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Hi Gan,
Was Raman right in leaving the house ? Absolutely. There is only so much a person can take. He had reached the end of his tether, what with continuous accusations and insults being hurled at him and his spouse. Being misunderstood by not only his younger siblings but also by his parent, who had previously too (when he was married to Shagun) stopped speaking with him due to Shagun's manipulation.
Was Toshi right in chastising Raman for leaving the Bhalla house ? I can understand her chagrin. Because she knows her son. She knows he is the only one on whom she can rely. Raman has his faults but, his whole family knows he can lay down his life for them. Toshi also knows, that Raman is the only one she can rely on as support for Mr. Bhalla and herself in their old age.
Were Raman and Ishita right to keep quiet when Toshi was giving them a piece of her mind for leaving the house ? Absolutely. Because under no circumstances would Toshi have listened to their explanation. Rather than aggravate the matter, it was wise that they kept shut and listened to her rant.
Is Ishita right in wanting to speak with Toshi and get the family together ? Absolutely. Why ? Because she realizes that Raman will only be happy once he is back with his family. He is your quintessential family man, who lives and breathes for his family. For all his so called anger and rude behavior, Raman loves his family. He is unhappy being away from them. The family is unhappy that they have left the house.
Raman and Ishita, both are very similar in their love for their family. If Rinky walks up to Raman and apologies, Raman will definitely forgive her transgressions. He is that kind of a person. He loves his wife, parents, siblings, children so much.
The only outcome that I want from this track is that the whole Bhalla family, realises the value of Raman. What he stands for. Who he is and what he does, to which extent he can go for them.
The only two people who really know and understand Raman are Toshi and Ishita. That is why, in my pov, every time Raman screams at her, Ishita forgives him and does not take it too much to heart is because she knows for all her aggressive, abrasive, nasty words, her husband is inherently a good and wonderful man and human being.
Finally, puttar fangirl in me rises to the fore ! I tweeted a lot of nonsense in Gujarati to Puttar in hopes now he does not block me !
I actually tweeted Hallelujah to him for cutting his hair !
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