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Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
Hi Uma,Hope you are doing good. 😊. Sorry to budge in Uma... I know these discussions are getting nowhere and nothing would change in the forum. But still, can you please go through all the posts that were made in the first couple of pages of this thread and the comments that were posted in the other UMT thread yesterday? You would better understand, who started this all, which is irrelevant to the topic that was made, how people started throwing in ugly statements about people coming in to support Raman. There were lot of sarcasm, taunt involved, when none of us, even supported Raman at that point of time, when Krishy's post was made.It is very clear that Krishy was just replying to what Sneha has mentioned about being "biased" as we were scrutinizing Ishita's mistake and letting go Raman's mistake with excuses? I really don't know if you have read our review thread. I don't think we take sides always and let go of Raman's mistakes and magnify Ishita's mistakes. Hence, I don't find anything irrelevant in what Krishy wrote because it was a direct reply to what Sneha has mentioned about biasedness. I hope you got the context now. We have clarified that with Sneha as well.Regarding others, yes there were people who made great mockery out of our posts, when we tried to defend Raman's POV through his expressions and body languages, post leap. Many instances can be cited, but precisely during Ishita's trauma when Ruhi rejected her. There were comments after comments in some threads, which went on mock us to a greater extent about reading expressions from Raman's eyes, lips and what not? Well, if you do not agree, as they claim, ignore and stay way. Why read and go to another thread and pass nasty comments about reading from lips, face, eyes and all? 😕I know you were also around the forum at that time. Had you questioned about this at that time and said these are not healthy, I would have appreciated you.Then, my personal experience :- When I said that both Ishita and Raman are at fault for what happened before 7 years and they are responsible for the state of the children and both should own up to letting know the truth, the same people taunted me by passing a comment that I had to be in Ishita's position, precisely a Bhaanj or people surrounding me should have gone through it to understand the pain of Ishita. I even explicitly mentioned about it multiple times in the threads, saying I was hurt with these comments. I would have appreciated, if you have made a remark that these comments were unhealthy at that point of time and stood up for us. Because I feel that no woman deserve such a wish from another unrelated woman, who is just a fellow member, to be a bhaanj in real life, for the sake of a fictional character. That was quite ugly and in very bad taste.And there were a few members, whom I did not even know at that point of time and even till now, I have not interacted much with them, but they came forward and PMed me that they went through the same bullying even pre-leap during the surrogacy and child swap track from the same people. So if people can want others to be bhaanj and go through pain of Ishita, mock about our comments, we have waited long enough to put across our POV.Krishy was referring to those members precisely as "others". I'm sure they themselves would understand.😊 .I would really appreciate, if people like you , understand both the sides and then comment on whether it was healthy are not. I guess, there is nothing wrong in expressing our disappointment and hurt of this constant cornering. We are not here to take these name calling, curses & insults from unrelated people. We are also not blind DT worshipers or KP worshipers to take sides for the respective characters always. We have gone past that age and matured, educated and in a well to do position, that we don't have to earn a living by singing praise of DT and KP. 😊 .After all they are just actors and it is their profession to act. We are just fans of their stupendous acting. The point ends there. No Didi, JiJu, Bhaiya, Bhabhi stuffs and nonsense with us. Hmmm.Of all, Krishy is not the one to come forward and put across such a strong point. She did so because, we have heard a lot of unhealthy stuffs all these months, before voicing out. Nothing against Sneha though.Anyways, sorry for budging in. I'm sorry if I have offended through any of my statements. I hope you understand my point. I just explained the hurt that I and others, went through from some people, who happen to constantly taunt, pass unhealthy remarks & even wish bad for others, if people don't support Ishita, no matter what.😊. Thanks for taking time out to read Uma.
Hi Priya,
I'm doing good and hope you are also fine. It's been long time that we really had good conversation and I'm happy to see your reply here.
As the show stands, I'm at a point where I cannot relate to Raman and even enjoy Ishra nokjhok or anything for that matter that happens between them. There could be several reasons but for me it has been majorly with Raman's abusive behavior starting post leap . I am still not able to get out of those words that he has uttered as there were no closure around it. This is my view about the show based on the impact that I have . I can understand that others might defer to it and have completely different perspective to it. I completely respect that view as much as I respect my view. Never I have mocked their views nor made fun out of it.
I just want to say that I'm not a regular visitor of this forum as I got detached with the show long back . However I do make a point to atleast read few users view. Not that I always see eye to eye with everyone in various post but I love the analysis and the way their pov is put forward. But off late I don't want to name the thread but even when I try to visit occasionally to read certain users view and to comment on the same, I mostly come across comments like welcoming Raman bashers to provide the opinion. More so when it comes from the TM of the post, who would be even interested to post opinion that points out Raman's mistake. You can very well say that you guys have always put forward your opinions and never had issues. It could go well with regular visitors of that particular thread and more so having good wrap over which was developed for long time spending in forum. But for people like me , it would mean different to read such welcoming message for viewers who wants to voice out the opinion on Raman. But did I care to make a statement about it at that time just that it did not work well with me. NO, just ignored the thread itself as I felt it is not worth my time .
But now I came forward, as it was segment related and the word 'others' and 'joy' made me to comment on it. I felt if this is the case even in segment page for people who have different view and being in minority group, then they will slowly move away from voicing out their honest opinion.That's the reason i felt it is unhealthy to tag everyone for such comments. I am sorry if that had offended you or Krishy but my intention was not so.I have been one among the readers who have always loved to read Krishy's post starting from the golden days of Gan's thread and that's one of the reason for even letting know of my view with the above post. If the same has been from someone else, I would have ignored it which I usually do
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