Bhallaji parents need to be fair too *Combined reply pg 9*

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Krishy you ok sweetie? why are you on meds?

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Gan-
Krishy you ok sweetie? why are you on meds?

I'm fine...just a horribly sore throat & possible fever probably due to being busy & a lack of sleep.

Thank you for asking! 🤗

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kavya

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Beautiful college Gan.. Loved that scen beautifully emoted by Ishra/DiVAn. ❤️ even i didn't understood sarika the way she behaved was kinda weird for me.. liked how neelu was also sad about the way this hsppy family splitting her FB's those happy moments of bhalla family were good..felt bad for Adi and Ruhi poor kids were so sad .. the track have been Amazing till now enjoyed almost episodes of this week ...

Lovely college and lovely post as well Gan 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: -K.13-

I'm fine...just a horribly sore throat & possible fever probably due to being busy & a lack of sleep.

Thank you for asking! 🤗

Take care and rest then...sleeping is the best way to recuperate ...🤗

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fullhouse

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Gan-

Ok fair point...then my question to you is why was Bhalla ji quiet when Romi was abusing Raman, Ishita, Mihir and Bala...where was his fairness there. If Raman was wrong of being hot headed, he was ready to apologize and went to do so the very next day...Did Bhalla ji give him the chance.?

Yes according to Bhallaji the matter was between Rinki and Ishita...but then he didnt hear the whole thing right? Why was Rinki accusing Ishita? It was because of Raman's decision to give power of attorney to Ishita..It was not really a matter between Ishita and Rinky but really Rinky accusing Ishita over a matter that Raman did.

So let's be fair...If Raman shouting at Sarika and Rinki was wrong...how does Romi get away with not only screaming but abusing and maligning all the people who are much older to him in age, and respect? If Bhallaji had said something to stop Romi, I would have understood...

you feel Bhallaji was right, in my eyes he was not because he was not consistent..hence I tagged him as unfair.

p.s . I agree with you Raman needs to watch his mouth...but his family seems to have been used to his mouth...why the allergy all of a sudden..that's the question

All I was saying is there is a difference between a big brother and the father of the house.. No one can deny that when Raman gets angry, he behaves like an arrogant boss "mera ghar" meraye...And yes family is used to that but they are used to a wrong habit of Raman.. And I am happy that now Bhallaji has taken the initiative to keep Raman at toes...

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I read three posts from the 1st page, Anu, Anku and Krishy's and I'm overwhelmed already...😭
I'll quote and respond later..fantastic post guys...True that this episodes have brought out our own emotional reaction to the rawness onscreen...because the track has such a 'real' feel and the actors have taken it to another level with their flawless enactment.

A discussion point, how will Toshiji react? will she be the impulsive one or the sensible one? that's where my curiosity lies now.

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Originally posted by: fullhouse

All I was saying is there is a difference between a big brother and the father of the house.. No one can deny that when Raman gets angry, he behaves like an arrogant boss "mera ghar" meraye...And yes family is used to that but they are used to a wrong habit of Raman.. And I am happy that now Bhallaji has taken the initiative to keep Raman at toes...

okay...then what about Romi? Do you feel Romi's behavior needed some censure from the father as well or not?

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: fullhouse

All I was saying is there is a difference between a big brother and the father of the house.. No one can deny that when Raman gets angry, he behaves like an arrogant boss "mera ghar" meraye...And yes family is used to that but they are used to a wrong habit of Raman.. And I am happy that now Bhallaji has taken the initiative to keep Raman at toes...

Not to butt in, but I don't think this is how this will help tone down Raman's short temper. There have been many instances in the past Bhallaji could've talked to Raman, who has yelled at all his siblings, Toshiji, & his wife in the past. By keeping Raman at toes through this method...Bhallaji will only further the sense of hurt & isolation Raman is feeling, and this could escalate into Raman being taken to a place where he would not be able to go back the loving son he has been.

Idk...If I were in Raman's shoes, I don't know if I would ever be the same after this - I could go back to providing for them and fulfilling my responsibility, but I would carry that hurt with me for a while. But I say this because from the earliest points of this show, I could relate to Raman's emotions more than most other character's on this show.

This is a delicate situation. We as viewers feel more of Raman's hurt because we have seen how much he sacrifices for his family & we've seen him break down multiple times in the last week. Mr. Bhalla is not wrong in expecting respect from his son. However, he is so hurt right now that he may not be able to understand Raman's hurt. This is also the case for Raman & Romi. Raman feels taken advantage of & hurt that he cannot objectively see how his anger isn't helping things. Romi is too insecure thanks to his recently gained family that he cannot see how his words have the ability to shatter relationships.

But that's the magic of this track so far - we all relate to & empathize more with different characters, but can still have enriching discussions about the other POVs. 😃

(sorry for the rambling today...defo didn't mean for this to happen...😳)

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K.S.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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heart touching collage...nd im liking a track after a long time..
Res- wil b back aftr watchng d epi..

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Gan-
I read three posts from the 1st page, Anu, Anku and Krishy's and I'm overwhelmed already...😭
I'll quote and respond later..fantastic post guys...True that this episodes have brought out our own emotional reaction to the rawness onscreen...because the track has such a 'real' feel and the actors have taken it to another level with their flawless enactment.

A discussion point, how will Toshiji react? will she be the impulsive one or the sensible one? that's where my curiosity lies now.

From the OLV's it seems like a mix of both. She sees Mr Bhalla's tears and without hearing the whole story slaps Raman. Then she and Ishita team up to resolve issues. But again she is going to be questioning and doubting Ishita when she's unable to keep her promise due to an uncontrollable issue. So she's not going to be consistent here either.