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Bigg Boss 19-Daily Discussion Thread- 30th September, 2025
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I don't think present surname matters here...because in case of divorce also the couple can marry someone else and can still fight custody cases with different surname than the one which is in BC...imoBut i am shocked that they wrote shgaun bhalla without being legally married at that time😲...God my head is spinning imagining the scene where they thought of writing shagun's surname as bhalla in BC.It doesn't seem they have any plan to change the mothers name in BC in near future.
It was a traumatizing episodeHer croc tears, her screeching voice, her whole stance , her reasoning ...couldnt take it. She's legally pihu's mom..evidence..BC...The minute Shagun says... pihu's BC..Raman is shocked ...as it clearly states sharam as birth parents of pihuAdi ...is denied service at a store...seriously..this is too much...adi is upset and mihika goes to talk to him..miku mu's him that he's trying to commit suicude..aaliya comes to meet adi..she trusts him...IshraThey were devastatedRaman is wondering..looks at Ishita ...Raman closes his moth with his palms..meaning he was aware of it..and it just hit him...same reaction from Toshiji Ji...they never expected this ..that Shagun will use it to her benefit...that means the bhallas were aware of it...they did not object to it either..it means they've erased Ishita completely from their lives...and pihu's life..to them Ishita never existed..a clean slate...for a new beginning..Ishita was broken ..stunned...could not wrap around as to what just happened..a disappointment..I think she realized her true state..her as to, where she stands...what she is in their lives...no mother should go through this, she does not deserve this..this proved that Ishita is a bhaanj in every sense..signed..sealed..delivered ...but ..I guess mothers in the forum might agree to this...Ishita asks him didn't you even think about this?..She asks "why didn't you write my name ?"His reply .." How can I write your name, you know the situation that time, I didn't know I had to deal with this or ever to see this day"... This line negated..." I'm ashamed to ..that he rented her womb"... So to him and the bhallas Ishita is dead...then why wasn't Pihu told that her mom is dead...are they showing Ishita as a runaway here?!...Really...I have no,words here...as I will literally loose it now...I'm going to stay quiet ..but would like to read comments just based on his reply...it's gonna be interesting.His reasoning sucked big time...Her lines " she's my Ansh..one chance..and that too in her hands"... That one chance...holds an intense/deep meaning...to her this is it..no more kids..for him it's not so..it's his 3rd child..( though their one and only child)...he has not understood it yet...to him it's just a road block...mani denies it case closed..but he has bit understood how much Ishita is hurt ..denied the status of bringing be a mother even on paper ..the birth certificate..it's NOT just a birth certificate...it IS A birth certificateWoman you just got denied to be even stated as a mother in the BC...and you are ok with it...im disappointed in you...but I understand ur now concerned with the custody...but keep this in mind..you were denied even on birth certificate .Looks like mani was not interested in going to court ..but as aaliya talked about adi...ticked him to testify in favor of Shagun..And mani you really believe Ishita brainwashed aaliya..you are even a bigger idiot...Means you never knew your friend,..And what does Shagun has / possesses...that people just dance to her tunes?...I'm really amazed at this...Raman on stand..He says Shagun is just a surrogate as Ishita couldn't nit carry the baby...I'm ashamed now...I rented her womb...So he says that he thought Ruhi is dead and Ishita committed suicude...it was not done on purpose..yes I forgot to change the name in BC ...it was my mistake ...( forgot ...really...lamest reason I've ever heard)...Shagun can't give what Ishita and I can give Pihu..I'm her ex husband..we have 2 kids.,even they can testify on Shagun..she's in a number of relationships...even her husband is not here to support her"...reasoning unacceptable...sorry..no offense...Ishita in witness boxYes she took care of my kid..but we wanted her as a surrogate mother "...Mani enters...he's there to support ShagunPihu on witness standShe clearly states she wants to stay with Shagun...She doesn't like Ishita aunty..so she's leaving her dad...she says,,ever since she came ..."she's become more important than me and listens to her"...Ishita is hurt...ustody goes to ShagunPrecapRamam wakes up...and panicking as its late for school..aaliya questions mani..Precap... Was goodOverall goodRaman was aware of the BCDivan nailed every sceneAdi and aaliya were goodHe is not ashamed to include his ex wife/ adulteress ...but refused to pay homage to his late wife as he himself agreed ..she committed suicude...I mean who does this...What was their relationship all about?... Doesn't have any value?..I wish Ishita asked Raman ... " am I not fit to be recognized even on paper?"With Shagun Bhalla on BC.. It's evident they didn't waste anytime to wipe out Ishita...minutes after his wife's death..he and the bhallas christened her, or should I say approved Shagun to be pihu's mom and even legalized her as his wife and the mother of Pihu...Even now Pihu is not aware who Ishita is ...so Pihu will never know...it's better it stays that way.Ishita was shattered..it's prolly going on in her mind...what am I? Who am I to them! Was i not good enough.? Am I not worth it? Why am I being denied my right? Am I not a woman, a human being ?..do I deserve this?Am I a nobody"?If i was Ishita..after the BC fiasco..I will not accept my name to be added in the birth certificate of my child...it's not a consolation prize...It's not that my ego is hurt or I'm insulted...To me I'm denied being a mother or even acknowledged as a mother., to my own flesh and blood.,.its painful and it hurts...I'm denied my right...on paper...a birth certificate...the first milestone in my life..being a mother..a moment the first document that states me as a mother...the one I longed for my whole life...my very existence...wiped off...it proved I'm nothing..worthless creature...in fact I will not even allow my daughter to know..that I'm her mother...there is nothing that binds me to anyone anymore..I'm a nobodyBut one thing is clear...the relationship will never be the same after this mother of all screw ups...yes I may forgive ...not completely though...but I will never forget...There's nothing wrong being a single parent..times have changed...letRamans name be on the BC...or better yet...let it stay as is...when the damage is done..there's no point in changing the names anymore.