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Posted: 10 years ago
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This track, today's episode made no sense at all!!🤢

I can understand why Raman wants to keep Adi with him ,and its fine if for Adi's sake Ruhi has to stay for a few days more with Shagun, compared to Adi she's the stronger child, she'll handle her! And parents do have a tendency of taking more care of their weaker kid; it happens everywhere, and Adi is in need of immediate consolation or he may do something stupid.

As for Ruhi, Raman is sure he'll get her back in a few days, he's determined. But what I cudnt understand was what was the need to hide it from Ishita??? Chalo, for once, lets consider the situation, Ishita ran off with Ruhi, became hyoer half mad just at the thot of losing Ruhi for a day, so he may be scared that she wont allow Ruhi to stay with Shagun even a minute more, so he cud not tell her that, so even that can be considered understandable, but why the need to fake intimacy to distract her. The way it was shown he cud've easily stolen the paper when she was asleep; hell a sleeping pill wud've done too!!! The scene was hot, but the intentions made it cringeworthy!! the cvs destroyed what cud've been such a sensuous scene!!😡😡😡

Keeping logic, and the unnecessary drama aside I liked today's episode. I loved Raman for some strange reason today! I dont know why but the fact that he was being sneaky, making a mistake, etc just made me like him more today! U may call me mad, coz i think I am!!! I am a blundering fool too, so maybe I connect with him more, or Karan is just convincing that way! I can like only those characters whom i understand, and Raman in all his stupidity, guilt, sneakiness, i understand!😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

This track, today's episode made no sense at all!!🤢


I can understand why Raman wants to keep Adi with him ,and its fine if for Adi's sake Ruhi has to stay for a few days more with Shagun, compared to Adi she's the stronger child, she'll handle her! And parents do have a tendency of taking more care of their weaker kid; it happens everywhere, and Adi is in need of immediate consolation or he may do something stupid.

As for Ruhi, Raman is sure he'll get her back in a few days, he's determined. But what I cudnt understand was what was the need to hide it from Ishita??? Chalo, for once, lets consider the situation, Ishita ran off with Ruhi, became hyoer half mad just at the thot of losing Ruhi for a day, so he may be scared that she wont allow Ruhi to stay with Shagun even a minute more, so he cud not tell her that, so even that can be considered understandable, but why the need to fake intimacy to distract her. The way it was shown he cud've easily stolen the paper when she was asleep; hell a sleeping pill wud've done too!!! The scene was hot, but the intentions made it cringeworthy!! the cvs destroyed what cud've been such a sensuous scene!!😡😡😡

Keeping logic, and the unnecessary drama aside I liked today's episode. I loved Raman for some strange reason today! I dont know why but the fact that he was being sneaky, making a mistake, etc just made me like him more today! U may call me mad, coz i think I am!!! I am a blundering fool too, so maybe I connect with him more, or Karan is just convincing that way! I can like only those characters whom i understand, and Raman in all his stupidity, guilt, sneakiness, i understand!😊


Maybe Raman wanted Ishita's support at that moment... Priya posted an explanation on this and i found that convincing... What if Raman wanted intimacy on his own? He loves her and that's all that matters...

But yes, Raman can never look more convincing... Totally loved his vulnerability and helplessness today.

