, but that mad love will be gone some how somewhere in family responsibilities...after a while, he will be habituated in a way that he would be so much dependent on her, yet he would forget what actually makes her happy(for this she only the reason, she will say its ok thats ok whenever he tries to apologize her for not able to do whatever...as she understands him n "their" responsibilities as parents... all her desires/wishes/hurt/feelings would be "swept" under the rug called by "responsibilities"!). Later on he would be habituated to the same, and conveniently forgets even to "notice" her /her feelings...

More or less this is what happen in the process of becoming a mother from a wife! (Am I wrong Viji?)

- She will have children, whom probably she loves more than her hubby, more than her life...so that she doesn't even let smallest things also to hurt her children...she(even he=they) wants to give best to their children...in the process so many sacrifices from both of them (which would be from Mom mostly😉)... Right from late morning wake-ups to anything that would cause disturbances to her children's life! Usually she would be the one who knows most about each of family members! She just "gives" and its a never ending process...

- Mom is the biggest of comfort zones of all the places we have (Isn't it?)

-Then...what do we really know what our mom likes/loves? Eventhough if we know sometimes, do we let her do it as per her wish (eventhough if it interfering our somework?)...NO! First US n then her...prb is she will also think the same😆...that first we n then her!!

- Does husband know (remember😉) what she likes? I m not really sure... I have seen many forgetting even wife's birthday even in real(not only in YHM)

-Does the family notices, understands, n give importance to her hurt anymore?

I bet no one would have time to notice...even notice, wouldn't have enough "whatever" to understand her pain n what she is going through..n even if we understand...do we gv enough time(of us) to "heal" her!!? (I bet Not even our papa will do that!😉)

So ...verdict is entire family loves her.. everyone depends on her...bt No ONE would have time to stop n check on her n how she is feeling...

Even if mom gets sick, we would worry for her health, but along wt it...zadda worry hamari bare main hotha hai...as we dont know how to take care of home like how she does everyday😕😆 We may try but only to give double work to her later😆

I believe same with Ishitha...

She is a mother...I don't think I need to compare n explain her characteristics again ... We Know Her😊😛

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji,

Sorry Viij and Swarna - I did not see yesterday episode till today so could not say what stood out for me in yesterday episode I will try to write about both days today.

Note: I am going to be little busy till May so I won't be able to write reviews as usual most of the days but will try to comment on what stood for me if I get time.

Coming to Yesterday episode

What the hell Raman was wearing yesterday. He is dressing up like typical teenagers showing biceps and tight shirt. I never liked this dress style but thought since it is a soap they should get leeway so I never mentioned it but I kind of lost it yesterday for god sake he was going to get a business men award he should be dressed appropriately at least for the function instead of dressing like a man who is in mid-life crisis. KP should seriously consider who he is keeping as his fashion designer.

Who the hell goes to a function where you are honored stone drunk. 😡 (Raman should stop drinking that is the not the solution to all problems) He hits a car and gets into a fight the men ask him to apologize and he taunts them saying have you met my wife(This was uncalled for there was no need to bring Ishita into his roadside brawl and if CV thought this would be a funny scene they failed it big time because it was just another insult to his wife) Ishita is shocked when she sees Raman fighting she immediately sends Ruhi to bring Romi, Adi and Bhallaji to stop the fight(I thought this was a correct decision instead of going in between a group of men fighting with her stone drunk husband in which many things could have gone wrong for herself if she interfered she chose the best option she had to call the men of her house to break up the fight) Ishita keeps Pihu (Which is a wrong decision on my part she should have sent Pihu also with Ruhi) Pihu tries to stop the fight and gets hurt in the process the fight is stopped by Bhallaji,Adi and Romi.

Pihu - I never connected with this kid and never could understand her reaction. I was not sure why she was afraid of Raman when he came to met her. If she is afraid of Raman fighting then why did she interfere to stop the fight why was she not afraid at that time. If it was not about fighting then why was she afraid of Raman because I thought she was glued to Raman after the Australia trip. Total confusion for me with this character.

Ishita/Raman - The water pouring could have been avoided it was so distasteful for me. I agree you need to pour water on a person who is stone drunk for him to come back to his sense but the same confrontation could have been done when he was sober. Ishita was right in telling that Alcohol is not the answer for stress.

Pihu fever - Raman comes to meet Pihu but she gets afraid of him (I don't know why) but then family seeing Pihu reaction asks Raman to go mildly at first and then forcefully. This was a direct rehash of hospital scene where Raman stripped Ishita of being a mother for Pihu the second time. He sits outside the door crying. (This scene would have had a greater impact if they had given a FB scene of Raman remembering this is what he did with Ishita from there they could have explored him realizing the hurt of Ishita for the first time but alas they left that opportunity)

Mihika/Romi scene was cute both were missing each other but Mihika blames Ishita for breaking the family apart.

