Something about the spoiler

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Posted: 10 years ago
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One of the reasons I got attracted to Yhm was because of its progressive thinking with respect to infertility, adoption, second chances ... Because I remember growing up watching some movies on Tv about those divine intervention leading to a woman conceiving and always used to wonder how it felt to those real life couple who probably pray as hard for children but unfortunately physical constraints sometimes prevented their dreams from fulfilling.. YHM was fresh in that aspect.. The 'nature vs nurture' got me as much as the lead pair chemistry. One of the scenes around that time was the day Ishita was rejected by the adoption agency and Raman mocked her... Her breakdown .. His momentary softening and trying to reach out to console her and stopping before leaving her.. There was so much to that few minutes scene... YHM in the initial months were full of those moments... Where a person's scars were touched upon .. But oh so subtly yet it touched our consciousness somewhere and left a lasting impression.
Today when I read that probably they will have consummation before the leap and going by BT's history Ishra will conceive... I really felt betrayed by the same team that gave us the beautiful scene ...to go this path if they indeed go. Their target audience will certainly have a lot of women who are dealing with same issues as Ishita and maybe relate to her in so many ways... They have probably dealt with the society's ugly tag 'baanj' so many times... And her pain ... And now one fine day thanks to the miracle of immaculate conception without any medical intervention .. If Ishita becomes a bilogical mom .. That is such a slap to those women who empathized with her..

I also want a Ishra baby .. But was expecting a realistic track about Ishra dealing with the medical hurdles and overcoming them as a couple... That would have been such a beautiful track... Not needing any unnecessary leap or maybe one for few months to accelerate to delivery .. Followed by some insecurity of a sibling in Ruhi's mind.( cue in Shagun to fan those insecurities) ...which papa and Ishima would take turns alleviating that from her mind... Mohabbatein moments all over...atleast would have taken a few months to complete ... There still is so much potential to the story

But somehow ... Mohabbatein in YHM is now all about melodram .. The unnecessary kind.. Of promises that the minute is uttered we dread of a track leading to those promises being broken..

A show that was about so much hope.. Has become one of hopeless churn of negativity... One after another. just made me sad thinking I feel so close to the characters in the serial and invested so much of m time past year or so on YHM related activities .. And now I feel betrayed...

Such a let down!


Sorry I needed to get this off my chest... It has been bothering me since I read about the spoiler today ( those who follow me in titter know that already 😆)


Disclaimer : I know nothing about which path YHM is going to take... It's just a reaction I had after reading the spoiler... And kudos to the gals who are tweeting and calling and spamming nonstop about our displeasure about the leap. Please remember to emphasize about #notoSharamorIshBu...

#DontTakeLeapinYhm
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ Gan Word!!

Everything related to the leap so far is just appalling. So much so, I feel extremely tired now; not because of the mailing or tweeting but from reading one awful spoiler after another!
I'd be happy even if IshRa never had a biological baby. Because not having a biological baby is just an imperfection, it's not a flaw. I do get the yearning of the real life Ishitas. But I actually believe if they were accepted and loved how they deserved to be, they wouldn't feel miserable anymore.

Now this miracle baby thing makes all the insults Ishita endured for her infertility, all the pain, tears and loses seem like a joke! Yes, medical miracle happens, but those who get the miracles are already the happiest persons on earth. Do we need their stories to be told? I think not. I'd rather see the trial and failure of a couple, with the hope that others will learn to accept them too.
And maybe they'd be more compassionate towards a real couple who are going through the same phase.

#DontTakeLeapInYHM
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The holi bedroom scenes which I always found hot made me cry yesterday. They have ruined it for me. I'm gonna cry buckets at big c...I just know it!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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As usual, you have written down my feelings to the tee. I have much much to say about their handling of infertility if the spoiler's come true.

I've already ranted on today's SBB thread. If they show her pregnant in one shot, then I have a giant post ready to go.

The cruelty of this show never ceases to amaze me. For them it's eye-grabbing tracks, but by trying to use "reality" for drama - they are inadvertently opening wounds of others. It's pathetic.

And I am now tired of this leap stuff. I'm happy people are fighting for something they believe in, but it sucks to see so many people give up sleep, relations, & personal wellbeing for this show. I hope that at least the actors who have encouraged this can at least thank their fans for this at the end of the day.

Idk who to blame here for the situation, but we are almost on day 5 of people hardcore protesting.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gan
Joto ta bolche ota ta leap mone hoyena hobe. Hoyto Ishur delivery dekhabe complicated.. bodhoye morte boshbe... maa othoba bachcha..keu ek jon bachar chance.tar por shob thik hoye jabe.. Ishur puro pregnancy period dekhabe na. Okhane choto ekta leap nebe... tar por hoyto boro leap ashbe..sheta aro pore...

Karon lead actress ba onno kono actor age theke erom leap er against ki bolte pare? Ekta tar mundu kete felbe... Othocho Dt r Aly lfans der support korche... ty mone hoyeche kichu golta ache...
Edited by rose35 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Could not have said it better Gan. We all realize entertainment is a business but having bought into the initial truly nayi soch story backed by such beautiful portrayal by the leads and supporting cast, one can't but feel betrayed and let down.

This is the first time am seeing the power of fans expressing their displeasure via social media and just for the sake of all those that are spending so many hours on this effort, I hope SP and BT respond with a positive change. .. the spoilers are making this much worse.