Thanks for commenting...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#73
thank you kri di, for making this post. first of all, just want to thank u and gan do for changing my thinking. qm mttimg that I am also one of the bashers of this track and puttar but after seeing puttr tears and your post,my opinions changed. CVS again handling this track maturely. I think yhm is only show which is raising such kind of serious issues. we can seriously say that yhm always dealt with social issues but peoples didn't want to see that, but apart all of these I really liked today's romantic scene. poor biwi surrender ed herself to her husband without a single question. this is called a bilnd and a pure love from a lady to his men. I know that CVS will definetly end this track in week or 10 days as many basher will not became part. okk inough with my ramblings I am moving again to page 1 to drool screencaps because that scene till giving me goosebumps... puttar emotional haalath mein bhi hamaari band bajata hai
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Posted: 10 years ago
#74
Heyyy Kri 😛
Just caught up with the episode n frankly I was very confused. Confused mainly as to why can't Raman n Ishita ever talk things out 😕... Confused alao over the upcoming scene. Why can't one of then talk to Ruhi n give her some kind of assurance n explain things out. She is pretty smart n understanding for get age so why not that route. The I remembered ohhh then wt will happen to all d drama, n what work will madam Shagun have if Ruhi is strong maybe I'm wrong here just my take.
But the rest of it, I completely agree with u. U have put it perfectly. Even for me what caught my eye n touched me the most was Puttars tears 😭 yeaa it probably was not the best way out but I don't entirely blame him or question his love here. I loved ur take n the positivity it brings, helps me look at the track in a diff way n b hooked on. 😛
n like u mentioned my first thought was...shit so if dts leg was nit hurt the cvs had totally planned to ruin rkb char...but I loved d way u put it. Y think of things that have not happ 😳
I just seriously hope Ruhi being aloof is v v short lived 😕
thanks for d post 🤗
Edited by .TIA. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: aarohi26

thank you kri di, for making this post. first of all, just want to thank u and gan do for changing my thinking. qm mttimg that I am also one of the bashers of this track and puttar but after seeing puttr tears and your post,my opinions changed. CVS again handling this track maturely. I think yhm is only show which is raising such kind of serious issues. we can seriously say that yhm always dealt with social issues but peoples didn't want to see that, but apart all of these I really liked today's romantic scene. poor biwi surrender ed herself to her husband without a single question. this is called a bilnd and a pure love from a lady to his men. I know that CVS will definetly end this track in week or 10 days as many basher will not became part. okk inough with my ramblings I am moving again to page 1 to drool screencaps because that scene till giving me goosebumps... puttar emotional haalath mein bhi hamaari band bajata hai


Loved your comment Aarohi... I am happy that you liked the post... This issue is very very sensitive and dry too... TRP audience can understand the plight of heroine's tears but they don't understand a kid's emotional trauma...Still, cv's are bringing it in a big scale. Kudos to that thought...

Looking at the other side, i definitely felt bad for Ishita. She's such a innocent soul who gave in to her husband's desire without another question but Raman was equally helpless...

Once they start showing drama, they'll end it soon...Hoping for the best and yes, the scene was drool worthy... Thanks for commenting
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Posted: 10 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

"Our intentions may be very good, but, because the intelligence is limited, the action may turn out to be a mistake - a mistake, but not necessarily a sin, for sin comes out of a wrong intention."


(Pic credit: Nichi)
This is all that i have to say about that poignant scene between Raman and Ishita in their bedroom. When my TV screen had Ishita's blush and Raman's hug, attention was attracted towards those tears which was spilling from the corner of Raman's eyes.

There's no point in arguing over a hypothetical situation as to what would have happened to their relationship if they had consummated their relationship. So, i will stick on to what was shown.

Had Raman jumped over Ishita on entering their room, i would have blamed Raman for being cheap. Had Raman taken the next step today without remorse and guilt, i would have blamed Raman... But, Today, i am not having an opportunity...

More than Ishita, that day has truly been a roller coaster ride for this man. While he was moving with the guilt of separating the mother-daughter duo, his Ishita freed him off his guilt by informing him about Vohra's encounter in school. For the first time, he got relieved that his son is finally ready to shoulder some responsibilities...as a brother... To treat his son, he entered his room with ice cream without knowing that his heart is going to melt... What a pathetic sight... His son was reading about a suicide... The next stop was before a counselor who advised him after Adi's issue.