Simmi/Param/Gaurav - All bhallas have the same problem they take decision in anger and suffer the consequences later. Simmi was angry with Param, Gaurav instigated her and she fell in his trap in her anger against Param and accepted his proposal.

Mani/Shagun - They are the new IshRa are they are staying together for a kid and slowly we will see their love developing only difference here is since it is Shagun it is a biological child not a borrowed child.

Coming to today episode

Raman mistakenly kidnaps Shagun in place of Ishita and when he opens the blanket Shagun faints because she was suffocationg for 20 -30 sec under a blanket. What nonsense 😡 Ishita and Raman are happy (There might be two reason for it

1. Shagun got another bakra to play her favorite custody game so she might leave the bhalla kids alone

2. Ishita genuinely might be happy for her best friend becoming a dad for real) The whole family knows about her pregnancy and everyone is happy. Adi is not happy as he is thinking about being a elder brother when he is an adult. (I guess this is the answer they are going to give for not giving Ishita pregnancy that Adi is an adult and he is going to feel embarrassed for this but if that is the case let me tell you CV make Ishita pregnant after sorting out IshRa issue you don't even have to ask for TRP we fans would rain TRP on you. Oh NO Let me make it clear so that you don't misunderstand Ishita pregnant means not through proxy but Ishita actually carries the baby for full 9 months and delivers the baby. Raman pampering her that is when you will be rained with TRP)

Neelu - The elder ladies wants to share the news with her husband so they try to say Neelu is lazy. Neelu gives back to them If you wish to see your husband go see for that don't call me lazy. Way to go Neelu👏 The elders are blushing as their lie has been caught.

Ruhi/Adi - Ruhi is feeling guilty and Adi was consoling her that was such a nice scene.

Gaurav/Simmi - Simmi says to him that this not the right time. Gaurav monologue states that the game is at the right time and he needs to get married to Simmi at any cost at this time so he takes the Shagun to Bhalla house Toshjii is immediately happy and wants to accept it but Bhallaji is more sensible he says that if that is the case Simmi would have told us Toshjii keeps harping about Simmi life Bhallaji shuts her up saying this is not serial this is Simmi life and he would need to ask Simmi he just has left the house for principal but still he is the head of the house. Simmi comes there and is upset with Gaurav and asks him to go and she is embarrassed with the family but Bhallaji assure her that she can take any decision. (My guess since the time we have seen Gaurav he has been wearing full sleeve so what if he is related to Nidhi hiding his tatato. Today his monologue confirmed that he doesn't love Simmi but he needs Simmi for a purpose in life and he needs to get married to her in a particular time frame. )

Mihika/Romi - A matured conversation between these two. I cannot believe this is the same Romi who was wild he has matured with age. Mihika also understood his pain and supported him as a wife the scene was nicely done. (I have one question though if Mihika can understand Romi pain then how come she is unable to understand Ishita whom she saw crying buckets for her inability to conceive)

Ishita/Raman - Raman goes behind her to talk but Ishita is avoiding him finally he gives a promise on Pihu and she stops to listen. Raman tells her that he is sorry for whatever he did but it was not his mistake but she pushes to him to the extreme. Ishita is not giving him finally he says okay its all my mistake I won't repeat it come back home I cannot live without you. I promise I won't do this again. (Couple of days I thought Raman never even realized the hurt he is giving to her but I realized in this conversation today Raman exactly knows what he did to her. He also know how to get around her hurt giving him a clean state by making her feel guilty for her actions since the mistake was done by her in the first place now that he is successful in making her feel guilty we will see Ishita melting towards him without any talk between these two)

Neelu comes and calls Raman but he refuses to come then Ishita asks the person to bring him to the house as soon as the person walks in Raman gets hyper and takes him out. He has asked to put a flyer promoting Ishita job. Ishita is impressed and tells him that he did not even put correct qualifications for her. Raman is thinking this plan also flopped.

Precap: Stage is being set for Raman breaking his promise throwing Ishita out of the house due to Simmi marriage fiasco.

Things stood out in the episodes fore me.

1. Raman loves Ishita but its conditional as long as everything is fine he is okay with her.

2. Ishita loves Raman but cannot take a stand for herself as she is always guilty of one thing or the other.

3. Toshjii needs Ishita to make Simmi agree to this marriage so she is doing drama.

4. Since Ishita is back in Bhalla house and now cannot go back to Iyers house to make her stand after she finds out about Toshjii fake illness so she is going go to Shagun house(This is my guess base on the segments as both the segments Ishita was wearing the same pink sari)

5. Simmi life is once again going to be in a mess because of Toshjii and Ishita will be blamed for it.

6. I loved Bhallaji today. He was correct regarding Simmi state of mind and he clearly told marriage is not a solution to all the problems.