Am mentally getting ready to disconnect but it maybe harder to disconnect from this forum and especially your thread/collages/quotes/the awesome regulars that each express their take via words, gifs etc. Thank you for some lovely memories of IshRa!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautifully said Gan. I second every word that you said here.
I never ever realized I was the kind of person who would get so attached and sentimental about a tv show... and I was shocked to discover I had fallen in love with a couple who does not exist save for the imagination of the writer, a child that was portrayed heartbreakingly beautifully.
Until the news of ShaRam and IshBu coupling came out, I was ok even with the leap...
My protest is predominantly about the following :
1. Ishita's conceiving a child, miraculously... without medical intervention. (one night spent with her husband and she suddenly finds herself pregnant,... totally unacceptable to me...)
2. ShaRam re-uniting, even if Shagun repents her actions, why should Raman accept her back in his life.. Forgiving her is one thing. For his peace of mind he has already forgiven her... but reuniting for the sake of children is ridiculous... After all the children are grown up, they don't need babying... they can manage without Shagun. being in their life on a daily basis. But they could show her repenting her actions and trying to mend her relationship with her children ...
3. IshBu reunion... how, why and what the F*****... this is the same guy who dropped her like a hot potato as soon as he found out that Ishita cannot conceive ... and again he taunted her a few episodes ago that she would not know the pain of losing a child as she has never had a child herself ! and Ishita would go with that a*******e ? Really ?
Today, on Vee's update I saw a few gifs posted by Anu of the earlier episodes and I literally teared up to realize that a beautiful, beautiful show has been ruined because of a person's megalomania ! yes EK will earn pots of money, the TRP aunties will go ahead and watch the drama... but it will be the loyal fanbase that watched the show from the initial episodes, connected with the show from day 1, will all fritter away... all because of what ?... I am not sure the reason why this is happening... we have stuck by the show even though absolute and utter BS was thrown our way, all because we loved the trio of IshRaRu... and now... nothing... the show is a goner !
#please don't show ShaRam
#please no IshBu
#Don't show leap
I am heartbroken !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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So aptly put Gan and others. It is so amazing the effort that people put into this thread- be for gushing, bashing, crying o even cribbing. We all feel so deeply involved and we nearly feel all the happines and sadness of Ishra perhaps even more than the Bhallas😆
The journy which started on an awesome pretext with a mind-blowing portrayal of IshraRu has been going downhill sine Mani track. However, I had objections but I still wanted to go ahead and watch each episode on TV since I was watching Ishra fight it out together. But the biggest joke has been Adi's crush track even before Ishra consummation. And why cant we have happy tracks and why not focus on holiday, pregnancy, issues around it since that was again a major pretext of the show. Instead all it is now doing is going to show multiple mihabbatein where all will be married and perhaps even the kids will be busy with mohabattein but ishra wont have time for each other or worse will be Ishbu or Sharam jodis🤢

So it indeed breaks my heart - this is the second show I have got attached to after IPKKND. In both cases the jodis have me hooked but if the jodis separate, I can bear with it too, but if they go back to the exes then thats doomsday as far as the show is considered and definitely the end of YHM journey for me. Luckily all the BS tracks have been helping me detach slowly.

I also liked how you put forth your views to some crazy Sharam lovers, who keep blaming Ishita and literally scorn at her for being Raman's wife! Does it show what the new generation has grown up to believe? Cant they see the difference between good and bad? They can actually forgive Shagun and want Raman to romance her but they despise ishita for handling all Raman's problems? Are we willing to enjoy marriages and re-marriages with no moral ethics at all? We were blaming the CVs for letting off Shagun, Ashok, etc so easily but looks like there is a huge crowd out there who believe this to be actually right and in fact want Mihia with Ashok and Raman with Shagun etc... It is indeed disappointing..

Dunno if I made any sense but my thinking has become incohrent ever since this leap and more so the Ishbu and ShRam spoiler shave been out😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I so agree.
Wish CVs PH EK ..all of them could read this.


Well, it's EK's show. That's reason enough to know that its definitely going downhill.

EK knows how to get audience hooked but after a while, she lacks the methods of telling a gripping story, she doesn't know how to build on a amazing base.


She got beautiful raw material, from which she had started spinning gold, and then BAM!

Its like she suddenly forgot about the components of her raw material and now is manufacturing only for the sake of money.

Its all commercial drama.



I think its not only EK, its all the producers and directors here. After a while, they suffer from selective amnesia and forget the MOST important parts of their story. Its like they forget what they had built initially and start making weird, blasted tracks which make NO sense whatsoever. Wonder why they do this!


I don't understand just one thing...how is a creative person like her, willing to let such beautiful stories of hers get pummeled in the name of TRP drama and commercial success?


There's got to be SOME amount of creativity some amount of respect for one's work left in order to NOT kill their babies like this? No?

Well, I don't think they are creatives after a point of time. After a point of time, creatives are just robots, trying to mint as much money possible.


No creative emotions, no attachment, nothing is left in them.


I don't see any other reason for doing this to a story like YHM.


If they have got no more creativity? They should deploy few FRESH writers. But nah. That's too much of a work for them. Better repeat the Indian daily soap's history some 10,000 times cause money is gonna come anyway.

Who wants to do a fresh take on shows? That'll be too much stress.


Anyway, EK is a very good businesswoman but a creative story teller who has emotions?




Umm, not so much.


Sorry for the rant. Just tired of this stupid drama by these TV people.



Edited by arshi21 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wow crushed the real essence of the story! A word!

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