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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: --Megha--


No need to say thanks n all. 😳
I dont care about what others say or feel about MiMinky problem. 😆 Neither do I😆 Just helps when I dont run pages squabbling with people...its less of a war-zone then😆

But I truly liked the fact that Rinky had the guts to talk of walking out of marriage as Mihir might never love her. Ditto! Im really impressed with her...she is trying to work on her marriage, in whichever way possible..but if Mihir isnt pitching in HIS bit...then what's the use??

This decision might b immature or whatever, but every person has a right to decide what they want in life! Ditto!
Atleast on her part Rinky tried to dress up like Mihika thinking that Mihir might like it (although acc to me she shud nt have done that but may be she tried thinking that Pati ko kaise patau? ) n then she asked him to take her on a vacation thinking she n him might get some time alone to understand each other.nif they stayed in delhi it was obvious he is going to bump into Mihika n regret about his life. 🤪 You knw...call it immature, too early, too romantic or watever..When Rinki tried to dress up like Mihika, she was behaving like any normal wife trying to catch her husband's attention...and affection...and that vacation thing? she wanted some time away from Delhi to spend quality time with him...Realy! That's what newly weds do, dont they

If we r questioning that how come suddenly Rinky started developing feelings for Mihir then What did Mihir Do to work in this marriage? I dont knw why nobody noticed this...but then Rinki ALWAYS had a soft corner for Mihir..watever that might be...for all u know, she never let it simmer to its full boiling point, coz Mmihika was in the picture...it happens to a lot of ppl..And let's say, even if she DEVELOPED feelings for Mihir overnight, wats the harm? She's his wife...his lifelng partner...she can fall in love with him any given day...any given time! Jaldi aur der ka kya matlab/ So ridiculous!

Major fault lies with Mihir, his meeting Mihika n feeding her samosa n gol gappas might not b intentional but then he did not try ways to work on his marriage! He did not give Rinky the much needed "time" n expected her to be understanding while he can think of ways to make his Ex happy? True...Mihir did nt do any of it intentionally...but galti toh usse hui hi...jiska nateeja ab dikh raha hai...Exes hovering around cannot make ur married life go smooth..that's for sure!

N ya I agree as u said that Mihir is not the first person to marry a person who was not his first love. I understand the dynamics of love and am a romantic at heart...have been madly in love before..but marriage, is for life..if u cant honour it, then dont make a joke out of it...when Ishita said "Mihir wont cheat on you" I was like, that's NOT the only requirement in this marriage..there's MORE..WHICH Mihir needs to understand, if he wnts to give this marriage a shot that is



CCR!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire



Arree...go through it and you'll understand! It was a sarcasm galore! The whole forum bashes her for everything and when you try to reason, you get bashed and labeled so her so called supporters bashed her tonight! And what a bashing it was! Ishita haters can't even think half of the things we all blamed her of! 🤣


Hehehe...quite entertaining...am going thru it now
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43
I agree!
And all this has been done to make that loser Subbu show his mahanta for Ishu. Seriously cvs? W*F is wrong with ur brains??? Raman is your brain child, your muse. Please have some mercy on him and his fans. Being a woman I don't think any wife should tolerate such non-sense from her husband. I seriously don't get these extreme kind of mood swings Raman goes through. At some point he is probably the best husband a woman can have and at the other he is plain rude and immoral. It hurts so much to see your favorite character being butchered so badly. But I don't think it does affect cvs anymore because they know how much irrational they show Raman people still will watch this crap because afterall in 70% of the indian household men have such behavior and even women do tolerate it - this is a reality of even educated families. So definitely cvs care the least.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: sunitas123


Good review Aka and nice points Megha,

Aka, Rinki was till yesterday busy with her exams, all of a sudden she fell in love and wanted a honeymoon. If she thinks Mihir can fall out of love easily, maybe thats in her nature. She has forgotten her ex.easily and now she loves Mihir. Next she wants to divorce Mihir and will fall for the next guy. Aise hota hai kya? And she is actually jealous and accusing Raman of indifference and enjoying life? So selfish she is. That statement was as bad as Raman yelling at Ishita. And Toshiji is worried just for Rinky...

As for ishita, she will continue in this marriage for Ruhi, no matter how Raman treats her. So I guess after what all he has said and done, she should maintain the distance from him...Raman is too much of an MCP.




You're contradicting ur own words S..first u make it seem like love makes the world go round, then end up saying marriage trumps it in every sense
love and marriage are diff things

and believe it or not, marriage lasts longer than love

U may not have been head over heels in love with ur partner in the initial days, but towards the end, you prolly cant think of ur life without them...countless marriages in this country are testimony to that...

