Originally posted by: krishy13
I don't think I've commented on your post before...but great write up! Especially your P.S.es Hehehe...thank you..even Im seeing your post on my review thread for the first time
As selfish as Rinki sounds...at least she is voicing her opinion. Ishita hasn't done this in terms of Raman's anger and it's tiring. Why is she bearing the brunt of his anger? No woman deserves to be treated like this. I'll be honest...Rinki sounds normal...not selfish..she's trying to tell everyone her perspective, that's it...but Ishita...I wished Ishita could be MORE VOCAL about hr needs..her feelings...her boundaries...and she isnt...and that's disappointing
Before she would stand up for herself or shut him up, but since love sprung between the two - Raman's words are just cruel & Ishita's willingness to forgive and forget is magnified. Love is one thing...self-respect, is anther..They are separate things, and can exist in the same relationship...Im wondering..if Ishita started speaking up for herself, wud Raman still be in awe f her? madly in love with her? If not, then clearly there's something wrong
Right now, I can't relate to Ishita simply because of her passiveness, because love doesn't mean you should become a doormat. And like you...Raman has been my favorite character...so to see him regularly become a ruthless, selfish man is painful. Raman has always had a short temper, but he just sounds cruel & pathetic now. It pinched badly when Raman behaved like an angry, uncouth guy..SO MEAN...SO, SO CRUEL...itna bhi gussa theek nai..and woh bhi sabke saamne, he's asking his wife to get lost...what does this even mean? Ishita shud REALLY set her boundaries now...tell him she wont take this shit. EVER. BUT NAI...She'll be smiling her way to the hills, at his stupid proposal two days later
Not only that but it's like they are out to prove that he's a giant, grade A hypocrite. This is the third or fourth instance in the last 6 months, he proclaimed love/made promises and then within an episode or...broke it all. Ohh YES!! They've been doing tht for MORE THAN 6 MONTHS NOW..ITS RIDICULOUS...It makes me feel I go gaga over an illusion..not a real person, a real character...co Raman flips to the other side so SOON
Do the creators of this show want us to hate him or see Ishita & Raman split up?
I'm fine with him being pissed and getting mad because he does have a short temper & some of his points were valid...but the cruelty of it all is rough. See..the temper and the short fuse, im okay with...his general irritability is okay...we're all used to t...but today? WAS NOT OKAY. Really. Even if it was a plan or watever, CVs need to tone it down
Each time they have a one-sided fight like this, we think Ishita will take a stand or Raman will eventually redeem himself, but for the last 5 months - nothing. Ditto...Ive given up on Ishita...she shud stop giving Rinky marriage tips and learn to first stand up for herself
Khair...who cares...this is what's on our screens for the time-being, so the front-forward button is yet again my friend! 😆
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