IshRa love for eachother is not questionable! - Page 4

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

Shalz...sometimes i think i am buddhi on the forum...because there are so many comments and threads on the forum that are so immature and ones that I would never expect a rational woman to make...its insane!!

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">I agree with Viji...its a girl thing to want to have the man confess first...</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">but actually it was Ishita that confronted him about her feeling, and their feeling first. The whole Airpot fiasco, bit OTT if you ask me, but the last bit of the argument, when he is surrounded by all of the people in a human chain...she is the one to say why are you leaving me after changing me, and after changing yourself...why to you want to hurt us? Why did you think I would love Mani more than...? This is more confession than Raman had made...up until that time.</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">So it not about who loves who more or less...its about being a family, learning and juggling the dynamics in a relationship witheach other and their children. People struggle with this all the time in real life withtheir own kids...here its more complicated by the fact that Ishita is not theirbiological mom!!!</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">And likealmost all marital relationship...the LACK OF COMMUNICATION is killing them...and complicating the matters more. But today, Raman gave rationale for why he didn't tell her all of his woes...he didn't want to stress her...and as the man othe house he feels its hisduty to take on the responsibility...and as a man...he wants to pamper the woman he loves, to keep her from badexperiences...and that to me sounds very realistic. Granted that men are short sighted, anddon't realize that iteventually catches up, and thingsdon't stay hidden...but what to do, it the overprotective gene in the man...and that why they say</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Men are form Mars, and Women are from Venus...we willalways bedifferent, thinkdifferently, feeldifferently, and reactdifferently too!!</font>

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<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Sorry Viji...to hijack your thread...but i had to get thisrant out of me too!!</font>

Nargis Loved ur Take n conpletely agree with it too.

Have u read menr from mars n women r from Venus by any chance - its a gunny take on relationship. 😆

Thanks Viji, awesome title.

N i hope i have not offended u coz that was not my intention. Apologies if u were hurt. As I said I thought that ur post wud b swarmed by Raman lovers or Ishita lovers n the real intention of ur post will b lost. 😛

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Nargis Loved ur Take n conpletely agree with it too.

Have u read menr from mars n women r from Venus by any chance - its a gunny take on relationship. 😆

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

And like almost all marital relationship...the LACK OF COMMUNICATION is killing them...and complicating the matters more. But today, Raman gave rationale for why he didn't tell her all of his woes...he didn't want to stress her...and as the man o the house he feels its his duty to take on the responsibility...and as a man...he wants to pamper the woman he loves, to keep her from bad experiences...and that to me sounds very realistic. Granted that men are short sighted, and don't realize that it eventually catches up, and things don't stay hidden...but what to do, it the overprotective gene in the man...and that why they say

Men are form Mars, and Women are from Venus...we will always be different, think differently, feel differently, and react differently too!!

Sorry Viji...to hijack your thread...but i had to get this rant out of me too!!

@Bold yess Raman made sense!

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

In fact, that she did comment to him that watching a movie was irresponsible...was her way of telling him that she noticed, and that it upset her...but like many of us when we are angry, we don't say exactly what we mean, and instead we beat around the bush...calling him negligent...when she knows that he loves his children and would do anything for them.

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@Bold thats what I understood too!


and no need to be sorry, I made this so people can post some good view points.Thanks for your comment!🤗

Originally posted by: shalz_123

i know what u mean... rite now.. i m in mute...coz zyada bolugi to i might get hyper..hence my answer to such posts are..

n ofcourse to Viji...

PS: I refuse to be buddhi..n hence u cannot be too...😆

Guys aap log yaha pe keep on debating who loves whom or not, waha pe bomb phod chuka hai...😆

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

I agree Shalz...abhi toh mein JAWAAN hoon!!!

This is the halat of the forum:

Kehna Toh Bahut Kuch Chahte The Unko,
Magar Zubaan/Ungliaon Ne Sath Na Diya,
Kabhi Waqt Ki Khamoshi Mein Khamosh Rahe Hum,
Toh Kabhi Unki BAKWAAS Ne Kuch Kehne Na Diya...😆

Originally posted by: Phoenix-

Guys aap log yaha pe keep on debating who loves whom or not, waha pe bomb phod chuka hai...😆

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Thanks Viji, awesome title.

N i hope i have not offended u coz that was not my intention. Apologies if u were hurt. As I said I thought that ur post wud b swarmed by Raman lovers or Ishita lovers n the real intention of ur post will b lost. 😛

Oh no I don't take these things offensive😆 We are here to share our view points. Quite frankly you enlighten me, I def didn't want to come across as either Raman or Ishita supporter, but I think some are viewing me in such way so I hope people don't brand me😳.
Thanks Megha!