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Hello people
I was never an ardent follower of this particular soap
But, quite a times I watch it on TV from the hostel during tea time (when they had the 5.30 repeats aired)
Further, when it had a slot change, we coukd easily catch the fresh epis as it coincided with the aupper time
But well, I was never addicted to this and for last few months I have hardly seen much of the episodes aired owing to the busy schedule in this sem
And I sometimes peek into the forums
And from there I have concluded all these points mentioned below
Who actually needs the baby?
Well! I have a cousin, married for more than 15 years and doesn't have any child. When she knew she can never be one, maybe some 3 years to marriage, she enrolled herself to school(she was in mid 12th when she was married off) and completed her PUC, then joined a medical college and is now a practitioner. I have never seen her breaking down and sulking for a baby. She is indeed in pain, but she is courageous enough not to show it to the world. Similar is the case with Ishita. She is an educated and emotionally strong woman and I can relate her to my cousin.
When the doctor had suggested other artificial methods, my cousin denied because she would rather adopt a kid and give him a good and helathy life rather. Right niw, she says she will go on with the treatments and see whether she can conceive naturally. And when asked about other options, she told that as long as her husband loves her and she loves him, not having a baby can never break her.
For other people, you may feel that she is being cold but here, she had accepted her fate. And her husband too, who had never had another marriage or children, readied himself to accept her and their destiny and continued living her as earlier or even more
Now, when Ishita and Raman already have Aditya and Ruhi, I don't understand the point of having a biological child
Every woman should be given the privilege of bearing their own child if possible, stressing if possible. When Ishita had naturally conceived, I won't actually say that it was an insult for infertile women because miracles do happen. And she had never had another sexual intimacy before to point out that she can never ever conceive. Well I had accepted till that point. But what followed I can never understand
Raman needs Ishita to see and feel every stages of pregnancy and child bearing and upbringing
Fine. Some aren't fortunate with the first part
K child upbringing then.
Let's forget how Raman's character was butchered and everything
If the spoilers are coming to be true and a 10 years leap is going to be introduced
Then probably the child will be 9 years old or more
And when Ishita comes back to their life, how the hell is she supposed to raise the child then. It is just like Raman having 3 children with Shagun, and then Ishita came to look after them.
I really don't understand the point why is Raman distancing himself from Ishita so much that, under the pretext pf doing it for her, she will never be with him anymore and all I can conclude here is that, Raman is being selfish. He is naming his selfishness the love for Ishita
When Ishita and His relationship is on the verge of breaking, what will he actually do with the baby?
Now this is an insult to the infertile women
All they need is love care and attention. Not only a child. And when they are deprived of all these, how their mental state will be?
In this scenario, I only see Dr. Manoj(I hate him calling so, because, we get into this profession after so much of toil and this man had ruined the sanctity and purity of this profession) Shagun and Raman himself needing a baby from IshRa.
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I am very inactive in every social media and a couple of days back, happened to open IG and saw tha halla that was machaaying in AH's profile
I am not going to comment much on the personal life issues
But I would like to tell some members that maturity doesn't come with age and please, don't blame on the teens to be jobless, uneducated and immature mad people. Please. I am not a teen but I see, hell lot of active me era out here are teens and if they are oug, even AH won't be having much people as followers
And regarding why AH still continues in this soap even after having such a disgusting plots
The answer is to watch her movies including the South Indian ones, you will get the answer that she was really never bothered about the script. So it is just wasting time tagging her on bad storyline protests
And one more thing
Don't think I am moral policing
But please, On the very same post I have seen some asking the others to go get themselves treated and admitted in the mental hospital, please tone down a bit. It was never their fault that they those people ended up there. Like every hospital where the body is treatwd, these hospitals are where the minds are treated. So pelase respect the place and people, because they are ailing and it really hurts to see people using mental hospital and madness as an abuse
Thank you all
With love
Aisha
I was never an ardent follower of this particular soap
But, quite a times I watch it on TV from the hostel during tea time (when they had the 5.30 repeats aired)
Further, when it had a slot change, we coukd easily catch the fresh epis as it coincided with the aupper time
But well, I was never addicted to this and for last few months I have hardly seen much of the episodes aired owing to the busy schedule in this sem
And I sometimes peek into the forums
And from there I have concluded all these points mentioned below
Who actually needs the baby?
