History is repeating: Raman is becoming Joru Ka Ghulam again - Page 5

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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Yes Raman is hen-pecked.

He has the audacity to change our time-honoured customs.

He actually believes in marriage being a sacred institution,and his wife as his ardhangani(other half).How bizarre.He should be executed for showing compassion and humanity for his life partner.These are traits of weaklings.

Real men know and demonstrate in words and deeds that it is their birthright to suck the life blood out of their wives.Real men are honest about their superiority.That is why they have no qualms about uttering the words 'Ma,main tumhare liye daasi lene jaa rahi hoon' prior to getting married.

Real men never perform a single ritual of mourning if their wives pass away.Our shastras don't expect it of them.Why on earth should they upset the apple cart?It is an open secret that their wives were glorified maids and human incubators anyway.Why bother with stupid notions like honouring the woman who stood by your side her entire adult life?When was the last time you semi-starved yourself to prove what a good master you were,when your maid expired.

Raman is an awful son indeed.He is failing to cover up for the fact that his parents have essentially brought up three parasites.Who is he to bring to light the extreme delusions his father is living under in that he has educated his four children to the point where they can earn for themselves,when in reality the only productive offspring is Raman himself?

How dare Raman challenge his siblings' sense of entitlement despite the fact that he didn't actually give birth to them.And the Iyers,well they're just whack jobs.They have not one but three women who actually utilise their education and pursue careers.Sulking brats,thieves,perverts,that's the norm.The Bhallas are proud torch bearers of such fine tradition.

Why didn't Raman take a lesson out of the pages of history.The world's greatest husband paid dearly for his inexplicable grief for his wife.In manifesting his love in the form of one of the seven wonders of the world,he resigned his last days to imprisonment at the hands of his own son.

Real men know that it is more than enough for a husband to provide 3 meals a day and some clothing for his wife.You uunderstand,of course,that these meals must be cooked by the same wives,because real men have permanent manicures and never soil their delicate hands doing menial housework.Vikas Khanna and Sanjeev Kapoor are just pansies.

Raman is not a real man.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Megher_Palok

@Mounika the much respected ceo you're talking about often gets beaten by his wife in public that too with broom and places like airport's that has obviously recorded HD quality video of his 'dhulai'!

Tiff b/w a mature son n father is a very small thing...

All i mean to say is he's no izzat left to lose



okay I agree ishita was absolutely wrong in that😡 no wife do that

really?raman lost his izzat? Recently he got ministry contract right? if raman lost his izzat becoz as u said his wife beat him at airport and with broom..Since raman has no izzat left in society why'll people still consider him best and invest in his company?give him biggest contracts?
Airport beating ke baad hi na raman took over ashok's company! If raman has no izzat left investors would have thought"chi biwi se maar katha hai kya hai ye aadmi we should not give him that"but they didnt..They knew raman is best professionally n he is respected in his society for that!!

so my point is he was and is still respected in society and I dont think people at raman's apartment have time to discuss what raman did n his wife did..Again I dont support ishita for beating with broom incident thought I understand her state at that particular point

anyways I respect ur perception again😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: -MS-


Raman too was mostly intolerable after time slot change but we had only glimpses of RKB from time to time after that. Coincidentally he became Ishita's Raman just after the time slot change. 😆



Well Monal Leo Anamika... see I agree he did right by supporting his wife, saving her prestige Bt it's the way he did that had really irked me. Meri biwi hain tameez see baatein kijiye... like really is this the way you talk with ur Father. It's his company watevr he do with it, it's his wish I have no issues in that. But I really don't support disrespecting ur parents.

This Ishita's Raman ( who he actually became after TimeSlot Change like Monal pointed out 😉)have really forgotten his manners, he was never like that , baat baat pe dafa ho jaa to his wife, siblings...I won't be surprised if in future he say this to his parents.

It's great to fight for your wife, Bt in savoring her prestige if you demean, disrespect your Father I don't appreciate that. REAL Men NEVER do such thing.

