WHO AND WHAT IS ISHITA? AND EXPECTATIONS...2/6/17 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lacustris

"Too much of anything is bad".

With that I will start my rants for today.

To CVS: While your too much love for Shagun is understandable but as a viewer the way we were promised a story from a unique concept of three broken souls coming together as a family that heal each other is totally lost so is my connect to this story. As I didn't sign up for this crappy story of an adulteress, selfish and narcissist and a criminal woman who is nothing but a bio hazard for the story I refuse to sit and take it. Only TRPs will save this torture for the sensible viewers. So keep digging and good luck. You definitely need it.

Adi's embarrassment of Shagun being pregnant when he is ready to get married is perfectly understandable. So I can see this as CVS justification for not giving Ishita pregnancy track or to show the difference where she may feel embarrassed if she becomes pregnant thinking about Adi being at a marriage age? also now that we saw how Adi reacted to Shagun's pregnancy are we going to see a different reaction from Adi if it's Ishita?

And I honestly failed to understand them all distributing sweets and celebrating Shagun pregnancy as if it's a miracle. Although it's funny how she is very fertile every 7/8 years and that explains why she couldn't make Ashok a Papa...

And as I can see the Bhallas never learn their lessons, why do I feel that Ruhi may be hiding something. But then again I didn't watch so I could be wrong.

Raman apologizing to Ishita for whatever he did is wrong and he is sorry didn't cut it for me. When one is apologizing it has to be from the realization of what he did wrong. And his apology sounds like a selfish one as he couldn't live without her. "Selfish apologies aren't apologies" and him blaming her you create the situation and I take it to extreme is totally showing Raman as insensitive and selfish person. So he knows he said something extreme to her but he is not genuinely ashamed or guilty or anything. Throw a sorry at her face because if there is no realization behind it it's just a five letter word and tell her he loves her and can't live without her and she will come running to take the next verbal assault from him.

So other side Romi and Mihika feel the emptiness of missing or not having a child in their life? I wonder who will be the "Vicky the donor" here??? Or are the CVS trying to show if you love a person genuinely having a child or not doesn't make a difference. If that is the case I applaud them. Then that makes Mihika love for Romi is pure and genuine and Raman's love for Ishita is nothing but selfish even after having two kids he cheated her with surrogacy without considering her feelings?

Once again oldies proved that they are very selfish and self-centered as they care about their happiness only but expected Ishita to bend backwards to keep the family happy... very nice.

Simmi and her marriage makes no sense. not that she shouldn't settle but I am failing to see what Simmi wants from her life and why Gaurav is after her as he doesn't come across as a genuine person.

Precap is once again to reiterate the fact that Bhallas are once again selfish and they care nothing about anyone irrespective of how much that person sacrifice for them. The "Me syndrome" is thickly coated in their DNA especially in Toshiji and Raman.

Nice Review Viji!! Once again I appreciate you are doing this. You are such a sweetheart!!

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi

@ bold yes...im reserving my comment on her ...but it's only a matter of time befure she's blamed again and thrown out with the infamous " dafa ho Joao"...

Yup everybody rejoiced at her pregnancy...anyways..looks like bhallas made kheer...coz miku fed Romi kheer...yup @ italics...isn't it...😆.

Hold on to your thoughts ..you may never know..since AALIYA calls ishita amma..the baby might address her as ishima and our jagatmata will agree too...😆

Originally posted by: swa6

hey Viji...

I came😳

lovely review as usual...

Raji, Sumi, Diksha... I liked your analysis...😊

Originally posted by: swa6

hey Viji...

I came😳

lovely review as usual...

Raji, Sumi, Diksha... I liked your analysis...😊

Originally posted by: swa6

Viji today's question is

Who is Ishitha? / What is Ishitha?

Let me answer...😉 bcz aaj I m the first student who raised hand ...😆

My answer to your question is "Mother"...

Not really literally Raman Bhalla's kids mom...By nature She is a Mom..thats it!

Poc:😉

So what will a Mother do in our home?

- She loves all family members, no one can ever tell whom she likes most😉 (its a forever secret)

- She takes care of all family members

- If anyone of family falls ill, she will be the one most worried... she will be the one who takes care of every single minute... In the process, she even ignores her own health issues until n unless they get well!

- Her husband loves her, but not as much as she does! He might have loved her more than his life in early years, but that mad love will be gone some how somewhere in family responsibilities...after a while, he will be habituated in a way that he would be so much dependent on her, yet he would forget what actually makes her happy(for this she only the reason, she will say its ok thats ok whenever he tries to apologize her for not able to do whatever...as she understands him n "their" responsibilities as parents... all her desires/wishes/hurt/feelings would be "swept" under the rug called by "responsibilities"!). Later on he would be habituated to the same, and conveniently forgets even to "notice" her /her feelings...

More or less this is what happen in the process of becoming a mother from a wife! (Am I wrong Viji?)

- She will have children, whom probably she loves more than her hubby, more than her life...so that she doesn't even let smallest things also to hurt her children...she(even he=they) wants to give best to their children...in the process so many sacrifices from both of them (which would be from Mom mostly😉)... Right from late morning wake-ups to anything that would cause disturbances to her children's life! Usually she would be the one who knows most about each of family members! She just "gives" and its a never ending process...

- Mom is the biggest of comfort zones of all the places we have (Isn't it?)

-Then...what do we really know what our mom likes/loves? Eventhough if we know sometimes, do we let her do it as per her wish (eventhough if it interfering our somework?)...NO! First US n then her...prb is she will also think the same😆...that first we n then her!!

- Does husband know (remember😉) what she likes? I m not really sure... I have seen many forgetting even wife's birthday even in real(not only in YHM)

-Does the family notices, understands, n give importance to her hurt anymore?

I bet no one would have time to notice...even notice, wouldn't have enough "whatever" to understand her pain n what she is going through..n even if we understand...do we gv enough time(of us) to "heal" her!!? (I bet Not even our papa will do that!😉)

So ...verdict is entire family loves her.. everyone depends on her...bt No ONE would have time to stop n check on her n how she is feeling...

Even if mom gets sick, we would worry for her health, but along wt it...zada worry hamari bare main hotha hai...as we dont know how to take care of home like how she does everyday😕😆 We may try but only to give double work to her later😆

I believe same with Ishitha...

She is a mother...I don't think I need to compare n explain her characteristics again ... We Know Her😊😛