Even I was born after eight years of my parent 's marriage😃 problem was with my mother .this is the story from rural part of Bihar that too in eighties when there was no concept of surrogacy no ivf ...on top of that my father was a single child .so you can understand the pressure on my mother .living in a joint family people used name call her like banjh n all , used to suggest different superstitious method going to some baba n all Those days adoption as well as divorce was shameful .so the only choice left was to get married second time without divorcing .once i asked my mother how she coped up in those time she told becoz of 2 people 1. ur paternal grandmother(daadi) 2.ur father.Noone dare to speak a word infront ur granny she used to force her to visit doctor repeatedly when my mum got tired .both of them were like a rock support for her .but after seven years once even my grandmother under influence of someone 's talk thought of getting my father marrried for second time and she hesistintgly suggested this option but my father not only denied but fought with his mother and then she also rejected this idea . after some month of that incident my mother was pregnant with me.i wanted to share this story since starting but couldnt however reading aisha's sister story i remebered mine .also i wanted to say that when my father didnot loose hope and patience in that era n area than how cum serials show such pathetic n regressive things in 2015 .
Just adding something which is not related to this thread n sorry TM for that .
Surrogacy is not bad it gives hope to lots of couple but bringing ur ex is soo damn outright cruel.
Even Shahrukh Khan and Aamir khan went for surrogacy for third child when they already had 2 children .SUPPOSE their ex Priyanka Chopra( rumoured gf of shahrukh ) had become surrogate and in Aamir case his ex wife Rina Dutta had become surrogate for Azad Rao(he is son of kiran and aamir through surrogacy)😉😉. what kind of furore had IT created in media .All feminist organisation would have come on the road raising slogans against Shahrukh and Aamir .Rina/Priyanka would have become most evil .had kiran /Gauri accepeted that child? i dont thinkso. .Poore desh bawandar mach jata sochne me itna bura lag raha h🤢🤢 .but these cvz they are SHOWING THESE PATHETIC THINGS .😡
(sorry for a long post and all the typos errors)😛
Edited by jaanvi_123 - 10 years ago