Bhallaji parents need to be fair too *Combined reply pg 9*

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 10 years ago

#61

Rinki needs her head examined. She mooched off her brother, went to Australia thanks to her brother. On her return she lived off her brother, and even recently just so she could hang out with her friends and brag about her husband she barely appreciates how easy she's had it so far. What she needs is a swift kick in the rear. What an ungrateful immature twit!👎🏼

If Rinki was still in her bachpana phase what was the rush to get her married. No one twisted her arm to marry Mihir, the final choice was hers. Yet she didn't mince her words when she flung insults at Mihir recently bec' he wouldn't do as she wanted? Mihir has explained to her he will stay loyal to Raman and succeed with him yet she acts like she's got cotton in her ears. Rinki wants him to hook up with a crook like Ashok all for the love of money and status. She's an albatross around Mihir's neck all thanks to Ishita's initation to save face in public..

Romi is dancing to Sarika's mood swings these days. He lived off his brother being the irresponsible dude all these years. Suddenly he's wagging his tongue against his brother bec' of Sarika who is filling his ears with her insecurities. Simmi seems the only normal sibling now. The rest of them turned out to be backstabbers.For a baby that grows so fast, handdowns of used newborn clothes is normal. Sarika taking offense at it when she and Romi couldn't afford to throw money around was just her pride talking. Maybe she's jealous of Ishita's role in the fmaily on some level. She's stirring trouble unknowingly or knowlngly is unclear.

Mr. Bhalla seems to take issue with Ishita and Raman at the drop of a hat these days. Is something else brewing in his mind?😕

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kavya

@s_kavya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: EkPaheli
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Forgot to mention beautiful collages and quotes Gan.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Maya, Aru, Avni, Anu, Anku, Krishy, Becky, Kavya, Nidoo, Sunita, Roshnee, Neha, Boo, Vidya lovely posts all you girls.</font>

Thanks Aani... and loved your post its Brilliant Write up 👏

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#63

I spent the past one hour or so reading all the takes...just brilliant guys👏 I love how this track is leading to great discussions relating to parenting, family complexities, human nature, responsibilities and ofcourse support and love in the face of adversity ...while our perceptions on the same episode are as myriad as expected, they are based solely on our individual experience in life...and to read them is re-watching the show from each of your vantage point...which is so amazing for me...Like I always say I open the thread but what follows is what I call enrichment of my watch of YHM. So many times it has happened that after reading a view I have gone back and watched the episode again from that view point...Today also it has happened...whether it was explaining the responsibilities that Raman and Ishita bear, Sarika's insecurities, or Bhallaji's conditional disciplining, or Parenting as a bigger picture...there were so many different angles to ponder upon. And I'm loving it!

As many of you, this track feels too close to home for me as I have experienced something similar...while in real life MU usually never fully clear up...in fiction thereI is always a possibility of things clearing up soon...and as much wonderful the writing has been I hope it continues as we now move into the possible phase of getting the family to realize Raman and Ishita's values and I really hope a proper redemption track is shown...while Bhallaji is a parent, acknowledging his impulsive judgement could be acceptable...Romi and Sarika need some groveling, especially the former for saying those things to Ishra, Mihir and Bala...and Rinki ...ah well ..it seems like she's getting comfortable in the "Arora women" shoes and it would take a while for her to come down from her sense of entitlement.

Again...thank you guys for enriching my YHM experience and keeping this thread about objective discussion of the track. Take a bow, each one of you!👏

P.S. Sorry for not responding individually as the episode has been too raw for me .😭

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 10 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Glad to know it Maya and frankly what seems like butchering is actually giving the character finally a chance to do something, have some impact on the storyline and not just be a fixture on the periphery of things without any importance. 😳

Hi Aani,

Yeah what you say may be the truth even when I believed they are butchering Mr.Bhalla character I was so mad at him that he did not give a chance to speak to Raman.

I thought for the story line to move Bhalla character has to be comprised because only then Raman will move out of the house otherwise he will take all the insults from his siblings just for his father.

Your write up did give a new perspective but I am wondering whether the CV have even thought about this angle.

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Shivangi Agarwal

@shivangi838

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Posted: 10 years ago

#65

lovely post and collages Gan👏

dis track is giving me old yhm feel and i am loving it , ishra together are simply adorable😳

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Aani

@EkPaheli

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Posted: 10 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Aani,

Yeah what you say may be the truth even when I believed they are butchering Mr.Bhalla character I was so mad at him that he did not give a chance to speak to Raman.

I thought for the story line to move Bhalla character has to be comprised because only then Raman will move out of the house otherwise he will take all the insults from his siblings just for his father.

Your write up did give a new perspective but I am wondering whether the CV have even thought about this angle.

