To my fellow IshRa/YHM lovers...A request

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WhyAmIHereAgain

@WhyAmIHereAgain

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Posted: 10 years ago

"Sometimes our bad feelings are only assumptions and speculations doing dark dances in our heads."
Bonnie Lyn Smith

Hello my dear friends...

A fair warning... I m not very good at expressing myself with words... but still I thought it is necessary that I do write what I feel... because I am noticing a pattern...

One of my friends said "The LU was so slow today...hardly 5-6 pages..earlier there used to be pages after pages of comments..."

Another friend commented "There is hardly any action in Ishra/Divan AT... it looks like dead..."

and now the reason i decided that I will post...

Few of my dearest friends... are so worried about the upcoming spoiler of Sharam and Ishbu that they just can't seem to enjoy the present track...

So my cry out to all those people who cant seem to enjoy the present track...which by the way is one of the most realistic tracks in Indian Television just coz of a speculation...Is it fair??

To IshRa, To DivAn, and to the YHM we loved...

Oh, I know you all will say this a BT product, so there is bound to be remarriages... with Exs and all... but all I can ask is...and do answer truthfully...

how many time YHM has proved to be different than the erstwhile BT or any other PH show?

I truly believe till now, take one average epi of YHM and best epi of any other show... you will know the difference...

Yes, we are all worried about the spoiler, about the impending leap...and for that we are protesting... but why can't we segment the feelings...

I remember a story of a man who once died due to being trampled by an elephant...

The God asked him... Why didnt you save yourself.. Why didnt you run?? Why did you die...

He said... "God, what can I do..I was walking down..and then I saw the elephant walking straight towards me... I thought, If the elephant god wants me to die...who am I to save myself..so I died,..."

God replied "Idiot, you saw the Elephant -God...but you didn't notice above him the Man-God was shouting and asking you to move from the road... if you would have listened to Man-God, today you would have been alive..."

It is about how to look at things...

It depends on the perspective... why are we losing hope? Why not one last chance... all I see these days is sadness..negativity... Our favourite couple most probably is going to consummate their relationship...and yet we are again ready to speculate all bad things...why... why not, for once if we are speculating...hope for good things...

We have been tweeting like crazy...why not believe in ourselves..and have that flicker of hope that all is not lost...

Even if life gives you 0.1 probability...it is still a probability...a possibility...why not see that...

It really hurts me to think that we are finally getting what we are wanting...and yet we are not rejoicing...we are sulking around...

Lets join hands and wage war against the leap and possible recoupling...but lets not lose hope ...

and also lets appreciate the realistic track being shown in YHM ...

We are always very fast to criticize..but how many times to go ahead and applaud when they indeed do a good work...that also helps...right...

I so want to gush with you all when the Big C happens...lets enjoy...if after that shit hits the fan.. you quit... but atleast you will quit on a happy note...

Let's not feel betrayed till the betrayal...

Lets forget about the spoiler when we are enjoying IshRa...but we continue our war...we continue to rebel...have confidence in yourself..

Together We can and We will...

Okay now I am done...m sorry my thoughts were not very coherent... but then again..hey I did give a warning...

Please Share your thoughts...

PS: If you dont watch YHM for the ISHRARUDI then please ignore

PPS: those who resed thinking this to be a fan fic...joota nahi marna...

PPPS: please do note, I dont mean that we shudnt crib... hell yaa..lets crib...lets give gaalis.. jootas chapals.. but lets gush too..when the situation demands...

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Hi KKT, (you know what I mean !😛), I am sorry that my blues and my gloom these past couple of days incited you to open this thread !

I have been an obsessed YHM fan... watched it from the episode in which Ruhi addressed Ishita as Ishita Mamma and I was intrigued... and then decided to watch it from the first episode and I was a goner ! I became so obsessed with the show that I used to keep awake until 1.00 just to watch the repeat and then rewatch the repeats on the weekends !

I have put up with all BS that they threw at us, because I loved loved loved IshRaRu and now Adi is in the mix !

I could have taken everything but the re-coupling of ShaRam... if you recollect our very initial conversation when we introduced ourselves, and if you remember what I told you guys, you will know why I was so affected by this spoiler !

Rooting for ShaRam and calling them the perfectly imperfect couple is all fine and could be done cause of the utter hatred for Ishita... but it is very difficult to understand what it does to the dynamics of the family when one spouse cheats on the other ... what effect it has on the family and the child/ren... it is only when someone experiences it, they realize how extremely difficult it is to cope with that kind of a family situation ...

Believe you me Shalz, I tried to get over the spoiler, but couldn't. It touched a nerve !

Hopefully, there will be something that will lure me back to watching YHM, until then ... I will try not to be gloomy around you guys ! I promise !😛

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.TIA.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Shalz well put n I agree with u completely 😛 Though I'm worried at times knowing it might go in the wrong direction but I know ull pull me out of it so 😉 😆

Yeaaa I cribbed about the lu being slow n dead but u know I felt bad about that coz the episode was actually so good n yet no one was gushing n having fun. That's what I missed there. AT we all are investing our time in the Twitter trend just now. That gang I know is diehard Ishra/Divan fans n we r doing our best to save our show.

U know how much I want to gush n how much I am enjoying the current track

Being a diehard fan myself I too am very upset with what might happen n I'm not sure if I'm ready for a big leap either. But then this is a TV show n a BT one at the end. So I'll watch what I can n quit when I can't take it anymore.