Rinki is Wrong Bhallaji too is wrong...Bt talking to them in such tone especially Father is something I don't support and if I see he has been doing such behaviour ever since he has become Ishita Raman...hence I was always say he has been badly influenced...

Rest Arpita has not actually mentioned her reason behind the topic...
I would really like to hear that...


Edit: Mani loves baggage...wasnt he supporting his sister kid Rizwan...??
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44
I have watched that episode at least 3 times and Raman did NOT say Tameez se baat kijye.He said Meri Biwi hai woh and Kuch to maturity dikhaye.

They have butchered Sr. Bhalla's character for the sake of melodrama.He said we should let Rinki and Ishita handle their own problems.He knows Ishita very well.Whatever her dynamics with Raman,she has never disrespected any other family member.She would not retaliate.So he was saying indirectly that it is ok for Rinki to be an out and out b***ch.

When all else fails,resort to emotional blackmail with the strongest link in the chain.Raman was an average achiever 7 years ago,so it was not his education which brought him to the levels he is at today.It was his drive,his ambition.

It was because of Raman that they got to live in the service apartment after their flat burnt down.Romi,Rinky and Simmi contribute zilch to the family kitty.This is a cold hard fact.Sr. Bhalla also changed the minute he found out about Ishita and the company.He allowed Rinki to say things like don't touch me etc. to Ishita.

Raman stood up for his wife because he had created this mess.If not Raman,then who?Who else does a wife have at her in laws place?

I repeat,Raman is not responsible for Rinki,Romi and Simmi.He is responsible for his parents welfare.Anything else is a bonus.

I guess the old saying is true:

No good deed goes unpunished.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


Anku, how right you are. Most of the forum is women and they cant stand the righteous female lead! Whenever Raman does anything like even throwing ishita out, he is correct, Ishita is wrong. Today for the first time the same set of ppl are actually blaming their favourite aankh ka taara and saying he made a mistake. Why? Not coz he raised his voice with Mr Bhalla, but mainly coz he stood by his wife whom his sister was insulting! And what did Mr Bhalla do today? insulted Raman in front of that society man and hurt Ishita by saying that he will buy veggies only for his kids. All of a sudden even Adi and Ruhi are not his??? Even Ruhi????

Jhoru ka ghualm is one who blindly follows all his wife's instructions - right or wrong. RKB ia very much his own man, he takes all his decisions more or less alone - working for Ashok, buying his company, making a will etc... so in what way is he jhoru ka ghulam? and he also uses daf ho jao, get out every now and then, are these words of a henpecked husband?😆


I won't go into what happens between IshRa because they always end up solving it and moving on. I am a fan of both together and also a lot of individual factors of theirs. I can point out when one is wrong even if they both are characters I am equally attached to. But no matter how hard I try. In this scenario I do not find any fault with the both of them. Their reactions are a result of some actions that others have done. For a couple who slogs their ass of for the family (out of love) and whose always kept them first before anything else. They do not deserve this AT ALL.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
Honestly this is fabulous...no matter what Raman does he is screwed.




He defends Ishita and is labeled as a 'Joru Ka Ghulam', he becomes a horrible son and brother because that is of course a crime he committed there, defending the woman he loves, the woman he is married to, the woman who is the mother of his children and the woman who has always been with him through thick and thin.

Should he stand by as his sister and then his father humilaite his wife who for no fault of hers has been caught in the crosshairs here and let her handle the barbs, just for the sake of preserving peace in the family then he would have been a terrible husband, who couldnt stand by his wife.


Guess Raman knew this and decided to pick the lesser of the two evils, knowing he would be at least standing for and raising his voice for what's right at the least.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Honestly this is fabulous...no matter what Raman does he is screwed.





He defends Ishita and is labeled as a 'Joru Ka Ghulam', he becomes a horrible son and brother because that is of course a crime he committed there, defending the woman he loves, the woman he is married to, the woman who is the mother of his children and the woman who has always been with him through thick and thin.

Should he stand by as his sister and then his father humilaite his wife who for no fault of hers has been caught in the crosshairs here and let her handle the barbs, just for the sake of preserving peace in the family then he would have been a terrible husband, who couldnt stand by his wife.


