Darare *Updated* - Page 4

Originally posted by: mreshma

@Bold...Friend, in that case I think Raman's two Get Out is equal to Ishita's one Jhadu act...Bhallaji, Romi n Mihir were right there when she was beating up n ordered Raman to stay outside...If not Romi or Mihir, atleast Bhallaji should have stopped his DIL from behaving insanely with his son...But I guess he was mute spectator there also...So, what I say is all those issues were just btwn IshRa, they resolved it on their own lovingly and none of the family members disrespected either of them after these issues... Raman n Ishita both were treated with equal love n respect after all these instances and I think egs. r plenty...

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Gan,

Beautiful collages.

Bala and Raman bond over wife was nice to watch especially because of the laugh in Raman eyes regarding Bala condition and Bala fake anger on him.😊

After a long time it was nice to watch Bala and Ishita scene alone I always liked the love they have for each other it surpass the normal sali and jiju relationship.😊

Vandu is one cute character 😆she was spitting mad the second Ishita mentioned gift her whole tone changed. I get that is hormonal imbalance after pregnancy😉

Bhalla and Iyers conversation was nice but not believable if Bhallaji was only angry because Raman spoke with disrespect with his married sister and not about the transfer of property to Ishita he would have stepped in when Romi was spewing venom 😡 against his bhabhi who is considered as a mother figure. He did not even ask why he was speaking venom he just sent them to the room.

Mihir is one gem of person👏 I wish I can see that type of person in real life I would bound that person to myself and never let go😆 I thought after precap that he would leave Raman so that there is peace in Bhalla house but boy oh boy I was wrong Mihir is such a loyal guy even after incurring so many insults he stands by his bhai but looks like tomorrow Raman may ask to leave after knowing the real intention of his sister,😡

I hope CV keep Mihir and Raman bond intact and don't destroy it for TRP please

Sarika is not wrong when with half the information she has she wanted to secure her and her baby future but she is wrong when she asked the clothes to be thrown away in garbage. If she did not wish to speak to Ishita she could have given to Neelu asking her to give it back to Ishita because Ishita specifically said some are Adi clothes which was kept by mummyjii for me throwing out clothes which was not hers to throw out means you are insulting and disrespecting that person

I am wondering why in the world Romi is entailed to get business from Bala even if Ishita doesn't say anything he destroyed Bala and Vandu secure future now they are trying to make ends meet and just because he started a business he is automatically entitled to Bala business.

I was okay with the misunderstanding and somewhat okay with him speaking with Ishita in angry tone but why the hell he has to bring in and insult Bala and Mihir and then insult Raman and Ishita for his preconceived notion that she is destroying his business even when Raman told him to tell what the problem was instead of telling he was busy insulting.

Once the misunderstanding clears they would fall on IshRa feet but I for one don't want them to be forgiven I am just that petty but Ishita will forgive in a instant because family is more important but at least I don't want Raman to forgive them that doesn't mean for him not to do his duty he can do his duty but never shower love on them.

Once again I love this bond between Mihir and Raman. Mihir did not say anything even when he was insulted but when his bhai was insulted he stepped in. Raman even though was standing up for his wife lost all sense of balance when Mihir was insulted and started hitting Romi👏 the only saving grace I have for Romi is he did not raise his hands on his bhai.

I really liked Romi character because even though he did so many khannds I liked him for his loyalty to bhai and bhaibhi but that is also shattered to pieces he doesn't have any redeemable quality anymore😡

Ishita should learn that she should be selfish sometimes not to think about other welfare all the time.

I loved how Raman comforted her.

I loved the way he stood up for his wife and told Romi what is the problem spill out but remember one thing I will kill you alive if you disrespect her. Man oh Man Raman was so hot and handsome in his angry avatar with black shirt☺️

Kudos to Cv for delivery another brilliant episode and actors for enacting it beautifully👏

I feel sorry for Mihir for such a nice person he ends up with a rotten end of the deal instead of appreciating him his wife is treating him like a trophy.😡

I thought Toshjii will be supporting IshRa but seeing SBB she is coming and striaght away slapping Raman for leaving the house did not bode well with me. If she has gathered all the facts and then slapped Raman for leaving the house then I am okay with it but without gathering all the facts and hits Raman then I am going to be one angry person because why in the Bhalla house IshRa cannot be given a benefit of doubt.

Originally posted by: Sri1091

I totally loved mihir in today's episode... No wonde y raman gives him dat much importance he deserves it he is the only person who trusts raman yest Rinki said it ryt "we have blood relationship with bhai bt y mihir is behaving lyk dat even wen I am not" Romi over reacted bt he only knows half truth can't blame him... Rinki is the main reason for all d mess she is the whol planted doubts in everyone's mind she is becoming lyk shagun... I loved d way how mihir told her dat he will give whatever she wants bt working with raman he is gem of a person...

