YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #67 - Page 15

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Oh for that I am extremely happy, finally a track is happening in the show which makes sense after such a long time and the characters are behaving like themselves, if for nothing else we can be thankful to Subbu for this - his entry started to save the show which lost its plot 6 months ago when Bechari Shagun Bachao Andolan started by Mihika 😆

I am excited for the dance and worried for Divyanka, and I want to know how she managed to pull this off and which song are they dancing too all at the same time 😆

And I want to see the whole sequence soon now, Monday is too far away already 😳😒

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Loved absolutely purely Loved what u wrote...

i really feel this track heals the wounds of Ishita as woman where ishita as mother is healed

now Ishita as woman turns to get heal...

its more about couple tht can be seen...

where times cum shagun where Ishra more about parenthood...

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Thanks Shveta.

This week has been really good hope the vein keeps up.

And finally Raman has moved onto bigger things in life with Mihir which is both a good and a bad thing cause at somepoint when thanks to Rinki' immaturity shit hits fan, it will be hard to keep personal and professional relationships seperate when working together.

As for Ashok, he has always been more bark than bite so there isnt much to worry.

Subbu is gonna try and intrude as much as he can which is a given.

BUT and I would like to say this going against the tide, I dont understand why people always say this that Ishita has to be more expressive of her feelings for Raman - just because she cant wear her heart on her sleeve doesnt make her an ice maiden. In fact in her own way Ishita has been always expressive of her feelings for Raman - when she got his presidency back, when she ran to a burning hotel thinking his life maybe in danger or when Mihir fooled her with a fake accident news call. She even went to the lengths of publicly chasing him on an international airport and hit him there uncaring of who maybe present and in clear words stated - he cant take the decisions of their lives alone nor can he decide who she loves or cannot love. That he has to live as per her rules as in their home she is the boss - if this isnt being expressive of her love what is?

Hell, the most stupid thing a woman can do - bring her husband' ex home to stay with them - Ishita even did that FOR Raman so that he could be with his son and trusted him enough even when Shagun played her games - isnt this all a proof of her love for him.

Words and gestures can only express so much, its ultimately your actions - the non-verbal ones, the ones no one can understand except for your partner that speak of your relationship - the love, trust and respect you have for one another. And it is all there in this relationship.

Ishita to me has been AS expressive as Raman in her love for him, why look for any of these things? Just the way she smiles at him and looks at him is enough of a statement of how much she loves the guy...so I dont think it is about Ishita becoming expressive, this track, rather this track is about remeding her wounds she never opens up even in front of Raman because they hurt too much, its about Raman slowly healing the woman in her by being the man who can proudly say that there is no shortcoming in my woman - she is a complete woman and being with her, loving her to me comes regardless of the fact she may not be able to give me a child or that she loves my children as her own, because to me she is enough as she is.

If we see the very first episode of Subbu both, the one with Bhanujeet and one with Amit - the same flashback with the same lines was retained that a marriage cannot survive based on love alone if there are no kids - this track is about Ishita healing from the wounds inflicted upon her with those words - this marriage recently went through hell when Ruhi was taken away from this couple and Adi wasnt as close to them still as a son - he has yet to call Raman 'papa' or Ishita 'Ishimaa' - yet these two never thought of splitting, yes they fought, they argued, they got mad at each other but they even cried together and fought all the problems that came their way together - their marriage didnt end when there were no kids - it went through a storm and emerged only stronger.

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

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DT is crazy...Iss haalat mein dance... Only hope is that there is a man holding her who happens to be her friend...

Haan yaar,,,,Shagun ki shaadi se lekar pichle hafte tak Shagun ko dekh dekhkar tak gaye... Subbu is definitely making us love YHM again. Aisi pics aur ek din ka break...too much... Kya kare? Should wait...

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

I honestly dont know what to make of that woman - seriously call her crazy or courageous 😳; this dance is gonna require Karan to be very alert and at his most steadiest for her.

Shukar hai koi toh aaya jiski wajah se Shagun aur Mihika ne jo raita failaya uske aage hum badh rahe hai 😆

Originally posted by: ShvetaSankar

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@Bold: Agree Aani, I do agree with you that Ishita is very caring and much in love with Raman.. But now the scenario is such that if Subbu tries to wins her back by virtue of first love then he will also pretty much stand on the same ground that I am ready to accept you in my life the way you are because I want you back in your life..that is he will also be ready to accept her with no kids.. No doubt at that point of time Raman will fight for Ishitha tooth and nail and in the process will heal Ishitha's deepest insecurities that she feels she is inadequate, just as Ishitha did when Shagun tried the trick.. That time Ishitha has to shout out to the world and show Subbu his place and let the world know that nothing matters to her more than Raman and their kids (as she has already accepted Adi as well as own son).. As someone mentioned I want these two people to shout out to the world that are very much in love.. Because I feel that everyone seem to make a mockery about their relationship status..That is what I meant by expressive.. My bad for conveying wrong meaning..

And regarding problem between Raman and Mihir because of Rinki.. I really hope the CVs don't butcher this lovely relationship.. both are more than brothers.. Because Raman-Mihir, Ishitha-Mihir , Raman-Bala, Ishitha-Romi are lovely relationships in the show which I don't want to be butchered under any circumstances.. Hoping CVs don't take that route ...

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Shveta Subbu may say all those things no doubt he will too at some point but thats the thing, him being her first love would hold no weight for her because he broke her trust, her faith in him and them when he let her down at the time she needed him the most.

As for IShita shouting to the world to show Subbu his place, lets see how the track shapes up but of what I have seen Ishita she isnt one to make public spectacles unless and until she is really, really mad. She fights for those she loves but does that necessarily mean that Subbu should be called off publicly? No I dont think so, in fact I would hope now. If though a huge confrontation is needed I hope its not made in some stupid party rather the families being there at the most would be more than enough cause ultimately in the end Ishita doesnt need to shout to the world they are in love nor should Raman - them saying it to each other is all thats needed for the sake of formality at this point, because people will just see what they want too. And what should these two do to change their minds - really allow everyone a peek into their personal space, their bedroom? Post selfies once they do the deed with the caption - we did it! Na, rather them being themselves crazy in love and by each other is all the statement the world needs from them.

The people who mock their relationship have always been outsiders like Shagun, Ashok, Param and soon Subbu would join the ranks - and to these people Ishita and Raman owe no explainations at all, because at the end of the day who are these people - no one, except people who want to tear them apart, people who themselves have no relationships to speak off - does Shagun have someone she loves who loves her back, Ashok or Param for that matter - these people taunt and mock Ishita and Raman regarding their marriage and the consummation of the same but none of them values relationships for what they are and to them sex is just a physical activity, which is why Raman time and again mentioned to Shagun what he shares with Ishita is beyond the understanding of a shallow woman like Shagun.

Raman obviously shared sexual relationship with Shagun while they were married - their kids stand proof of that - but when has that marriage even in the flashbacks, ever been shown as a happy one?

This time around Raman took his time to invest his heart, himself again in love and marriage - which made him tell Rinki tonight if he cant trust Ishita, he cant trust anyone, such a long way from the jaded RKB of the past.

Sex matters in a marriage, but sex alone cannot sustain it if there are no emotions involved, the people who have mocked their marriage have no emotions and to them sex is sex, but Raman being the man who he is cannot seperate the two - to him to love someone is to invest in them mind, body, heart and soul - which is why Ishita and Raman are stronger today as a couple with only a year of marriage than Shagun and Raman ever were even when they had 2 kids and 6 years together.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Good night everyone see ya'll soon