Well! I have a cousin, married for more than 15 years and doesn't have any child. When she knew she can never be one, maybe some 3 years to marriage, she enrolled herself to school(she was in mid 12th when she was married off) and completed her PUC, then joined a medical college and is now a practitioner. I have never seen her breaking down and sulking for a baby. She is indeed in pain, but she is courageous enough not to show it to the world. Similar is the case with Ishita. She is an educated and emotionally strong woman and I can relate her to my cousin.
When the doctor had suggested other artificial methods, my cousin denied because she would rather adopt a kid and give him a good and helathy life rather. Right niw, she says she will go on with the treatments and see whether she can conceive naturally. And when asked about other options, she told that as long as her husband loves her and she loves him, not having a baby can never break her.
For other people, you may feel that she is being cold but here, she had accepted her fate. And her husband too, who had never had another marriage or children, readied himself to accept her and their destiny and continued living her as earlier or even more
Now, when Ishita and Raman already have Aditya and Ruhi, I don't understand the point of having a biological child
Every woman should be given the privilege of bearing their own child if possible, stressing if possible. When Ishita had naturally conceived, I won't actually say that it was an insult for infertile women because miracles do happen. And she had never had another sexual intimacy before to point out that she can never ever conceive. Well I had accepted till that point. But what followed I can never understand
Raman needs Ishita to see and feel every stages of pregnancy and child bearing and upbringing
Fine. Some aren't fortunate with the first part
K child upbringing then.
Let's forget how Raman's character was butchered and everything
If the spoilers are coming to be true and a 10 years leap is going to be introduced
Then probably the child will be 9 years old or more
And when Ishita comes back to their life, how the hell is she supposed to raise the child then. It is just like Raman having 3 children with Shagun, and then Ishita came to look after them.
I really don't understand the point why is Raman distancing himself from Ishita so much that, under the pretext pf doing it for her, she will never be with him anymore and all I can conclude here is that, Raman is being selfish. He is naming his selfishness the love for Ishita
When Ishita and His relationship is on the verge of breaking, what will he actually do with the baby?
Now this is an insult to the infertile women
All they need is love care and attention. Not only a child. And when they are deprived of all these, how their mental state will be?
In this scenario, I only see Dr. Manoj(I hate him calling so, because, we get into this profession after so much of toil and this man had ruined the sanctity and purity of this profession) Shagun and Raman himself needing a baby from IshRa.
****************************************
I am very inactive in every social media and a couple of days back, happened to open IG and saw tha halla that was machaaying in AH's profile
I am not going to comment much on the personal life issues
But I would like to tell some members that maturity doesn't come with age and please, don't blame on the teens to be jobless, uneducated and immature mad people. Please. I am not a teen but I see, hell lot of active me era out here are teens and if they are oug, even AH won't be having much people as followers
And regarding why AH still continues in this soap even after having such a disgusting plots
The answer is to watch her movies including the South Indian ones, you will get the answer that she was really never bothered about the script. So it is just wasting time tagging her on bad storyline protests
And one more thing
Don't think I am moral policing
But please, On the very same post I have seen some asking the others to go get themselves treated and admitted in the mental hospital, please tone down a bit. It was never their fault that they those people ended up there. Like every hospital where the body is treatwd, these hospitals are where the minds are treated. So pelase respect the place and people, because they are ailing and it really hurts to see people using mental hospital and madness as an abuse
Thank you all
With love
Aisha
Indian Idol 15