Rinki is NOT expecting Mihir to forget Mihika...his so-called first love

she only expects him to honour and commit to this marriage the way SHE does

but since he seems unable to, she felt its better to leave the scene and get on with life...since Mmihir MADE her feel SHE's responsible for this mess..and he cant marry Mihika coz of HER

How shud she feel in this scenario? And what's wrong if she wants to get out this mess AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE? Dont tell me women are destined to stay put in unhappy marriages, coz their husbands are pricks and dont have the guts t tell the world they love somone else???

And we've had a discussion on this count earlier as well...and I maintain the same

WHO CAN DICTATE RINKY'S FEELINGS FOR MIHIR? Can you dictate, in an arranged marriage, BOTH the partners fall for each other AT THE SAME TIME? On schedule...and its a crime if ONE partner fell in love earlier than the other? What rubbish! Mihir is making too big a deal out of his past...Who says Rinki forgot hers so easily? They didnt explore that bit...so why shud we assume such things right now?!!


No one questions a married couple how they end up having a baby after a year of marriage (even in arranged marriages)...then why is LOVE such a big deal? I dunno if u noticed this or not...but Rinki ALWAYS had a soft spot for Mihr...always..

Ive even mentioned tht in my reviews...

So its just a progression...and even if she DIDNT...And she suddenly FELL for Mihir...what's stopping her? WHY CANT SHE? He's her HUSBAND!! She can fall for him now, tomorrow, after a month, after a year...but that doesnt mean she wont HONOUR the vows she took at the altar just because she's waiting for Cupid to strike her in the heart..atleast she's trying to spend some time with Mihir and work on her marriage...Mihir is busy nursing his broken heart..and tending to his ex-gf's fried leftover brains and broken heart..

what is she to do?

pine and cry and beg and plead and grovel?

Be all self-sacrificing and take shit like Ishu did after getting married to Raman, initially?

NO.

And I think...romantic love and a past and all that is fine..but there's something called MOVING ON.

Billions of people do that.

Mihir isnt the only one. There's no glory in what Mihika did. And Mihir' s story isnt spectacular...

I did wish for the moon...but if i didnt get it, Im not gonna blind my eyes to the stars...maybe the moon wasnt meant for me..but Im gonna give it a chance with the stars...make it work...and be happy..no point circumventing the routes of the galaxies to reach for the moon...losing EVERYTHING on the way


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Posted: 10 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: anjs

Raman was wrong when he let mihir n rinky marriage happen, even today when he blasted Ishita, no two ways about it...


Most of all..it was Toshi...

and in fact, when Iishu made tht decision...he COULD have alerted her to the possibilities of the marriage not working out...bt he didnt...stood mute
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: sunitas123


which new promo?it had ILU and then separation? Has ILU happened?


Nope...not yet
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

Frankly speaking I gave the episode a skip. It's annoying. It's annoying to see my fav show going like this. Moreover I didn't understand raman's outburst. One moment he was all lovey dovey with his wife n the other moment he throws her out of the house. Is he insane? Is this love? This is how a mature couple love each other by fighting every now n then?

they hv down graded raman's character today. How can a husband be so rude to his wife? Not expected of rkb. I was HORRIFIED...Yest was still bearable...today, it seemed Raman pulled out all the stops in being rude and callous...it didnt look it was the SAME man about to confess his feelings to his wife...really

This show has nothing. Frankly speaking this show is getting disappointing. Old episodes were so good. They had emotions they had genuineness they had a feel but now all this is missing. N as a fan I feel bad. I really miss the old yhm. Main jaan boojhke purane episodes nai dekhti, coz then it hurts..i feel angry and feel like not watching the show AT ALL...It all started with a good premise of 'urban story' and then slided down t these despicable levels

How beautiful it was. A woman's desire to be a mother. A father's craving fr his son. A daughter's love fr her father n craving fr a mother. A girl's love for an unknown woman. A bonding between lady n a child, bonding between 2 broken souls. A family who was always there. it was so beautiful. And now its all...messed up...kids who dont know where they belonged and can be kidnapped anytime by their biological mother, a husband losing his marbles and behaving idiotically with his wife, the wife taking this shit EVERY TIME IT HAPPENS, a family standing on MUTE, for the most part...