Originally posted by: -Anku-

WOW - This track has made us come out of our shells in relation to discussing YHM isn't it? 😆

I have just so much to say today that's kind of hard to put it down to a good/sensible post.

I'll start from the scratch too. Mr Bhalla's issue with Raman was that Raman spewed something in anger and raised his voice at Rinki. But today when Romi barged in the house he spoke so much trash, unprovoked to everyone possible. He spoke rudely to Ishita, Raman, Bala and Mihir. Why did Mr Bhalla stay quiet? He asked them to stop fighting but did he once shut Romi up, reprimand him like he did with Raman and tell him to mind his tongue? Okay you're angry at Raman, but what have Mihir or Bala done that you couldn't stand up for them?

Romi and Sarika got insecure. The fights and misunderstandings got to them and they ended up thinking wrongly. TAKEN. But has Romi ever looked back at all the trash he has done? He ruined Mihir and Mihika's pure relation by that MMS. He got Bala fired and in a dire situation that lasts till today. His robbery in Raman's office finally lead Raman to leave his job. All these people have forgiven him, keeping such a big heart and adore and pamper him still today. And he has the audacity to question why Raman supports them over him? Can Romi even be trusted. He climbs one step up and 20 down the next day.

Today he crossed all limits of decency when he in his rant, bought back horrible memories by mentioning Shagun. The tone he used while saying 'biwiyan'. It was almost as if he was maligning his brother for having had one failed marriage. Maybe he didn't mean it but it sounded dirty. He called Bala a baharwala, Mihir too. But honestly Mihir is more a brother to Raman than Romi can EVER be.

What a man he is. It's not his worshiping, following Raman that makes me love him. It is his honesty, his understanding towards his brother and bhabhi that appeases me. He is such a noble, soft hearted man. He does not deserve to have a wife like Rinki.

Coming to IshRa - I felt pained to see them be accused for something they hadn't done. They weren't merely misunderstood and shunned, they were maligned and insulted. I wish Ishita didn't take her insult lying down. But she probably isn't made up of a single mean bone in her. Was SO SO proud to see Raman as her pillar. People can call him a Joru ka Ghulam, or henpecked or pet or whatever. But he's a true man who stood up for the honour of a woman who deserves it all. Raman's support, strength and trust in her was moving.

It's heart breaking to see the family forget whatever IshRa have done so far, through one instance. And even worse to see Raman being misunderstood so badly here. Ishita is YES. But here it's all going to fall on Raman.

I just hope that Raman and Ishita get their due respect back. This track should not in anyway conclude in Raman having to make amends. Yes he was partly wrong in raising his voice in front of Mr Bhalla, but everyone else was way more responsible for all the mess created. For once, Raman and Ishita both deserve to get their dues.

P.S - Can't say enough about the performances. They took the episode to another level. 👏

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I seriously love that quote in relation to this show! ❤️

Also Mihir is just amazing, bas. He deserves happiness & peace of mind. Nazar naa laage Mihir-Raman ki jodi par.

As for the rest of the episode - I'm planning on curling up in bed with a box of Kleenexes & watch this week's episodes! 😃

Originally posted by: s_kavya

Your collages are explaing depth of the emotions which Beautifully portrayed by actors in today's Epi.. Beautiful collages Gan 👏

Loved the Epi very realistic fab performance by everyone ... the episode showed how sometimes half truth and MU leaves bitter taste in relationships and breaks families...

Loved bala Raman scen bala is a person who always understand ishra very well he always helps ishra guide them give them good advice i love his bond with both ishu and Raman and always enjoy his scen with ishra... vandu bala are sweet couple after ishra .. i really admire them and both actors portraying there character very well 😳

Raman and romi scen was awesome both KP and Aly were superb and others who were present in that scen were also good... i understand romi was having MU .. and he was hurt and angry but still the way he behaved with ishita was not at all acceptable and when Raman stepped in he didn't spare Raman.. mihir.. bala he said very awful things crossed all boundaries and I know may be after sometime ishra and all will forgive him but still what happened it was very disappointed ...

Mihir is a really a gem a very sensible person he again prooved why Raman trust him and love him so much.. Loved his honesty the way he explained Rinky and assured her he will give her everything all luxurious whatever she wants but he will not leave Raman he will grow will be more successful but only with Raman... i hope mihir always remain like this

I didn't liked the way sarika said there family is now only she..romi and rohit .. ok even if she have MU.. doubts on ishra still what about other bhalla family members Mr and Mrs bhalla... simmi . Ananya.. Adi Ruhi.. she doesn't consider them as her family ? And they call ishra selfish like seriously !!

