Raman Kumar Bhalla, powerless. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Aru.Divan

Raman Kumar Bhalla strongly believed or refused to look at what happened that evening. He did the most easiest thing of hurting his most loved one. His wife, His JKR, His Madrasan, His Ishitha for the loss of his daughter Ruhi who brought the two of them together in to a bond which was unbreakable. Even after she returned he couldn't play his stronger self before her. He loves her the most in the world today but it was today he once again saw how much Ishitha loved Ruhi. It took his brother, Romi to show the mirror. How his harsh words forced his loved ones to stay away from him and act dead even though they were alive. The minute he heard those words he broke down silently. He sat down stunned and sobbed not knowing what to do. His family was no more and he was helpless.

Once again there was a little realization from Raman's side. He immediately did not say yes I am responsible. He realized his single mistake has separated him from his daughter and also a beautiful mother daughter bond also was broken. Then the line which says he is breaking was I am annoyed with Ishitha but can never see her die no matter what. A week back he did not hesitate a minute to insult his wife and her friend. But today the same raman broke to his friend. He will be breaking down very soon and if we cried 2X today that day when proper IshRa reunion happens its going to be 10X.

I love your posts. Thanks to some positivity in the forum

Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005

i saw your comment, and thats what inspired me to post actually. I'm glad i got to let you know that😳

i think mission rescue ruhi is the best way to redeem both characters.

at least ishita is openly now taking responsibility.

raman will, as my post said.

i will always be a little biased. raman is such an interesting character

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Zoya... you are a gem😛

And yes todays raman bhalla was a set of contradictions. ..

Yes, he saw the mirror in terms of not just his pain but what his actions had done to his family, his ishita and his ruhi...

Today he was the helpless father whose daughter rejected him even when he pleaded with her to forgive him..

Today he was also the helpless witness to ishita's breakdown. ..helpless because like you rightly said he feels powerless to make any changes to what destiny has in store for them. .

You know deep within i feel both ishita and raman have a long way to go to forgive each other as parents for what they did to ruhi...where raman voices it..ishita doesnt...but it doesn't mean that she blames raman any less...ishita by nature wants to set things right first and then ponder ..whIle raman is emotional. .he lets out his emotions first before acting. ..

And thirdly i would take this one line which tjhe whole forum is on fire on. . With a pinch of salt..because they were told to mani... the one man who still can make RKB totally powerless ..because in his heart ishita trusts mani more than him.. and probably he feels she loves him too...

And hence raman would never b tell mani his true feelings or his realization about ishita. It is always going to be cloaked under arrogance..false pride..and self preservation tactics..that's why one on hand he says he still blames her and tjhe very next moment he lets the cat out of the bag saying he can't see her in this state..

I mean the man who just days back spewed venom saying he wished her dead can't even see her in pain. .her agony is still his agony..I mean what more is needed as proof of true love...

That said. .I think cvs changed their mind about letting raman unravel ..they edited 2 crucial scenes in the last few epis..one where he stands up for ishita against shagun and tjhe other today when he goes crazy with worry and numb with ishita's breakdown and is shown not k eaving her bedside. Holding her hand..

Looks like they want to go tjhe accident track way..withholding raman's pov and his state of mind till the climax..

Till then they will torment viewers with glimpses good and bad .. and use those as tjhe basis for the actions of shagun, mani, amma, vandu..etc. ..

Dunno how far the v tactic would work..but it means the audience misses out on a beautiful phase in ishras relationship😕

Originally posted by: swatica

@red...

ishita to blames him bt dosnt make a ruckus of it.. she dosnt announce to al..

n glimpses hv been shown...

-whn raman ws drunk n she left him... aapne hi kaha tha na ki mian aapse durr chali jau.. toh main jaa rahi hu.. it ws in anger... anger of nt supporting her whn she needed him..

-hopsital scene whr she bursts out on him.. she subsisded his anger whn pihu asked her to move out.. dat anger turned to breakdown... pain..

-her dialog to amma in today olv.. jo saat saal pehle hua wo nhi hoga... main waha sirf ruhi ke liye ja rahi hu.. n fir uske baad wapas aa jaungi.. an indirect blame dat she wont accept n live wid raman...

@blue..

thank u for ds line..

it kind of subsided d anger in me wich rose up d moment i heard dat pinch of salt line...

ds thread n ur ds vry line gv me positivity...

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

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It is funny how I mindlessly reserve a post on your thread without reading it or even watching the episode 😆 😆 In the hope of finding something really amazing here 😳 And never have I been proven wrong 😳

I have a lot of things to say about today's episode, but will focus on the subject of this thread for this post - Raman Kumar Bhalla.

First of all, I really don't get the hue and cry on his today's dialogue. He has said far worse and far illogical stuff than this. Does this mean it made sense? No.

In fact what followed after his statement is what ACTUALLY makes sense. That he can't see Ishita die.

Because he simply can't.

Because he loves her. He won't accept it now, but he knows he does. The man who wished her to die a few weeks ago, the man who barred her from taking Ruhi's name, the same man wants her to live now, wants her to see her Ruhi once.

To be honest, even I am a little biased towards Raman. That does not guarantee that I blindly follow him and his deeds. It just means that I understand him, maybe better than a lot of other people. And that, you do too 😊 I love your theory of Raman's self-preservation, by hurting others before he's hurt, shooting multiple daggers before even a single arrow is shot towards him. I believe it too, sometimes.

What I permanently believe in though - is the heavily flawed man, scorned time and again, who hides into his shell at the faintest of movement around him, like a scared turtle. His shell is his armor. And his armor, which he assumed to be impenetrable, has started to show chinks.

Why I don't completely believe your theory this time is because he's not vying for power here. When he lost Ruhi all those years ago, he lost that first person who loved him selflessly, unconditionally, even when he couldn't reciprocate the love back. He lost the daughter who used to wait to talk to her father, but her father was too busy to call her back. He lost the daughter who made him feel loved, much before true love walked into his psyche in the form of Ishita. And that's a huge loss. When he lost her, suddenly everything was hazy, and chaotic, and painful. And to cope up with that loss, he pinned the blame on the first person he could pin it on, because even though he knows and believes Ishita could do no harm to Ruhi, he did believe that hers was the final nail in the coffin of a series of mistakes.

Was he right? Absolutely not.

Probably he does know it all, but needs an external form to shove into his face for the realization to finally break through. That today was Ruhi first, and Romi later. Because if Ishita's mistake caused Niddhi to flee, it was HIS mistake that got them all there in the first place, and that is something that has been thrown at him for the very first time.

When he said - Nobody could be angrier than I was with Ishita, because of what happened to Ruhi. He meant that he has always blamed her for Ruhi's demise (or kidnap here), tried to hate her, but to see her die for Ruhi, is beyond even his capacity to handle things. And that's as close to I love her damitt! as it he could say right now.