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I haven't read the LU yet, but it sounds like they are really putting this couple through the ringer.

post updated after I watched the episode...now will read and try to respond😳

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Hi Indu,

First thank you for liking my posts ! I am embarrassed that people read n like my ramblings !

I am sorry if I came across very strongly in my comment ... I just find it hard to digest raman being butchered to such an extent every time... N ishita being this person without any self respect.

Plus, I would hv thought that Raman, I assume is a normal red blooded male, would ogle his sexy wife rather than getting into a verbal spat !

My apologies, I did not want to offend anyone ! Especially not on this thread !

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Hi Indu,

First thank you for liking my posts ! I am embarrassed that people read n like my ramblings !

I am sorry if I came across very strongly in my comment ... I just find it hard to digest raman being butchered to such an extent every time... N ishita being this person without any self respect.

Plus, I would hv thought that Raman, I assume is a normal red blooded male, would ogle his sexy wife rather than getting into a verbal spat !

My apologies, I did not want to offend anyone ! Especially not on this thread !

after I watched the episode I can tell you...he literally didnt have a chance to notice what his wife was wearing...because Ishita came out right after he said all those things thinking it was sahgun there and any husband would be scared in a situation like that where your wife thinks she has caught you having an affair and would try his level best to prove her otherwise...ofcousrse that would have been how if it were a normal situation...CVs have to turn even a genuine situation to a comedy circus🤢

and becks dont worry about offending anyone...if we express our honest opinion..and it's not perpetually biased against a character out of some personal preference...it's ok in this thread...you know that.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Isn't Shagun biological mother of his kids...?

Isn't that true?

Nobody said only biological mother is everything

Nobody said ishita is nothing infront of biological mother

The fact that ishita has ruhi and adi with her is becox she is much above then biological mother...

But we can't take the fact that Shagun gave birth to those kids...

Why is it so difficult to accept? Though Raman hates Shagun, he can never forget delivery time, those memories will always remain becox he loves his kids not Shagun.

Yes Shagun is the biological mother...so also the mother who for years had put her kids through living hell to fulfill her narcissistic needs...and I dont agree with you that giving birth makes a woman mother to her kids...so yes Raman acknowledging 'jo bhi hain mere bachchon ki maa hai" and then looking frantically for her...with the special bg score...just doesnt fit into picture of what YHM has portrayed from beginning...it goes against the premise of the nature vs nurture...

and where have I said Raman should forget his memories about his kids' birth...and the kids are there with Ishita, because BOTH chose Ishita on their own as Ishima and rejected Rahgun...they were not given to her by her marriage to Raman..

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I haven't read the LU yet, but it sounds like they are really putting this couple through the ringer.

I don't get why they are doing this. Ishita & Raman have been a beautiful couple, and they are intentionally doing small things (lines, actions, lack of emotional closure) that may be small to the CVs but build up in viewer's minds.

What I have learned from YHM 2015:

-if you are a man, you are useless & crass

-if you are a stepmother, don't ever think you will be considered a real mother

-if you are infertile, you will always be inferior

-sex is to make babies

And guess what...some of these things actually hurt to think about, because from December 2013 - December 2014, YHM had a beautiful story of healing & fresh starts. It was fiction but it gave hope.

The makers of this show, due to their lack of tact, share these types of messages. They need finesse, but give incomplete closure. This is why every reaction is magnified on the forum - because we've seen lack of track/emotional closure since November 2014. Whether you like Ishita more or Raman...both characters & the story have suffered because of this, and that's why we see so much polarization.

The CVs know this too - because we got a nice closure to Raman & Ishita's fight about Adi, and most viewers loved it, but for some reason they don't try to give it more often.

I just want the 2nd C so I can fully treat this show like other desi shows I casually watch. I still love Ishita & Raman, but their journey is getting a bit too choppy. This show has beauty to offer, so when it falls short...it stinks a little.

Krishy very well put. 👏

To tell you the truth...Im gradually developing the indifference for the story...and probably soon will be able to stop expecting anything...I come to the forum more out of habit...and if I can break that cycle ...my vicious cycle of watch->react ->still watch will break...

What was that with the BG score? Like really? Damnnn cvs wanted to put this scene as humanity based act or concern he was showing on Shagun, but tht terribly failed to reach the audience. I felt it tht way. Completely upset.

As u said, the dialouges and othr stuffs related didn't work well.

Ishita Raman fight.. Il wait for tomorrow and comment on tht. Either Ishita was simply irritating Raman or maybe she was completely pissed off with all he said. Its justified, but she should also know Raman was not tht type of man. I hope Raman discuss this matter with Ishita.

😊

Agree with someone who posted that it is high time yhm gets its closure before it gets worse than it is getting now...

I have just one explanation for today's goof up on part of CVs... Salman...