Like I said I believe this to be a good thing, the way Mr. Bhalla is behaving too in terms of story and character development, finally he had something to do in the show after like forever, because he had practically faded into the background since IshRa got married, after convincing Appa and Raman for the match his role had no meat which it finally got and also showing a man like Mr. Bhalla erring isnt all that bad, why cant he make mistakes for once when it comes to his kids huh? Why should it always be Toshi who believes in ruining the lives oops ruling and running the lives of her kids via holy matrimony 😆😆😆

No one is perfect and here Mr. Bhalla got his chance at imperfection and some spotlight finally

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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: MERARAI
Rinki needs her head examined. She mooched off her brother, went to Australia thanks to her brother. On her return she lived off her brother, and even recently just so she could hang out with her friends and brag about her husband she barely appreciates how easy she's had it so far. What she needs is a swift kick in the rear. What an ungrateful immature twit!👎🏼
If Rinki was still in her bachpana phase what was the rush to get her married. No one twisted her arm to marry Mihir, the final choice was hers. Yet she didn't mince her words when she flung insults at Mihir recently bec' he wouldn't do as she wanted? Mihir has explained to her he will stay loyal to Raman and succeed with him yet she acts like she's got cotton in her ears. Rinki wants him to hook up with a crook like Ashok all for the love of money and status. She's an albatross around Mihir's neck all thanks to Ishita's initation to save face in public..

Romi is dancing to Sarika's mood swings these days. He lived off his brother being the irresponsible dude all these years. Suddenly he's wagging his tongue against his brother bec' of Sarika who is filling his ears with her insecurities. Simmi seems the only normal sibling now. The rest of them turned out to be backstabbers.For a baby that grows so fast, handdowns of used newborn clothes is normal. Sarika taking offense at it when she and Romi couldn't afford to throw money around was just her pride talking. Maybe she's jealous of Ishita's role in the fmaily on some level. She's stirring trouble unknowingly or knowlngly is unclear.

Mr. Bhalla seems to take issue with Ishita and Raman at the drop of a hat these days. Is something else brewing in his mind?😕

hey,

very good comment...just wanted to share an opinion bt Sarika...actually dont know if i am welcome here to comment...but cudnt stop from sharing

i think her refusal to accept the clothes n doubting Ishita, was also a result of lack of guidance from an elderly person...she has been alone during her pregnancy...so maybe she doesnt know that old soft clothes is usually used for the new borns, as their skin is soft and can be easily bruised due to new clothes...so her lack of guidance n insecurity, lead her to doubt Ishita's harmless gesture...just the way Raman doubted Simmi's intention of keeping Raman's toys away from the baby...

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Nidoo

@-Silencia-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Mr. Bhalla is guilty of judging things based on half a knowledge and his siblings, mostly Rinky and Romi are acting on impulsiveness and selfishness. Romi should definitely learn what it is to take care of a family, bear the expenses for a month, just a month and know how hard it is to make money to pay the bills for everything that he forever took for granted.

But I am sure when it happens he would again accuse Ishita, citing that had she not ruined a good business oppurtunity for him he would have been doing so well today, not realising or knowing the entire situation.

Rinky should be just left to her own devices by Mihir and her family for once, the sense of entitlement she has without wanting to work or shoulder any responsibility would be promptly washed away, but alas it wont happen I just hope though she isnt left scot free at the end of this track because she is the one who started this and is making things worse for everyone.

@Bold About Mr. Bhalla, I think every thing stems from his ego, as I mentioned in the post. Having lived in a big family for a good part of my life, I have observed that parents, after a certain age, tend to start thinking negatively, they start to feel unwanted, especially when their kids have kids of their own and begin to take major decisions of their lives, as well as household. Connecting Mr. Bhalla's reactions to real situations, I kind of understand where he comes from. He's going through this insecure age, and one word from his eldest son about him (the son) being the one running this house just fuelled the old-age insecurity and bruised his ego. Thereafter, whatever he heard, didn't hear, becomes immaterial for him. All he knows is that his son can't take the lead violently like this because he's the patriarch.

For Romi & Rinky, in addition to impulsiveness and selfishness, it is also immaturity. Simmi was a lot like this before she came to know about Param's true identity. Romi & Rinky, have not had as life-shattering a problem as her or Raman and so never really grew up into mature, responsible members of the family. Romi, became a li'l sober after his medical reports, but then, maybe not so much. Rinky, even though her groom turned out to be a fraud, Mihir saved the day. From one comfortable home to another.

But as you also said previously, this is also about parenting. Mr. & Mrs. Bhalla never took efforts to make their other kids as responsible as they did with Raman. But Mihir grew up, because his parent was Raman, and not Bhallaji & Toshiji. If Mihir could start learning from his bhai since the age of 16, what stopped Romi and Rinky back then?

Coming to how they should pay for the hurt they've cause IshRa, I wouldn't mind them surviving through a bit of hardships and coming out stronger. They need to realise the extent of the pain they've caused, before they apologise.

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Nidoo

@-Silencia-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Yeah, Hi, good to make your acquaintance Nidoo and welcome to YHM forum 😊

Same here 😊 And Thank you 😃

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Nidoo

@-Silencia-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: anjs

hey,

very good comment...just wanted to share an opinion bt Sarika...actually dont know if i am welcome here to comment...but cudnt stop from sharing

i think her refusal to accept the clothes n doubting Ishita, was also a result of lack of guidance from an elderly person...she has been alone during her pregnancy...so maybe she doesnt know that old soft clothes is usually used for the new borns, as their skin is soft and can be easily bruised due to new clothes...so her lack of guidance n insecurity, lead her to doubt Ishita's harmless gesture...just the way Raman doubted Simmi's intention of keeping Raman's toys away from the baby...

A very valid point! She's no had elderly guidance for a long time. Her mother used to keep ill, the Param fiasco, the Romi fiasco, then handling her pregnancy entirely on her own, the Abhishek mystery. She's bound to have family trust issues. Hence, her reactions are almost always around the issues of financial & emotional security for herself and her kid.