Ab kahan haI yeh sab? All drama. Even after all the crap shagun enters d house whenever she wants , speaks all bullshit n raman doesn't open his mouth. CUstody case is still unsolved. On top of that subbu has made an entry. So many tracks left gaping open...WAT HAPPENED TO SARIKA'S CHILD? When will Vandu deliver? ist the baby dying to pop out now, its been SO LONG! And where's that creep Param? And I want Mani for Simmi...tehy'll make a good pair...she'll teach him some expressions...😆 Waise Shagun ke saamne Raman ki bolti band ho jati hai...bas Ishita ke saamne bolte rehta hai

Things will go from bad to worse. I would prefer to watch old episodes n watch kp in nb and gumrah.


CCR Neha!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Malika

I agree!

And all this has been done to make that loser Subbu show his mahanta for Ishu. Seriously cvs? W*F is wrong with ur brains??? Raman is your brain child, your muse. Please have some mercy on him and his fans. Being a woman I don't think any wife should tolerate such non-sense from her husband. I seriously don't get these extreme kind of mood swings Raman goes through. At some point he is probably the best husband a woman can have and at the other he is plain rude and immoral. It hurts so much to see your favorite character being butchered so badly. But I don't think it does affect cvs anymore because they know how much irrational they show Raman people still will watch this crap because afterall in 70% of the indian household men have such behavior and even women do tolerate it - this is a reality of even educated families. So definitely cvs care the least.


Like it happened in Mani track, rem?

They suddenly make Raman a screaming belligerent freak, so that Ishita could compare her hubby's behaviour TO Mani's...

in bad taste, it was..Arent there no other ways about this??

One minute, Raman was professing his undying love for her..and a few minutes later, he explodes like a BOMB

Scary!

But this SHUD not be portrayed this way naa

if women in this country DO tolerate such kinda behaviour from their men, these stupid shows shud portray WOMEN GIVIG IT BACK TO MEN AS WELL...Not show how even educated independent women behav like a wallflower
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Malika

I agree!

And all this has been done to make that loser Subbu show his mahanta for Ishu. Seriously cvs? W*F is wrong with ur brains??? Raman is your brain child, your muse. Please have some mercy on him and his fans. Being a woman I don't think any wife should tolerate such non-sense from her husband. I seriously don't get these extreme kind of mood swings Raman goes through. At some point he is probably the best husband a woman can have and at the other he is plain rude and immoral. It hurts so much to see your favorite character being butchered so badly. But I don't think it does affect cvs anymore because they know how much irrational they show Raman people still will watch this crap because afterall in 70% of the indian household men have such behavior and even women do tolerate it - this is a reality of even educated families. So definitely cvs care the least.



I agree with u that it happens in most of the households but how much is too much? 😕 n besides shud we be seeing this on TV at prime time 7.30 where our kids r exposed to such stuff?

N besides y shud someone like Ishita take it lying low? 😕 beats me.

Only for kids is it worth it? Wud Ruhi not learn from Ishita that no matter what ur husband does to u, u have to bear it silently. Either CVs show that Raman mends his ways or Ishita actually moving out for Good.

Drama is fine its interesting but it shud not b too extreme I feel.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

Frankly speaking I gave the episode a skip. It's annoying. It's annoying to see my fav show going like this. Moreover I didn't understand raman's outburst. One moment he was all lovey dovey with his wife n the other moment he throws her out of the house. Is he insane? Is this love? This is how a mature couple love each other by fighting every now n then?

they hv down graded raman's character today. How can a husband be so rude to his wife? Not expected of rkb.

This show has nothing. Frankly speaking this show is getting disappointing. Old episodes were so good. They had emotions they had genuineness they had a feel but now all this is missing. N as a fan I feel bad. I really miss the old yhm.

How beautiful it was. A woman's desire to be a mother. A father's craving fr his son. A daughter's love fr her father n craving fr a mother. A girl's love for an unknown woman. A bonding between lady n a child, bonding between 2 broken souls. A family who was always there. it was so beautiful.

Ab kahan haI yeh sab? All drama. Even after all the crap shagun enters d house whenever she wants , speaks all bullshit n raman doesn't open his mouth. CUstody case is still unsolved. On top of that subbu has made an entry.

Things will go from bad to worse. I would prefer to watch old episodes n watch kp in nb and gumrah.




See above bold sentence , actually raman is puppet of shagun so he never able to shut her whenever she speaks against ishita like before...so never think about that & moreever ishita is punching bag for raman & ishita has not any self respect if she has some respect then she never forgive raman easily...in current generation , mature & self respect never suffer this type of husband like raman .raman behaves like illiterate man...

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