***Before you post your counter argument please read my LONG rant.***
Ishita is being blamed by some, questioning her love for Raman. I really hate to come off as Ishita's advocate because right now I hate the plot and both the characters quite a lot. Honest confession, Raman has always had my soft corner more than Ishita but a fact is fact for me.
Okay Ishita loves Ruhi more than her husband. Fact. How does that translate to Raman loving Ishita more than his kids? Please explain. Has Raman ever said that? OR has Ishita wheeled away from him stating "come back with Ruhi only then I will live with you"? They are still very much together hoping for the best. The truth is Raman was the reason for Ruhi to get swapped in the first place, which means he does not have the rights to say we are nothing without Ruhi. Ishita never played a role in separating his kids away from him like he has unintentionally done so with IshRu. Just because Raman doesn't say it doesn't make him more magically in love with Ishita then Ishita is with him.
This whole possessiveness and jealousy thing people are arguing over, I just want to know when has that overpowered the "TRUST" requirement in the relationship book? Raman hates Shagun, fact. Ishita knows, fact. Instead of blaming Ishita for her lack of possessiveness how about questioning Raman's honesty. Here is a guy who tells his wife to come out for dinner but doesn't bother informing his injured wife of the change of plan and that too without any guilt enjoys his mini family time with his daughter and ex-wife. Quite honestly they have shown Raman to be a total jerk and him wishing she is asleep when he gets homes just to avoid questions, wow he definitely love his wife over anything and anyone for sure right folks?. I find it so funny how instead of wishing Raman to smarten up and not fall for Shagun schemes some of us are questioning Ishita's love just because she said "I'm jealous of Raman". To me that came across of as mothers plight asking "why is my daughter only avoiding me?" and not as "why is my husband is getting the love of my daughter?"
Thought we were good at reading in between the lines cause that's how some of us has found out about the lack of love Ishita has for Raman. 🤔
Actions speaks louder than words. Raman never said it but has always proved his value and priority are his kids, first in choosing to marry Ishita for the sake of Ruhi and over and over again in Adi's case till this very day. ( Amma accident Track, During Adi's stay at Bhalla house, and very present track of exchange of custody).Yes he did willingly let go of Adi at one point, but only to live next door, what was he really losing in letting him stay next door other than few cals when he had to walk over? When they kicked Shagun/Adi out for good, he did it because for her scheming against Romi and Rinki not for Ishita. Even then Raman's father instinct starts to kicks in really fast cause soon after he files for Adi's custody which lead to all this nonsense. So all those who is saying Raman's love is greater for his wife then his kids. You have tell me when exactly he has proven that and put Ishita on top of his priority list so we can say Ishita is not being fair.Please don't say his trip to Singapore cause let's face it, he was running away and leaving Ishita to face all the after problems and responsibilities alone while he was going to cry over his cruel past haunting his present and believe he has set Ishita free. If he had chosen to move along with Ishita leaving everyone else behind then we have a valid point to discuss.
I'm not here to argue against Raman, but just wants to point Raman too puts his father duties before everything like Ishita. So we can't hold only Ishita up against for this. I believe that one of the strongest pillar in IshRa relationship is the parental love they have. That's the quality that earned the respect, LOVE and admiration for both from each other. Ishra weakness is their kids. Raman is shown like that with Adi and Ishita seen like that with Ruhi. Believe it or not most parents choses their children over themselves and naturally tends to love them a bit more than the spouses which is not ideal for a candy floss love story but it's true. That's the beauty of parental love. Just because parents love the kids more doesn't make us question the love they have for each other.
I feel this whole Ishita Vs Raman war is just the actors fan trying to argue for the sake of their favorite. The truth is BOTH Ishita and Raman are at faults.Their lack of communication seems to be a BIG issue in every case .In this present track Raman more so then Ishita but she too has lost her credential with her overly JM sacrifices in the past. .
Phew I had to get this out, and I didn't want to have a back forth argument ,so I created this separate post. Sorry😳
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