7. Garav is related to Nidhi.

8. Ruhi is back to hiding something.

9. Shagun baby is going to create havoc in IshRa life once again.

10. Gulbso looks like Ishita to me now. Mani is being blackmailed, Ishita is going to Mani house, Nidhi is going to be out with Mani help so she might plan to kill Isitha in the process Ishita might lose her memory and become Gulbso. This whole Ishita walking out track the one thing which was constant is Raman telling that Ishita loves him more and he cannot stay to be separated for him so if she loses her memory than she would forget that she loved Raman then wooing of her starts.

Sorry everyone - I know I am all over the place today but wanted to tell what I thought about today episodes, coming episodes and segment since I am not sure whether I would get time to do reviews till May.

Originally posted by: mayasun

Wow Swarna👏👏👏 This not only depicts Ishita but mothers all around the world.👏

Originally posted by: swa6

Viji

Liked the episode... again you may find me weird for some thing I m gonna talk😉lol

- So puttar tried to kidnap teacher... but instead of teacher, Principal came out of sack...that too of age 60s n is bp-sugar-heart patient😆

- He tried to convince Ishu...and she started melting, after all as we all(even RKB) know she is the one who loves him more than he loves her😆

I still didn't give up on the track that address their (her) issues...Shoot me wt a gun, but I m still optimistic😳

- The ishRa scene is very cute, only if we don't know the magnitude of her hurt!

- Shagun's pregnancy news is out and everyone is happy for that(except Adi)... I knew no other kid didn't suffer because of her more than Adi...yet I really really find those words harsh n insulting n those shouldn't be coming from a "Son"..No matter what, she is his mother and I don't like someone insult their own mother like this...(about husbands n then pregnancy). He should have been more sensible! (I hope he would understand once Ishitha makes him understand)...

- Why, is it a crime to get pregnancy in the age of 40s?! I don't think so! As it is shagun we are not good with this, otherwise it would be a biggest happiest news for anyone else..

After all its Mani's life too n Mani's baby too!

- Then I can see Ishitha is genuinely very happy for shagun...All I understood is, as she doesn't have this capability, she knows its value than anyone else! (Along with it, as shagun has overdose of the same, she doesnt know its value). Especially when it is shagun (the one who gave her three kids), she is extra happy like if it is her own sister's pregnancy...She loves pampering, taking care of preggies...

She is happy seeing Shagun n I m happy seeing her😆lol😆

- Something fishy is up wt her pregnancy this time yar! I seriously doubt iron coating is gone at pihu's time😉

- Romi Mihika...today it is a mature talk... But I don't anymore believe in Bhalla Khandaan's maturity levels... Pakka it will be a special track😉with another conspired baby...😆

- Simmu-Gaurav-Parents : He is one piece of shit who just wants to sit in Bhalla's life...Dont know this time, if Raman's grand grand ma promised his grand grand dad that she will get Raman married to his sister, n bcz of Shagun they need to cancel that match n if his Grand Grand dad committed suicide not able to take it!!😲)

He seems to be in some plan...Param ji.. Jaldi aavona n crack this puzzle plz😉before our Jagga Jasoos starts doing jasoosi n before another big fight between Ishra bcz this!!

- Toshi!?😡Why so desperate?! Its like when we have soo much of dump at home, we will look for dustbins n dump it as soon as we find one!!!

Is it like simmu is burden or that she wouldn't get any matches?!

Why sooo desperate, cheap! I hate her!!🤬

- I liked Bhallaji today...liked his line too...I did leave the house but not family!

- Toshi n Amma are love sick puppies of today's episode...so despo to go n talk to their hubbies.. (however it would be cute again if we dont know ishu's hurt's mag...thats what i could say)

And the reason is "Shagun's pregnancy"...he he🤣Mummyji & Amma ji...Ishu will forget what ever bad happenedto her bz of Shagun, but what about you?! Atleast Amma, are you real mom of Ishu, or simply brought her up?

Precap: How I wish that I can make that pain true by punching her on left n rgt cheeks😡Already pumpkin lagthi hain, phir hybrid pumpkin jaise dikhegi😆

(Did I miss anything?)

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Sweetie..this is the best it's brilliant

She's a mother by nature ...beautiful..that's her character...

You pointed everything in a simple and understandabke way...we cannot deny anything here..what a mom does and is in our lives.@ blue they are aren't they...whatever you said is true..

And you nailed the line ..where raman himself agrees ...ishita loves me more than I love her...she leaves vets him more than anything in the world. It's better to leave it at that...yup we know her very well...

Hon you passed with honors and I bestow upon you an A+++ ...wonderful...