UMT segment - Page 8

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Kuch Nahi zoha.. woh kehte hai na..patience and ignorance is good but there are times when it's important to speak.up... because limits are breached..this is just one of those days for me..😛

Rest..no sweat..you.chill😛

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Priya..sorry to budge in..but I don't think.you.should be trying to respond to posts here...response and discussions can or should happen where people want to do both...i am.sorry but this thread if one reads rationally from start to finish isn't meant for that..

It's strange how stuff we all.actually see can be twisted out of context just to mock a character and then people in general who discuss or maybe appreciate that character...

Such threads will.go on for pages despite mocking members , justifying the mocking and then openly stating and patting each other's backs..

I have tried to have ' conversations ' where I didnt agree with certain things in some posts like this earlier..and you know what happened..

It's best such places are left to those who want to be here Priya...just because people call us such and such either directly or indirectly just because they are blinded by hate for one character doesn't make us all one no? Why apologise or explain to those folks who understand neither 😕

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Tanni (I guess that is your name) , I have hardly interacted with this particular member and also got to see this member very rarely comment in the daily thread. To be precise, both of us have not had any discussions at all. So I don't personally know this person and cannot comment about his / her history. But I definitely agree that the comment was uncalled for and none has the right to ask anyone to stay away from the forum and put one down. After all, it is an open forum and all are entitled to each views. At the same time, we need to see to that the decorum needs to be maintained. If people fail to do that, the other person cannot be at the receiving end always. So yes, we either agree or agree to disagree if we cannot come to an agreement. And, if it is clear we would never have an agreement, it is better to stay away and ignore, rather than passing such comments.

Now that you wanted my opinion about it, I want to mention that, we were equally hurt by the way you "gathered comments" from our thread ( I got to hear this was the precise word you used two days before) and were LOLing over it. I feel there is no need to LOL over other views, if people do not agree to your views. Again, in the other UMT segment thread yesterday, you wanted to see how people come in and give lame excuses and defend Raman and you wanted Sneha and others to have a hearty laugh over it. I definitely feel that is also a direct attack on the members who try to post a POV, in favor of Raman. After all, all of us are entitled to our views and just because we do not agree to your view, doesn't make us second class citizens. I am sorry to say, but your post definitely looked very demeaning to us and to be frank, that was also one of the reason why I chose to comment. So it would be better, even if you take care of not attacking people in your posts. I guess, it takes two to tango.😊

@red - After having heard so much against us, I really do not understand if that was a compliment or a sarcastic remark, because we neither strive in the forum for compliments nor self-proclaim ourselves to be sensible, sane or unbiased. But if you have really meant that, thank you so much for asking for our opinion.

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

I understand but just chill ,its only a show after all that is dead now .😛

U tell how is ur son ? Is he naughty enough to drive u crazy ?

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Priya..sorry to budge in..but I don't think.you.should be trying to respond to posts here...response and discussions can or should happen where people want to do both...i am.sorry but this thread if one reads rationally from start to finish isn't meant for that..

It's strange how stuff we all.actually see can be twisted out of context just to mock a character and then people in general who discuss or maybe appreciate that character...

Such threads will.go on for pages despite mocking members , justifying the mocking and then openly stating and patting each other's backs..

I have tried to have ' conversations ' where I didnt agree with certain things in some posts like this earlier..and you know what happened..

It's best such places are left to those who want to be here Priya...just because people call us such and such either directly or indirectly just because they are blinded by hate for one character doesn't make us all one no? Why apologise or explain to those folks who understand neither 😕

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

@Uma - I not only wanted to voice out about my hurt and concerns, but also wanted to sort out the issues with a few people, who I have interacted and did not have a problem discussing alternate views. That is the sole reason I chose to reply to you ( though I barged in to the discussion) and Sneha. If you feel offended by any of the comments made, I'm really sorry about that.

Originally posted by: dreamzsrk

No Priya, I respect your view and take. I also understand that without knowing the complete context I have pinched in to reply to Krishy which to some extent is inappropriate. I realized this today after reading her reply.

But your friends commenting about to you about the worth to even respond to us does not leave a good taste. If they were so much cared and worried, even a small PM to you could have done the job. Explicitly putting it in a forum is not just a message to you alone rt.

Anyway thanks Priya for replying and I really don't find anything offensive in what you stated all the while and in case if I had, my sincere apologies.