Raman used to question Ishita often as to why she's not Adi's biological mother... Today, that car scene made me feel that... Life would have been more easy if the choices that life present are between right and wrong... Its not the case...Its right vs right else wrong vs wrong... Today, this father chose an option which is relatively less wrong. Yes, Ruhi is getting hurt and Raman didn't ignore that. So, this man will save his daughter too.

From day one, Raman has maintained his stand on something...He's a normal family man and he's not a super hero. Today, he proved that...Once again. His desperation was visible in his body language but he doesn't have a choice too...

Finally, after this tiring day, after killing a part of himself to save the other part which is killing itself on its own, he entered the room. Why can't Raman talk with Ishita? Should Raman fake that desire?

Had i been in Raman's place, the same would have happened. Ishita is excited about having Ruhi back... She's excited to the extent of ignoring his drunk state. She's assuring him that they'll get Adi back. How can this man talk to this selfless woman that he's going to separate her daughter from her?

So, he decided to use the last weapon in his hand to distract Ishita. Today, the desire was clouded by guilt but does that mean that Raman never loves her? In every single move, there was love and guilt of using this innocent soul to lay his hands on the paper... Before this intention of Raman, his action was nowhere seen...

WIth open arms, i am welcoming healthy criticism but please ensure that the discussion stays healthy...Thank you...


Kri, at every juncture in this past few episodes, logic has been tossed out of the window, to name a few instances:

Adi is a teenager who wants to stay with Raman, I am sure his words would be felt strongly by the courts given his age. If these guys can get Ruhi's case opened in 2 days, what is stopping them from talking to Adi, swapping Ruhi and open custody case and get immediate custody stating psychological reason the same or very next day. They have the shrink and her reports to prove their case? Where is the bloody need to sacrifice Ruhi? But what does he do drinks and goes to seduce wifey dearest.😆

Shaggy who is suppose to be dumb, has the best lawyer in town. Raman, CEO, Asia President etc. who is uber smart, continues to use Khurana who committed blunder. This in-spite of meeting Delhi's leading lawyer. Whats stopping him from hiring him?

Where did everyone leave their brains, will they ever use it?

I was initially very emotional about this track. But CVs are making a mountain out of a molehill and going for Drama drama and more drama.

This dialogue is apt for Raman, Ishita and the CVs all put together... from the film

As good as it gets

Receptionist: How do you write women so well?

Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.

Edited by Chessy - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: .TIA.

Heyyy Kri 😛
Just caught up with the episode n frankly I was very confused. Confused mainly as to why can't Raman n Ishita ever talk things out 😕... Confused alao over the upcoming scene. Why can't one of then talk to Ruhi n give her some kind of assurance n explain things out. She is pretty smart n understanding for get age so why not that route. The I remembered ohhh then wt will happen to all d drama, n what work will madam Shagun have if Ruhi is strong maybe I'm wrong here just my take.
But the rest of it, I completely agree with u. U have put it perfectly. Even for me what caught my eye n touched me the most was Puttars tears 😭 yeaa it probably was not the best way out but I don't entirely blame him or question his love here. I loved ur take n the positivity it brings, helps me look at the track in a diff way n b hooked on. 😛
n like u mentioned my first thought was...shit so if dts leg was nit hurt the cvs had totally planned to ruin rkb char...but I loved d way u put it. Y think of things that have not happ 😳
I just seriously hope Ruhi being aloof is v v short lived 😕
thanks for d post 🤗


Thanks for commenting Tia...Such a sensible question it was. First of all, the turn of events was so quick that everything ended before it could start... Also, even if Ishra explain everything, Ruhi can't understand this... What she's seeing before her eyes matters the most to her. She has been abandoned and her Ishima did that... So, let her come back to Bhalla house. She'll understand everything. Raman chose Adi over Ruhi but Ishita is supporting him too... Who knows Ruhi more than Ishita? At some point of time, this had to come up. Ruhi and Ishita ranks nowhere lesser than a normal mother-daughter... So, let this daughter get angry with her Ishima... Waiting for this track to play out because Raman knows the danger of leaving Ruhi with Shagun.

