Bhallaji parents need to be fair too *Combined reply pg 9* - Page 6

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Now with Raman being asked by his mother to not contribute, it would make the others responsible for the expenses of the home. When they would realise how hard it is to run a home they would know what Raman has to do for them and has been doing for so long now, the power and position they detest and assume makes their brother an egostitical maniac comes with responsibilities which they never had to fulfill. Stepping into his shoes now Romi will know how hard it is to fill his brother' shoes and just by saying I can take care of my family a man cant do it by a miracle. It takes a lot of work and if his brother has never allowed them to feel the brunt of things the least they can do is respect him and his wife in return.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Forgot to mention beautiful collages and quotes Gan.

Maya, Aru, Avni, Anu, Anku, Krishy, Becky, Kavya, Nidoo, Sunita, Roshnee, Neha, Boo, Vidya lovely posts all you girls.

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Reserve ! Will comment after I watch the episode ! LU made me sad on behalf of IshRa, I can't imagine, what watching the episode will do. !

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Yesterday's episode was one of the most gut wrenching and heart rending one. I felt bad for Mihir and Raman.

Mihir is such a stand-up guy. So honest, such a pure beautiful soul, who is doing everything in his power to keep Rinky happy. Unfortunately, Rinky seems to be the kind of person who will never be happy even if Mihir were to give her the sun, the stars, the moon. She is the kind of a person who will always peer beyond and ask for something that is out of her grasp.

What upset me was when she tells Mihir, you still believe THAT MAN, whilst referring to Raman. In a blink of an eye she has forgotten all that Raman has done for her. He has become THAT MAN for her, because he wanted to secure his wife and children's future ? How selfish and ungrateful she turned out to be.

The way Sarika got upset and angry with Adi n then slapped him was totally uncalled for. Yes, her child got a tiny scratch. But that did not mean Adi did it deliberately. He was playing with his cousin. Poor kid was so traumatized. Raman was right in defending his son. Until now in the history of YHM we have not seen anyone raise a finger on any child, be it Shravu, Ruhi or Adi. What right did Sarika have to slap Adi when his own parents have never done it . And to top it all instead of defusing the situation, Mr Bhalla aggravates it by chastising Raman ? Mr. Bhalla, favours the girl who was a recent addition to the family, and stood mute when the woman who stood by his family through thick and thin, whilst she was being insulted by his daughter ! I totally got Raman's hurt and anger. He tried to speak and what did Bhallaji do ? He shut him up and walked off.

Romi again reiterated that only Sarika and Rohit were his family.

Raman made the right decision to walk out. Sometimes, distance gives people perspective and helps in making a proper and correct decision. Poor Adi kept blaming himself for the fracas that took place, and I loved the way Ishu consoled him. And also kind of liked what Raman said. Let him realize what families are like.

Did anyone else get a feeling that Romi was feeling guilty when Raman, Ishita and the kids were leaving ? His expression was kind of like that. The way Raman stopped hoping against hope that his father would stop him leaving the house was really sad and heartbreaking. What really made me mad was Sarika saying she will apologize to Raman. Why did she not apologize immediately instead of letting the situation go from bad to worse.

Bhallaji n his tears did not make sense to me. His lament that his family is broken and his support for old age is lost did not get any sympathy from me. In this he is equally responsible for the break down of his family. If he had put Rinky in her place and stopped Romi from spewing venom, things would not have spiralled so out of control !

My heart broke for puttar when he spoke about how he got over Shagun's betrayal and Ruhi's custody and how they stood by him during his darkest hours. Today he was totally and completely isolated by that same family because he stood up for his wife and wanted to secure not only her and his children's future but also their future.

Loved the way even after leaving the house Ishita was still thinking about the family and the way she held puttar and comforted him and stood by him.

Amazing performances by all once again ! I don't think any other tv show actors can match yhm cast. Barring a couple, they are miles ahead in the acting category

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Thanks Aani

I thought this track they are butchering Mr. Bhallaji character but your take on the whole parenting things put the situation in a new perspective for me

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

Very well said 👏

@bold: I think this is THE crux of the issue. All they (Rinky, Romi & Sarika) see is Raman & Ishita at the fore-front, but none of them has an idea as to what goes on behind the scenes. How Raman manages the finances of the house, caters to everyone's whims and fancies in a large family, yet manages to run his business and take care of them emotionally as well. Same for Ishita, how she runs the house like a home-maker, despite being a working woman & never comprising on her professional life either, with 2 grown kids, who need her attention and care the most, yet taking care of each & every member of the family.

I'm waiting for the moment of realization for Romi, when put in Raman's shoes, as well as unfolding of the truth that Ishita is his kid's guarantor. If left to his own self, he would not have a family, because he has no financial standing on his own. It'd be interesting to watch how things unfold.

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

Aani, is it? Thanks 😊

Originally posted by: Aru.Divan

Thanks Aani, and what a brilliant take on the whole track.

It never really struck me till you mentioned. It's all about parenting of a different kind. Loved reading your take 👏

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Aani absolutely love your take on parenting 👏 And how anyone can err at any point. Becoming a parent doesn't make you any less human. This track shows miscommunication between parents even after the son has grown and has his own kids.