Was Raman really wrong leaving the house? *Updated*

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Balasri

@Sri1091

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Toshiji reacted impulsively only by listening to one side of their story even she didnot ask raman y did he leave the house... Raman left the house because Romi insulted him that because of him the peace in house is shattered raman was hurt by his words even his dad listened to romi's words and intern shouted on raman that he is wrong dats is d only reason he left the house I don't think raman did any wrong leaving his house

After all what he did for his family he deserves some respect which he is not receiving

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3fra

@3fra

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Raman was not wrong feel sham about Mr ballhs though and putting all blames in poor raman

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

I was a little miffed when I saw Toshi's reaction. She hadn't heard the entire truth, and took a decision, then slapped Raman and the poor guy got cornered even more.. But like we've been justifying everyone here, giving explanations for why each one (apart from Rinki) reacted the way they did. I think I get where Toshi is coming from.

As kids we make a lot of mistakes, sometimes they cross lines as well. Like Romi made the worst ones, Raman might have made many when he was very young. But like Toshi pointed out, no parent abandons the child and goes away.So as a parent whose married off all her kids (well almost) and is now getting old, similar to Mr Bhalla, Toshi has her insecurities too. But if she trusts anyone the most its Raman and Ishita. She knows they handle every situation, take care of everyone and even sacrifice so much for each one of them. But she was angry, she was clueless. She came in all happy and excited to meet all her kids and then found out that her family had broken. All she knew was that Raman had left home. Something that had never happened even when Shagun resided there. So she went and vented her anger on those whom she believed wouldn't ever walk out. It was her love, it was her faith. She's just shocked.

Like Raman stood up for Ishita. Toshi deemed to think that supporting Mr Bhalla was her first duty.

(I am saying this on the basis of what I felt through today's episode and if Mrs Bhalla acts in a way I do not support, my view changes.)

And my faith in her was restored because in the precap she made it obvious she knew who was wrong where and was going to teach them all a lesson.

Coming to your question related to Raman - My answer is NO. I do not think Raman was wrong in leaving the house. He was frustrated, he was misunderstood. He could take his siblings hurling insults at him. But the fact that his father did not think they were in anyway wrong and only supported them was what pushed him to leave. He had reached a breaking point and reacted. So he had every reason to leave. I can't blame him at all..

But at the end of the day, leaving the house is no solution. So if the mother is upset over him for that. I'll give her a benefit of doubt.

Will post more. For now just this.

Edited by -Anku- - 10 years ago

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: -K.13-
Reserveeeddd for laters...😳

While the current track may reflect reality in many areas...I find it hard to stay objective with this track compared to almost every other track, like these characters, these emotions are more powerful. I constantly find myself thinking what I would do in said situation. Maybe once it's over I will find it easier to see all the grey & feel okay with things like Toshiji's reaction, but for now the dil talks. ❤️

#sappy
#Puttar cut his hair

@red ..I know...I went and did a "hallelujah" to the tweet 🤣

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K.S.

@K.S.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

i agree wid ur post gan..i guessed ishu wil not complaint abt others..i so expected dat simmi wil explain toshi wat exactly happened..as she witnessed everything...
toshi heard only one side of d stry..so i don't think she is completely wrong..as a wife she stand up fr her husband..
but i don't lik d thought of parents expecting children to fulfil der duties as dey completed der duties..eventhough raman always kept his family befr him..its not give nd take formula..
p.s: RIP APJ ABDUL KALAAM..

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Wings-of-Fire

@Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

He wasn't. The Bhallas are playing the victim card now which is awful! The only thing that Raman could have done better is, wait till the morning, get a house arranged, have a conversation with Ruhi and Adi about the move and then do it. That house wasn't their home anymore. Raman and Ishita were being oppressed and insulted in every step. That's not how you live, that's not how you keep the family together.

I really got astonished at the double standard Mrs. Bhalla showed! First she berated Raman and then she started with Ishita for being there for her husband!! If her husband is everything to her, why should Ishita's be any different? Why should Ishita put her husband's family before her husband?

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nb.neha

@nb.neha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

things I liked about today's episode

-- ishita's firmness in wanting to talk to Toshiji alone. She made sure she gets that space. I liked the way she told Romi to leave. There was a sense of surpressed anger in her for Romi.

-- the precap. Rinky happily tells her that now everyone has realised Raman bhai's real face. And there Toshiji knows who the main culprit is. She knows Rinki is the cause of such a chaos. So I guess her take on Raman is clear now.

--Raman's silence when toshijI lectures him

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: -Gan-

@red ..I know...I went and did a "hallelujah" to the tweet 🤣

I wanted to tweet "Bhagwaan ka shukar hai" but stopped myself. It would sound mean 🤣 At least he cut them.

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fullhouse

@fullhouse

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Loved it loved it loved... Very good episode.. Showed the elements of a parent-son relationship.. Absolutely awesome episode👏👏👏

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Just wanted to add. It's just been one episode since Toshi has come and although I don't trust her with her decisions at all. For now I am trying and keeping faith in the track. They are showing a lot of elements in this track, from parenting, to family feuds, to younger siblings taking the elders for granted, the miscommunication between father and son etc. Nothing is going to solve in one day it seems, and there might be times that it'll get worse too. But for now the track hasn't really disappointed. It's only impressed.