Ishita Bhalla: nothing to lose. - Page 2

I know both ishra have to blame for this mess but at least ishita try to correct her mistakes in another side raman continue doing mistakes to correct your mistakes you have to accept it first but raman behaving is disappointing

Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005

I think she thinks once Ruhi comes back this will suddenly remedy Raman. As if his anger is an illness. She thinks she's responsible. and yes, what about the kids? But at the moment, Ruhi hates her, and pihu doesn't know who she is.

I wish she paid more attention to Adi. The sweetheart definitely deserves it. Definitely

I fully understand her POV but from the get go I have stated I can't support her or Raman's actions with their kids. They both let their own insecurities come in the way of parenting. Ishita and Raman have been less parents than anything else the last few months - in fact they both are selfish to some degree.

Post leap the only thing IshRa have done right is fight for Ruhi.

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Also I keep seeing comments about Pihu knowing about Ishita...reframe it like this:

While it's silly to not let Pihu know now especially wth Ishita living with them...imagine the emotional hurt Ishita will face with Pihu's questions bc as of yet Shagun is still mumma and a good mom too to Pihu. To me partial acceptance but still preference of Shagun or apathy at the knowledge of Ishita being Pihu's mother would hurt more as a mother than seeing your daughter not even know who you are...bc there at least your daughter isn't making the choice.

This stupid set up of Pihu not knowing is saving Pihu is a character and actually reducing the hurt Ishita honestly will feel. Bc everyone knows Shagun will crumble but here at least the kid is innocent and faultless and not actively picking Shagun over Ishita with full knowledge

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I fully understand her POV but from the get go I have stated I can't support her or Raman's actions with their kids. They both let their own insecurities come in the way of parenting. Ishita and Raman have been less parents than anything else the last few months - in fact they both are selfish to some degree.

Post leap the only thing IshRa have done right is fight for Ruhi.

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Also I keep seeing comments about Pihu knowing about Ishita...reframe it like this:

While it's silly to not let Pihu know now especially wth Ishita living with them...imagine the emotional hurt Ishita will face with Pihu's questions bc as of yet Shagun is still mumma and a good mom too to Pihu. To me partial acceptance but still preference of Shagun or apathy at the knowledge of Ishita being Pihu's mother would hurt more as a mother than seeing your daughter not even know who you are...bc there at least your daughter isn't making the choice.

This stupid set up of Pihu not knowing is saving Pihu is a character and actually reducing the hurt Ishita honestly will feel. Bc everyone knows Shagun will crumble but here at least the kid is innocent and faultless and not actively picking Shagun over Ishita with full knowledge

Wonderful Post Zoya!

yhm cvs are confused that why characters are confused, storyline not justified each characters, dialogues spoiled each scenes before you used to feel character feelings but now days it's just acting no emotionally effective between characters & audiences

Originally posted by: dreamzsrk

Wonderful Post Zoya!

Ishita has nothing to loose at this point but what about Ruhi once she decides to return to Bhalla's house after 30 days time frame?

Earlier I understand her decision to leave but not now. The judge has clearly hit their nerves on asking how they can provide her all the love when they themselves are separated. This should have made Ishra to think not just about 30 days but the entire future of their life.

Ruhi is not a toy to be played emotionally. Giving her a beautiful picture by staying under one roof and then once she comes back,the next moment shattering all her belief, how is it going to heal her? Will it not put her again in worst turmoil to loose her parent once again?

Ishra failed as a parent and are they still failing despite trying to fight for her. Ruhi lost everything and it is she who is going to loose everything again if Ishra continues to be myopic

Superb post zoya..
I m confused with this living together for ruhi k liye..
Ruhi knows they both r committed to someone else now...bt now living together for her..
I want to know if ruhi comes back then again ishra will part ways as they hv decided then how will ruhi get love from both..??
Ishita is still wanna go back with mani ..y??
Wat abt adi ??

Lovely post Zoya 😃 nothing more to add. I agree on almost all the things you have said about Ishita

I only want to say that the cvs have messed this up and confused it big time.
There's Ishra and their problems and insecurities and how they are desperate to hold on to save their children but don't know where they stand. They love each other but think they're not good enough for the other they turn to each other immediately when they break down (like the tiny moment in the court yest 😳, she broke down n he immediately held her) but they are not sure of themselves as just husband n wife.

Then there's the whole mess with Nidhi and Shagun involved 🤢
I would rather the focus solely on Ishra and the kids and how they deal with this instead what has happened here is, they made Raman promise marriage to shaggy n show how she's so in love with Pihu n can't let go n all of that.
Ishra are both wrong for doing what they did all those years back. Raman was further butchered by all the yelling n shouting even later(with no monologue or PoV given till date) now again they are promising Ruhi a happy family but HOW?? are they both not thinking at all.
What are the cvs high on again 😆

everyone's write up here is just brilliant
specially zoya and Qweserasera(don't know ur name)
it is actually irony that ishita has nothing to lose bt shagun is actually feeling insecure
once shagun taunted ishita to be aaya of ruhi,now shagun herself desperately wants the same place(coz she very well knows raman's heart wl always beat fr ishita)

one more thing to notice :
ishita during lift scene heard that raman is dying to be with her
raman in hospital heard that ishita tried suicide
but both chose to ignore it

raman is under the impression that ishita is marrying mani and feels he has lost ishita forever
ishita feels raman no longer loves her amd he has lost raman forever
little do both of them know that they reside in each other's heart
although they have a faint hope that the other still loves them bt can't tell with the fear of rejection

After ishita returned the words that they heard frm each other's mouth is
ishita to raman-"mujhke aapki life me aane ka koi shauk nahi"
raman to ishita-"mai tumse nafrat karta hoo and many more"
so both have taken these words as rejection

The day raman saw ishita in the bed desperate fr ruhi,he panicked and when mani bought her,he kept all his ego aside and thanked mani and also confessed to him that he can never see ishita in pain.the point is that he thanked mani-the man who has always made him feel inferior and he also feels that ishita loves mani bt still he asked sorry and thank you frm him coz fr raman ishita matters the most.

even when he thought ruhi is dead when he sat in mandap,in his dream,he doesn't want a sorry frm ishita as many are saying in this forum.he just wants the words which his ishita said in his dream,he wants ishita to say that she wants to live all her life with him and their kids.the day ishita comes to him and says him that she wants to live with him,he wl leave the whole world to stay with her.Ishita also wants the same things frm raman.the day raman comes to her and says her to come to him,she wl come back.

don't know if what i wrote made sense or not
bt i still love my ishra