Thanks for liking my post...😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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hi kri...
loved the pic yar...speaks a lot...

but somehow just cannot connect to it...raman did try to get close to her...made her go into the dreamland where she had been waiting for...apar the fracture he wud hve C the marriage...but his intentions were not for the passion, love or longing...it was some other motive...and am glad that that C did not happen...it would hav killed the relationship even before it began.

i guess trust, speak, communicate, is what was needed which just does not seem to be happening from past 1 year...😒

like you and all YHM fans really waiting for the episodes to unfold...hopefully with positivity...coz ruhi without ishita and ishita without ruhi make YHM incomplete...i dont think i would be able to see her ruhi hate ishima...feel so so connected to them yar...

hope CVs dont give us this torture and end this track asap or get ruhi back to bhallas...

regarding acting KP and DT rocks it men...these 2 are really making the YHM fans cling to it despite so many loopholes...

keeping fingers crossed and waitinf for a positive closure asap...just cannot take it yar...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: krikumar.91



Loved your comment Aarohi... I am happy that you liked the post... This issue is very very sensitive and dry too... TRP audience can understand the plight of heroine's tears but they don't understand a kid's emotional trauma...Still, cv's are bringing it in a big scale. Kudos to that thought...

Looking at the other side, i definitely felt bad for Ishita. She's such a innocent soul who gave in to her husband's desire without another question but Raman was equally helpless...

Once they start showing drama, they'll end it soon...Hoping for the best and yes, the scene was drool worthy... Thanks for commenting

but do here one thing is noticeable, in all shows most of the tears are shed by only wife's but here our puttar also gives his contribution. its call the real meaning of shaadi and phereas
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chessy


Kri, at every juncture in this past few episodes, logic has been tossed out of the window, to name a few instances:

Adi is a teenager who wants to stay with Raman, I am sure his words would be felt strongly by the courts given his age. If these guys can get Ruhi's case opened in 2 days, what is stopping them from talking to Adi, swapping Ruhi and open custody case and get immediate custody stating psychological reason the same or very next day. They have the shrink and her reports to prove their case? Where is the bloody need to sacrifice Ruhi? But what does he do drinks and goes to seduce wifey dearest.😆

Shaggy who is suppose to be dumb, has the best lawyer in town. Raman, CEO, Asia President etc. who is uber smart, continues to use Khurana who committed blunder. This in-spite of meeting Delhi's leading lawyer. Whats stopping him from hiring him?

Where did everyone leave their brains, will they ever use it?

I was initially very emotional about this track. But CVs are making a mountain out of a molehill and going for Drama drama and more drama.


Its a daily soap which can't survive without drama. So, i won't defend that its 100% realistic... Female lead's tears moves audience more than a child's plight. Sadly, this is where our society is. But, cv's brought this inside and i appreciate them for that...

In this track, we can't draw a line to separate right from wrong. What seems wrong to one person seems right to another person... The way they perceive this situation brings this confusion inside.

Coming to your question, did Adi say that he want Bhallas? He's disturbed because of this swap game and Raman knows that... According to Raman, Adi still loves his Shagun mumma. Infact, i have this doubt too... Provided a choice, will Adi choose Raman over Shagun? No...He's disturbed. He understood that Shagun doesn't love him but he doesn't understand that Raman loves him. So, talking to him is not going to be of use. What he sees matters the most to him. If Ruhi is chosen at the cost of sacrificing Adi, he'll become dejected. This one decision of choosing Adi over Ruhi is going to turn the plates now...

Again, i'll wait for upcoming episodes before arriving at a conclusion. Regarding that intimacy, i am not seeing any issue with that... He loves Ishita to the core that he's ready to fall at Shagun's feet... So, i won't call this as seducing his wife to steal papers... Rest, each to their own...

Thanks for commenting...
Edited by krikumar.91 - 10 years ago

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