As of now I'm enjoying the show n want to do that, not thinking about what "might"

So yeaa I'm definetely going to be gushing n who better than u knows that 😆 😉

Great post Shalzu 🤗

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SA1234

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Great post Shalz!

Definitely serves as a reminder to at least some of us who have been sulking.I have deliberately not watched the show for the last few days although I do keep myself updated by reading the reviews and WUs on this forum. Honestly, I don't want to be around when the shit hits the fan. So this is my attempt to wean myself off this show gradually.

I do not want to gush and drool now only to be slapped with a hasty consummation in one epi and an illogical leap in the very next. There is also the added frustration that the show is now at no.1 position inspite of the mind numbing Subbu Dubbu track that they have dished out to us.Can't really blame them for thinking they can dish out anything to us and we will lap it up. So I feel like rebelling and protesting.

But I do realize the flaw in this approach.IshRaRu is the reason I started watching this show and not because I thought this was a show that dealt with sensitive and social issues. Because on that front I have been disappointed time and again with the way they have raised some very pertinent issues only to brush it under the carpet hastily.Let's not even go there now.

But coming back to IshRa, we have all been waiting to see this phase of their relationship and by staying away from the show I am missing out on it. So in that respect I do agree with what you have said.

You see my resolve is already weakening and I think your post will be my undoing😕😕

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fugitives123

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Shalz...

good post...much needed one...beautiful points...👏

I loved the point about comparing an average episode of yhm with the best episode of another serial...

makes so much sense.

the serial we love deserves our patience. Let's wait and see what the future holds for yhm...

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Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

Shalz

I hear you and I agree.

I am also tweeting when I can ( i created a special id just to tweet, Im so proud of my non technology savvy self for doing this) and I have emailed as well. I am doing this because the idea of ShaRam and IshBu is anathema for me - it goes fundamentally against the entire premise of the show.

But i believe like you that we should always have hope - so if our protest stops ShaRam and IshBu from happening, then hey great. If it doesnt then the moment that something comes that I cant bear to watch, I will not watch.

But in the meantime, I for one will definitely look forward to and enjoy the current track and the upcoming consummation sequence. I have been a loyal fan of this show from day one, and I am, not going to let the spoilers ruin my anticipation of happy scenes.

I havent participated in the Ishra AT so far and its 2 am in Fiji when YHM airs in India so I cant join in the LU, but hey, get the AT restarted and I'll be there with bells on.

I do appreciate that for some people the spoilers have ruined their enjoyment of the show and Ishra, and to them I would like to say, if it is at all possible, then do come back and gush with us. We miss you.

Great post Shalz 👏 👏 👏

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Shalz - BANG ON post! I hate the spoiler but I LOVE this Adi track so far. After the stupid Subbu kaand...this track is reminding me why I LOVE YHM.

All the characters are real. The scenarios are real. The emotions are real.

The CVs deserve praise for this track, and we can all have so much intelligent discussion about the issues they are highlighting.

I will watch and enjoy until I see something that I believe is fundamentally against this show's original premise that I fell in love with. If the unspeakable does happen, I will take it one day at a time but why should I bang my head over something that hasn't happened yet?

I don't know what will happen on this show or what's best for it in the big picture. I come on IF to share my frustrations, views, & enjoyment with friends and that's it.

Thanks for this post, Shalz!

*huggies*

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RIA ROY

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Posted: 10 years ago

nice post... still I don't want separation or leap but I won't stop watching yhm because I m addicted to it ...

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Shalz great post! I totally support your pov .. My reaction to the spoiler is this: it has curbed my fanatism to a realistic expectation about the show... I never used to read written updates before as its my nature where I wanted to enjoy the episode without any bias...but these days I read either the LU thread or the WU before I decide to watch an episode...and I'm with you I'm enjoying the writing these days as they are touching upon real life scenarios.. Adi ishita scenario is very realistic with the reaction of each character within the real boundary...Even mihika Acp and bala Vandu I enjoyed today... But frankly I can't fully shake off the spoiler news from lurking at the back of my mind...Im trying to put that aside before I sit down to watch.. Some days it's all good ... Other days I want to hurl some choice words at whoever came up with the Ishbu or ShaRam concept... Frankly that and immaculate conception spoilers have made me more upset that the concept of leap.. I wouldn't mind if there is a small leap... So I'm pouring that out on Twitter on poor Aniljha because Ekta I don't have much faith on her about this after hearing that this is a BT 'business model'

But having said that.. I still am ishraholic like ever.. Any sec with them spells happiness for me .. Even now.. And I want to be there in their journey till it comes to a point where I can't relate to them.. That would be the day I call it quits... With no announcement

Wonderful post Shalz!

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DipaRB6

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Muaahhh to you Shalz! We (me certainly) needed this reminder. You're so right, I've been enjoying the current track with Adi. However during the ishra scenes, the sadness comes over me as I see them setting up the future. But still they have been wonderful and in fact very much like classic yhm/ishra moments when I think about it objectively.

This is a lovely reminder to stay positive so thank you! And I look forward to gushing with you on Big C and anything else that is coming our way.

Also I'd like to recognize that as much as we crib about the writers, they've given us far more good than bad and I'm thankful for it. I never watched an Indian serial before YhM and may never watch another one after it. And this distinction is all because of the hard work of the writers, directors, cast and crew of YHM!

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