History is repeating: Raman is becoming Joru Ka Ghulam again - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Anku-

99 percent of this forum is women and sadly 80 percent of them malign a woman (although a fictional character) for no fault of hers.

Today you think Raman is wrong because he defended his wife. But if he'd said the same words for anyone else to Mr Bhalla, maybe you wouldn't say the same. Raman did make a mistake, he did raise his tone. But isn't that how Raman is? Does the family not know he is soft on the inside, no matter how on the outside at times?

But what lead to his outburst - His sister questioning him and his relation with Mihir. Mihir for who he has done so much (as said by the man in question himself to Ishita) For whom he was going to set up a company too. She maligned his wife - The wife who whether people here like it or not, is instrumental in getting the whole house its happiness. She's the one whose saved Simmi, Romi and even Rinki from ruining their lives. She has done so much out of duty and out of her good heart that I've lost count. And if a man does not stand for a dignity of the better half like that, then I wouldn't have respect for him.

Yes he made a mistake. No matter how right you are, and even if its your parent whose wrong. You can't raise your tone with them. But Raman was blamed, said a lot of hurtful things and was misunderstood by his father whose clearly seen all that his son has done.

Raman HAS built whatever there is on his own efforts, from scratch without any help from anyone. It IS a fact. No one (I mean his siblings) contributed anything in it. But if he takes a decision of securing them and his wife and kids by transferring his shares to her they all get pinched? Where were they when he lost his job and needed helping hands? Where was Mr Bhalla's savings then? Raman joined Ashok but never let them know or let pain reach them. So I don't think Raman was wrong in anyway for standing up for someone whose stood by him and his family through freaking everything.

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

Even I agree, he is becoming complete Jhoru Ka Ghulaam, Ishita directs every move of his. Don't do this, do this, don't talk to that person, go and talk to that person about so and so points. Its like as if Raman is a Robot who waits for instructions from Ishita.

CV's needs to stop showing him do that. RKB has a brain and let him use it.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

99 percent of this forum is women and sadly 80 percent of them malign a woman (although a fictional character) for no fault of hers.

Today you think Raman is wrong because he defended his wife. But if he'd said the same words for anyone else to Mr Bhalla, maybe you wouldn't say the same. Raman did make a mistake, he did raise his tone. But isn't that how Raman is? Does the family not know he is soft on the inside, no matter how on the outside at times?

But what lead to his outburst - His sister questioning him and his relation with Mihir. Mihir for who he has done so much (as said by the man in question himself to Ishita) For whom he was going to set up a company too. She maligned his wife - The wife who whether people here like it or not, is instrumental in getting the whole house its happiness. She's the one whose saved Simmi, Romi and even Rinki from ruining their lives. She has done so much out of duty and out of her good heart that I've lost count. And if a man does not stand for a dignity of the better half like that, then I wouldn't have respect for him.

Yes he made a mistake. No matter how right you are, and even if its your parent whose wrong. You can't raise your tone with them. But Raman was blamed, said a lot of hurtful things and was misunderstood by his father whose clearly seen all that his son has done.

Raman HAS built whatever there is on his own efforts, from scratch without any help from anyone. It IS a fact. No one (I mean his siblings) contributed anything in it. But if he takes a decision of securing them and his wife and kids by transferring his shares to her they all get pinched? Where were they when he lost his job and needed helping hands? Where was Mr Bhalla's savings then? Raman joined Ashok but never let them know or let pain reach them. So I don't think Raman was wrong in anyway for standing up for someone whose stood by him and his family through freaking everything.

Originally posted by: anjs

disclaimer : all party are right n wrong in their own ways...

what i understand of Bhalla family till now...no matter how illogical or not...the Bhalla's have been a tight knit family till now...Raman was the un-announced head of the family n even Mr. Bhalla never questioned it...he was the main earning person...taking decisions, getting angry, being rude...to all n sundry...

now enters the crisis...he thinks he is dying...so he transfers his business in his wife's name...who doesnt know even ABC of business...agreed he cares for his wife n childrens, all men should...but his family isnt nuclear naa...they are all somewhat dependent on him...now in such situation, when other members think that he is worried only for his wife n kids...they are bound to get insecure...

secondly...Rinki is wrong...instigated by her friend...etc etc...but the question she asked...was valid...what about Mihir...didnt he deserve anything for standing by Raman's side, all these years...he definitely deserved more than just a CEO position...

but what reply she got...did Raman tell her that he has some plans for Mihir...and the reason he chose Ishita as the owner...his thoughts were good...but what did he do...without any explanations, asked rinki to just get out of the house...upon that stating that its his house n he has a right to decide who will stay or not...

when he says the same thing to Ishita, its wrong...so even now when he says it to rinki, its wrong...but obviously this house is owned by his company, so his words rubbed Mr. Bhalla the wrong way...

now Mr Bhalla is also wrong...esp the way he spoke to Ishita...but when a father hears his son kicking his daughter out of their house, he is bound to get angry...and when the son, instead of explaining ulta insults the said father...then that is definitely crossing the limits...

so from my pov...Raman is more wrong...cause he took a decision that shows that he only cares for his wife n kids...while its normal in real scenario, this family is different...and then he doesnt provide any explanation, threatens to kick rinki out of the house...and then insults his own father...obviously Mr.Bhalla mustve re-visited the Shagun phase in that few minutes...

Originally posted by: -MS-

I beg to differ.
I'm impressed at Ishita's Raman...for the very first time.