Guess Raman knew this and decided to pick the lesser of the two evils, knowing he would be at least standing for and raising his voice for what's right at the least.



Damn right! I found his dreams questionable when they aired them. But even though shown as a joke then NOW I know that what he thought was after all right.

This family indeed does not value Ishita, does not value him either. They can change colours for money and position and are bipolar.

Now his decision taken in a haste seems the most sensible.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48
Ramu was not wrong in defending his wife... All this seems the way it seems because Mr Bhalla's reaction was not character appropriate. It came out of the blue. The man who always said Oye Thand rakh.. To diffuse tension suddenly reacted without knowing the truth with no one clearing his misunderstanding.
Mr Bhalla's reaction was surprising to me like Raman's dream.. Bhalla and Simi mistreating Ishita..both seem unbelievable.

One more character bit the dust for the sake of drama.


(This is my POV, I do not force anybody to accept it.)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Anku-


Damn right! I found his dreams questionable when they aired them. But even though shown as a joke then NOW I know that what he thought was after all right.

This family indeed does not value Ishita, does not value him either. They can change colours for money and position and are bipolar.

Now his decision taken in a haste seems the most sensible.


I know Anku his ridiculous dreams are indeed not that far from reality, even his father is actually playing the villain here sorta that he cast him in the role of by not knowing the truth of what transpired between his children and ostricizing his son for no fault of his, even insulting his DIL.

Only the sister that he dreamed of hasnt turned so far, lets see when that happens...wouldnt be surprised if Simi is next in line though as Rinky and Romi are already there, lets just see what acts as the catalyst for her transformation.


A silly track which we were bored by has paved way to something very real and amazing for once. I hope they make this a good one, as good as they can actually. Ekta does have a penchant for showing families splitting up and the leads either being thrown out or walking away from their home but only a select few times has the reason for the split seemed genuine or has been this impactful.


If in his presence, his family can be so horrible to Ishita just because her name has been put on some papers, then had he really died they would have walked all over her. The fact that they showed their colors proves how right it was of him to make the call and naming Ishita as the prime beneficary in his will.

I see either the family leaving this place, as Aakash Ganga is almost done with or IshRa doing the honors...would be a very real situation if it happens, which I think it will.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: EkPaheli


I know Anku his ridiculous dreams are indeed not that far from reality, even his father is actually playing the villain here sorta that he cast him in the role of by not knowing the truth of what transpired between his children and ostricizing his son for no fault of his, even insulting his DIL.

Only the sister that he dreamed of hasnt turned so far, lets see when that happens...wouldnt be surprised if Simi is next in line though as Rinky and Romi are already there, lets just see what acts as the catalyst for her transformation.


A silly track which we were bored by has paved way to something very real and amazing for once. I hope they make this a good one, as good as they can actually. Ekta does have a penchant for showing families splitting up and the leads either being thrown out or walking away from their home but only a select few times has the reason for the split seemed genuine or has been this impactful.


If in his presence, his family can be so horrible to Ishita just because her name has been put on some papers, then had he really died they would have walked all over her. The fact that they showed their colors proves how right it was of him to make the call and naming Ishita as the prime beneficary in his will.

I see either the family leaving this place, as Aakash Ganga is almost done with or IshRa doing the honors...would be a very real situation if it happens, which I think it will.


Simmi saw what transpired between the siblings, and still thought Raman was wrong. Which in turn means she has a negligible but definitely a seed of doubt in her too. And surely something will lead to her questioning the two as well. And then I feel that when Mihir by mistake joins Ashok's company (a result of Rinki's trick) it will break IshRa even more.

This is definitely leading to IshRa leaving the house. That would make most sense at this moment and would be real.

Coming to Raman's dream. The track then seemed out of place. But maybe the phase of anxiousness over losing his life gave him a new perspective. When we're at our lowest is when we actually have the real sense of what's right and wrong. Raman too foresaw what would happen to his family if he wasn't around. He was right. The family who is held by the both would trample all over his wife when not around. If he'd leave the responsibilities to them, they would end up making a joke out of it.

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