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Posted: 10 years ago
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Were does Raman have time to love ishita his bag is full of responsibility parents sibblings and kids .
Troubling boss and ex wife present wife troubling for getting back ruhi .
Adi also is his responsibility he got custody lost ruhi's.
Twist ka tablet kathe kathe Ada hogaya bechara .
His present wife only loves ruhi what can he do .
Either manni or subbu needed to make him nerves and possesive .
Forget it's lovestory of kichdi - Raman - shaggun - ishita - ashok -???? Ruhi - adi yhm = yeh hai mad - batein
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaimaV


Well, as you all say Raman's greatest weakness is Adi. He knew Adi hated Ishita, yet that didn't stop him to love Ishita nor it stopped to him to continue his love. He never said that if Adi didn't start loving Ishita, his love for Ishita would be meaningless. Neither he ever said, without Adi or Ruhi, his relationship with Ishita will be at stake.

I know people will bring this Holi info. LOL. I can explain but you won't agree. So I'm taking the easy way. Let's say I agree. But why are you WILLINGLY overlooking his NUMEROUS attempts to confess, even to consummate their marriage. He needed nothing but Ishita did NOT reciprocate whenever he tried to get close to her. Why? Even she never bothered to confess for once. Why?
So much for independent love, no? Taking an incident out of context doesn't change the truth.


@bold...the kya scene...which we gush abt so much was ishita trying to confesss...
umm another scene...when raman was going to singapore..she tried n number of times to confess...
@tht intehaa ho gayi intezaar ki was a clear indication tht ishita wanted to go for the bold dance n was absolutely okk with kissing..n couple of other times as well...

@ italics n underlined: tht ishita also didnt leave the moment ruhi is out of the scene..she didnt walk out..even thou in anger... didnt shout at him the moment she came to know he hid his job truth or modelling truth...

i m not pointing out raman's fault.. m just pointing out tht BOTH raman n ishita has done something or the other for each other...n BOTH have done mistakes too...


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Posted: 10 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Well Viji - u might try "Bot Ishra r wrong" or " Ishra love each other"

I felt like saying that coz we might get more Raman bashing posts in ur thread n ur intention of opening this thread will b lost.

Frankly speaking its CVs who r not addressing issues properly between Ishita nRaman more than the characters.

They r doing that to drag drama so the show runs for ages. 😆



lol I changed my title ...hope it better off conveying my thoughts.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaimaV

@TM: Your conclusion and content are 180 degree contradictory. You want to sound like balancing Ishita and Raman's points but your focus throughout the content was to show Raman's fault only. I don't have any problem with that but I don't agree with "your act of neutrality".

About your trying to figure out why others are making such posts---as the proverb says "jo khud shishe ke ghar mai rehte hai woh dusro ke ghar mai patthar nahi phekte hai".



Oops sorry I admit I didn't write it like school paper where content match conclusion , in just ranted. 😳
Pointing Raman's fault def not my intentions. I brought facts against Raman because that's what sparked this discussion, the fact Ishita openly admitted Ruhi is more important where for Raman it was his actions that spoke same. I just wanted to point out for BOTH Raman and Ishita loves their children first, one can't be questioned over the other.

My heart is at neutrality,😊 even if you believe otherwise.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: khwaish_245


bang on ... finally a nice and sensible topic , otherwise the forum is full of senseless topic, as to prove their side of favorites as superb over another 😡

you said it all ... we really didnt know whether he really loves ishita or not , as whenever he is with shagun , he really forgets about everything and gets busy with her , arguing over adi or ruhi as the case may be , and shagun , when had she listened him , instit she makes him dances on her little fingers , and he like a monkey always ready to dances in her tunes everytime , even after falling everytime , he didnt learnt from his mistakes ever and commits same thing again ...and ishita too , she is not insecure of raman spending time with shagun but she has ruhi in her mind all the time ..., today also she was not upset because they are watching romantic movie but because he is not listening her when she was calling for help to ruhi 😕, kaisi aurat hai yeh 👎🏼


@ Bold But see this is where i think you are wrong...she is human, and more importantly she is a woman, who is usually a very confident and independent...and her weakness in her love for her husband. She was upset that he was watching a movie with his ex...it bothered her a lot, but her maturity and her upbringing prevented her from commenting on it in front of Shagun...this is something Shagun would do...not Ishita. She would be showing Shagun a weakness by allowing her to see a rift between herself and Raman...and that she cannot afford at all cost right now.

In fact, that she did comment to him that watching a movie was irresponsible...was her way of telling him that she noticed, and that it upset her...but like many of us when we are angry, we don't say exactly what we mean, and instead we beat around the bush...calling him negligent...when she knows that he loves his children and would do anything for them.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Viji15



But I do remember him saying why can't you become Ishima to Adi too and how he expected for her to keep intact with all his children whereabouts, remember his anger when Shagun and Adi leaves with Mihir... Raman doesn't say but he actions speaks otherwise.

I don't know if you been in love but its a girl thing to expect the guy to express first, stupid I agree. BUT thats sort of how its... Plus She didn't run away everytime he tried to express, she anticipated it and he knew that and they teased each other as they both knew.

There is only two time they tried to consummate , one during holi and that dialogue ruined it for him. Second time he seduced her to get the legal document , which is not an act of "independent love"



I agree with Viji...its a girl thing to want to have the man confess first...
but actually it was Ishita that confronted him about her feeling, and their feeling first. The whole Airpot fiasco, bit OTT if you ask me, but the last bit of the argument, when he is surrounded by all of the people in a human chain...she is the one to say why are you leaving me after changing me, and after changing yourself...why to you want to hurt us? Why did you think I would love Mani more than...? This is more confession than Raman had made...up until that time.

So it not about who loves who more or less...its about being a family, learning and juggling the dynamics in a relationship with each other and their children. People struggle with this all the time in real life with their own kids...here its more complicated by the fact that Ishita is not their biological mom!!!

And like almost all marital relationship...the LACK OF COMMUNICATION is killing them...and complicating the matters more. But today, Raman gave rationale for why he didn't tell her all of his woes...he didn't want to stress her...and as the man o the house he feels its his duty to take on the responsibility...and as a man...he wants to pamper the woman he loves, to keep her from bad experiences...and that to me sounds very realistic. Granted that men are short sighted, and don't realize that it eventually catches up, and things don't stay hidden...but what to do, it the overprotective gene in the man...and that why they say

Men are form Mars, and Women are from Venus...we will always be different, think differently, feel differently, and react differently too!!

Sorry Viji...to hijack your thread...but i had to get this rant out of me too!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Damn...your post has made me all JAZBAATI...and i swore to myself several serials ago that i would never invest that much of myself or my feeling in a show...or on the forum ever again but...these stupid posts this week...are driving me up a wall...just the titles, for i don't give them the worth to even open those threads, much less read them!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Topic suggestion: ISHRA: Love or No Love...Is that the question?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@nargis...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shalz...sometimes i think i am buddhi on the forum...because there are so many comments and threads on the forum that are so immature and ones that I would never expect a rational woman to make...its insane!!

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