Ishra my heart goes out for this two.. the way first Rinky and now romi said so many hurtful things to them .. the way romi told ishu not to touch rohit.. the way romi blamed Raman for always sideing others.. how much all this must have hurt them.. the way ishu was crying saying that she must have done something wrong .. Really felt bad for them 😭 loved the way puttar told her not to cry that we know na we not wrong .. Loved how they are there for each other ❤️

CV 's doing good job here .. enjoying this track .. Will be waiting to read your take on Epi Gan 😳

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Garaz Parast Jahan Mein
Wafa talash na kar
Yeh Sheh bani thi kisi
Doosre Jahaan ke liye

In this self-centered world, do not search for faithfulness

for such a thing was designed for a world other than our own

Growing up, thanks to my parents I was exposed to many classics of Indian cinema. Some of my favorite songs happen to be from an era, when I wasn't even born yet. This is one of them.

A fan of Mohammed Rafi, this is one of those songs, which I have heard so many times and yet can never tire from it. There' such pathos in the lyrics and the way Rafisaab has sung it just touches your heart and makes you feel quite melancholic yourself.

I could think of no better words than one of the stanzas of this song to describe the situation at hand where Ishita and Raman are concerned.

We grow up thinking family is everything; these people that are your own. Come what may, even when everything in the world, everyone else in the world would let you down or leave you alone or hurt you, they would have your back, they would be there for you.

It's what you know and learn, it is what you consider to be the one thing that wont change or abandon you.

Your parents raise you with the concept that you look after your own, to share their joys and sorrows. To stand by as their rock in their time of need and not back down no matter what.

All you must and can expect in return is a little love and respect at least for all that you do. Loving your family, standing by them when they need it is drilled into you like it's a duty, a job for which you deserve nor need any thanks or gratitude.

After all, you would expect them to do the same for you should you need them.

At least that is what you think until you are disillusioned with the whole myth of unconditional love and support, the mirage that families are perfect and indestructible or that they won't ever let you down, because the truth is simple...there' nothing like unconditional in this world...the only thing is people keep expecting to be on the receiving end most of the time...the moment though they are expected to give or are made to realize that they cannot always receive it without giving anything in return is the moment where cracks appear...as giving is the hardest thing in the world contrary to receiving being the easiest job ever.

Whether they deserve it or not, people think they should always receive things; even if they haven't done anything that might remotely make their claims justified or valid.

Ishita and Raman, two people who are as different as chalk and cheese in their temperaments, their attitudes but what makes them perfect for each other is that at the base of it all, keeping aside their differences, they are similar. Their thoughts and way of dealing things may be different as could be but when it comes down to it they are made of the same stuff, the same kinda hearts which make them the people they are, people who grew up believing family is everything and you don't need thanks to do anything for any of them ever, you ask or want nothing in return except love, respect and support from them.

But one day, one decision and it all changed...slowly and steadily.

The people for whom they stood against the world abandoned them in a second and a new reality was revealed, a new truth surfaced that even when it comes down to it - you can't rely on anyone really. Because at the end of the day, everyone will disappoint you and break your heart, especially those that you love and care about the most.

People wont understand your heart, your intentions, your thoughts they would just look at what they want to, reason the way they wish to and think the worst they can because thats how the world functions sadly.

And it isnt just Ishita and Raman, who are suffering through this plight, this pain - its Mihir too, another person caught in the grind...while Ishita and Raman are heartbroken and dejected because they are misunderstood and misread regarding everything thats happening, are being alienated by those people they love more than anything in this world...here' a man who has no one in this world except the very same set of people, this foster family of his for whom he chose to break ties with the blood that was his own because he couldnt live with himself if he chose the wrong person. For all that he is and does, he is made to feel like an outsider, reminded whenever the oppurtunity presents itself that he really has no one, not even the wife who considers herself as the only one in this world who wants him to grow and prosper...how can it be when she doesnt understand him, his heart and intentions...Mihir for all intents and purposes is lonelier than he has ever been but being the great guy that he is, he doesnt allow himself to reflect on it and while he should ideally be not even in a state to want to look at Rinky, for all that she has called him in the past few days, the way she is putting him down...he promises her the world instead and somewhere down the line, he knows while he is doing all that he can and will to keep his word he cant expect the same from the one he gave the word too...as she is his family now.

In the end the way these three are cornered and abandoned even when amidst the people they love - the words that narrate their state could be no other than these

Na tu zameen ke liye hai na aasmaan ke liye