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Zoyamalik2005

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: DivanIshraru
thnx fr giving a proper pov of raman
ys
raman has at times been jealous of ruhi coz ishu loves her the most
and maybe that is what he ws talking abt in bathroom
bt what ws he talking to end??
if u can then please elaborate

He said he'd end everything. He thinks he's lost everything. Ishita is marrying mani, and Ruhi is no more. This is the final nail in the coffin. The final act of self sabotage. Otherwise Raman will always latch onto some teeny tiny hope, and it may get crushed, and it may hurt a thousand times more. So he chooses to self sabotage and end all hope. The hope he may have felt in the hotel room as Ishita lay in his arms for example. To loose it all over the next day after realising he made an anger fuelled promise to another woman who his daughter thinks is her mother.

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kaa1202

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Simple yet complex... Nicely written Zoya...😊

He thinks he is not fit for her..

She thinks he is better off without her..

Irony is all the other people know that they r soulmates...😆

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gargpoo

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Superb analysis zoya..u always bring positivity
This is the reason i m pissed with cvs..
Y they dont give proper raman's pov..
Y we hv to interpret always...y they nvr show his fear his insecurity ...his biggest fear his love is not enough he mentioned ystrday ...he is not thinking straight he drove her away...
Thats y he is misundersood always..
I can nvr doubt his love for ishita n ishita's love for him...bt cvs show this like its always kids k liye..
Both r in pain...dono tadap rahe hai ..i wish jst once they talk to each other ...jo akele mein bolte hai ek baar ek dusre se bol de...i jst cant c them in pain..it hurts!!

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bscorp13

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Can I double like this post😛..loved it..👏

And come to think of it..it's actually very very true. ..you know after raman's monologue today I was kind of thinking that raman was hiding again, he was extremely vulnerable and defenseless in n the face of all his emotions threatening to come out after seeing ishita ..th a t he chose to now hide again. .hide behind the ruhi ke liye for the reason he let ishita go.. and pihu ke liye for marrying shagun..whereas in both the cases the reason was only and only ishita. He was hurting and crying because he now had het in front of his eyes but could no longer claim her and hence he said they 'couldn't' be together because ruhi was no longer there to bind them. .and then he couldn't bear to see her move on with someone else hence he was going far away before he might have to face it. . So tjhe pihu ke liye marriage with shagun.

But then what you said here makes more sense...he has always been insecure of his position in ishita's life.. the same way she has been in his life..while her worry was shagun and her barrenness..his worry has been that he was always second to ruhi..

Ruhi was always ishita's first love..or so he felt. ..and sadly ishita did demonstrate that too in the early days of their love story,.pretty strongly when she suspected that shagun might want to take ruhi away. ..and Raman has seen for the second time that when ruhi died. .ishita chose to die and then stay away rather than come back for him and hence that deep set insecurity resurfaced..

Yup today he clearly said. .he was for the first time post leap. ..expressing how hard a deal fate had dealt all 3 of them. ..he saI'd ruhi bound them together and since she wasn't around. .both ishita and raman couldn't be together too..yes .. you nailed it zoya..he feels strongly that ishita doesn't see a life with him without ruhi..

And sadly ishita believes that Raman blames her for ruhis death and hence will not accept her back and love her back ever ..

So both are saying ..only if ruhi was there...but deep within both just need a reason to be with each other. ..fools truly😆😳

Edited by bscorp13 - 9 years ago

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.riah.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Nicely written Zoya 😃... Yet again

Raman and Ishita are worst than babies 😆

They are so so perfect together yet only they think they're not right for each other 😕

That one crazy night together and all the hatred and anger had vanished. All that was left was unspoken words and the heartbreak and the pain of being without each other 😭

I wish they had said all that to each other instead of themselves.

Like Ishita said in her monologue- mera to rom rom toot raha hai.

Today I felt like going n slapping them and giving them both a tight hug.

Na unn dono ka kuch hoga na humara 😆

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dreamzsrk

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Hi zoya, I always loved the positivity that you have shown . Even today the way you looked at the situation amaze me.

Regarding today's episode I fail miserably to connect with Raman's character. Just can't understand from where does this pihu ke liye rant suddenly came from?

Was not the marriage proposal got birth from Raman on a different circumstance? Pihu never asked them to remarry nor Raman thought about it in the past 7 years. So why all of a sudden justifying his act in the name of Pihu.

This is purely a bad script from writers . They want to show Raman as toned down from his abusive world but at the same time want the viewers to engross with the marriage drama. Result is such a shabby script. Hell with CVs

Edited by dreamzsrk - 9 years ago

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Merav

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Hi I have one RKB dialogue for you
" tum kis mitti ki bani ho yaar "
😊 written beautifully... With this I can make out how beautiful your innerself must be!!!!!

Immensely enjoy reading your posts.

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NINALOGY

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Nice post zoya
I agree with you .
Ishita came into his life for ruhi k liye and After ruhi gone she also left him .Both of them are insecure
In child escape track Ishita Ran away with ruhi and raman was broken , he said that tum dono meri duniya ho .He was in fear that Ishita will leave him , If ruhi Went .And This Was actually happen .That's why he considered ruhi as a dor of their relationship.
But this time , I want them to reunite not for ruhi, adi or pihu just for each other
I feel pain for both of them in today's episode .
Seriously they are fools in love .

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sunitas123

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005

He said he'd end everything. He thinks he's lost everything. Ishita is marrying mani, and Ruhi is no more. This is the final nail in the coffin. The final act of self sabotage. Otherwise Raman will always latch onto some teeny tiny hope, and it may get crushed, and it may hurt a thousand times more. So he chooses to self sabotage and end all hope. The hope he may have felt in the hotel room as Ishita lay in his arms for example. To loose it all over the next day after realising he made an anger fuelled promise to another woman who his daughter thinks is her mother.

Raman has stopped listening as well. ishita told him she is not getting married. Plus she had come today to meet him, why did he drive her away? He has always been accusing her o trying to sabotage his wedding with Shagun! Whats going on?

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kaa1202

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: gargpoo
Superb analysis zoya..u always bring positivity
This is the reason i m pissed with cvs..
Y they dont give proper raman's pov..
Y we hv to interpret always...y they nvr show his fear his insecurity ...his biggest fear his love is not enough he mentioned ystrday ...he is not thinking straight he drove her away...
Thats y he is misundersood always..
I can nvr doubt his love for ishita n ishita's love for him...bt cvs show this like its always kids k liye..
Both r in pain...dono tadap rahe hai ..i wish jst once they talk to each other ...jo akele mein bolte hai ek baar ek dusre se bol de...i jst cant c them in pain..it hurts!!

Exactly Poonam..

Even now by not voicing out his monologues he is the one who will be looked as villain from any side- be it from Shagun, Pihu or Ishita...

CVs have so much love for Raman it seems...😆