Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream
The tactics of Adi is only reflecting that the boy hasn't changed. He still believes in the age old mantra of scheming and hurting people and get things which he wants. He has done all this earlier in the name of his love for Shagun and now he is doing same in the name of loving Ishita. At that time he wanted Shraman to be together and now he wants IshRa together.
1) He did not think twice before giving Raman mushrooms to he is allergic and things could have turned the other way, hence hurting his father physically.
2) He has his father arrested under torturing his mother which is again not correct.
He wasn't right earlier and he isn't right today also as he cannot use these tactics which would hurt people to get his way.
There is a difference ...
He's not doing something for his love for Ishita.. More for his love for his parents, especially Raman whom he has been watching suffering for last 7 years without Ishita. Yes like everyone in his family, he knows if anyone who can tame the uncontrollable rage of Raman, it's Ishita and he believes in his heart that both love each other.. So he's trying to bring them together. Unlike before where he was a puppet to Shagun's brainwashing or was driven by his own loathing for Ishita or Raman( in the beginning) and would go any length to harm them if they came in his way. And in his defense , he was a child that time.. Who didn't know good from bad.. Once he started realizing that.. He had turned around.
Yes feeding his father mushroom to get a reaction from Ishita was a mistake .. I agree. But then if everyone makes mistakes and is termed human for that , why can't we give him that benefit of doubt. If you notice, he's the one who had rushed to get Raman's anti-histamines too? So harming Raman was never his intention unlike his childhood where he would harm somebody .
About your second point... As much as I get Raman's pov and understand the root of his anger... The fact remains he's extremely verbally abusive to Ishita... In fact in real life , what he did 7 years ago that led to Ishita attempting suicide would have been a felony for aiding and abetting suicide... But Khair chhodo it's a fictional world and Cvs push the envelope to deliver melodrama and find a Guinea pig to butcher and Raman was the Guinea pig to enable leap. Coming to the point, so Adi's decision to get Raman arrested comes from his righteousness.. Believe it not from his Papa himself who has gone against his family to get anyone who is in the wrong to be arrested... Be it Param or Romi ... I don't yet know the circumstances ( as it's yet to air) leading to Adi getting Raman arrested for torturing Ishita, but going by the self-destructive mode Raman is in these days... It's more of an intervention of the right kind as someone needs to stand up to Raman and tell him his words are hurtful .. Like I have been saying I get the emotions behind his words, but his words are unfit for an educated guy like him. It needs to be curtailed.
Adi is not being self-serving here.. He's trying to bring his parents together.. Sometimes his steps may be wrong .. But not his intention .. Which is completely different from the Adi we had met in 2014/15.
I tried to put across my pov as honestly I can.
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