Actions vs Intentions...UPDATED

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Posted: 10 years ago
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"Our intentions may be very good, but, because the intelligence is limited, the action may turn out to be a mistake - a mistake, but not necessarily a sin, for sin comes out of a wrong intention."


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This is all that i have to say about that poignant scene between Raman and Ishita in their bedroom. When my TV screen had Ishita's blush and Raman's hug, attention was attracted towards those tears which was spilling from the corner of Raman's eyes.

There's no point in arguing over a hypothetical situation as to what would have happened to their relationship if they had consummated their relationship. So, i will stick on to what was shown.

Had Raman jumped over Ishita on entering their room, i would have blamed Raman for being cheap. Had Raman taken the next step today without remorse and guilt, i would have blamed Raman... But, Today, i am not having an opportunity...

More than Ishita, that day has truly been a roller coaster ride for this man. While he was moving with the guilt of separating the mother-daughter duo, his Ishita freed him off his guilt by informing him about Vohra's encounter in school. For the first time, he got relieved that his son is finally ready to shoulder some responsibilities...as a brother... To treat his son, he entered his room with ice cream without knowing that his heart is going to melt... What a pathetic sight... His son was reading about a suicide... The next stop was before a counselor who advised him about Adi's issue.

Raman used to question Ishita often as to why she's not Adi's biological mother... Today, that car scene made me feel that... Life would have been more easy if the choices that life present are between right and wrong... Its not the case...Its right vs right else wrong vs wrong... Today, this father chose an option which is relatively less wrong. Yes, Ruhi is getting hurt and Raman didn't ignore that. So, this man will save his daughter too.

From day one, Raman has maintained his stand on something...He's a normal family man and he's not a super hero. Today, he proved that...Once again. His desperation was visible in his body language but he doesn't have a choice too...

Finally, after this tiring day, after killing a part of himself to save the other part which is killing itself on its own, he entered the room. Why can't Raman talk with Ishita? Should Raman fake that desire?

Had i been in Raman's place, the same would have happened. Ishita is excited about having Ruhi back... She's excited to the extent of ignoring his drunk state. She's assuring him that they'll get Adi back. How can this man talk to this selfless woman that he's going to separate her daughter from her?

So, he decided to use the last weapon in his hand to distract Ishita. Today, the desire was clouded by guilt but does that mean that Raman never loves her? In every single move, there was love and guilt of using this innocent soul to lay his hands on the paper... Before this intention of Raman, his action was nowhere seen...

WIth open arms, i am welcoming healthy criticism but please ensure that the discussion stays healthy...Thank you...

Last but not the least, Two brilliant collages by Amina...

Ishra moments...



Raman's emotional turmoil...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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dammm wt a heart touching epsd,...
father fighting for his kids

the monologues f raman with drunk... the shouting at god...saying he cant take away his kids from

then ishra...dammm

the tears flow down... by making ishu trap on his trick... knowing

how wrong it is...

how cruel it is... still he tricked her...


ishu... she just fallen for raman...n longing..to take her relation to next...

and the perfection of ishra in ther emotional parts... nothing more to say

just drooling ishra scenes... pati-patni...patch up... for another fight 🤣


ishu already ready n submitted
Edited by Nichuss - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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whatever u write is perfect...i agree🤣
on side not...
res
unreserved...
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thanks for post kri...
awesome post...
the only thing that touched me was these tears...
i think these are more than enough to say anything...
love your take...
look i am here...😆
pics credit tanvi and nishu...
Edited by abha2701 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont have much to write as far track is concern Like bashing of raman or pissed of with raman...or why raman did this..or Raman cheated with Ishu...(cheated with Ishu ermm seriously)
Ohh hell with everything else today...i gave break to think over the track...😳
we get to see Rarest of Moments of IshRa ❤️
which were there today...im all happy shappy with the episode...
for papers r concern...Puttar taken papers but i think he will himself tell Ishu about this...that in Nite he taken the papers...even going to tell the reason of it...why he took those...
for rest there r many illogical things take place in the show agar ek aur ho gaye ki farak paida hai,...😆
rest IshRa were so damn Good sensous...they just Awesome...haaye Blushy Ishu ws damn cute In morning...With raste ka roda muya fracture😆
She ws Adorable with all the blushy remembering the cozy momentss...

As for Puttar getting drunk ..hell i ws waiting to see when Puttar will go on drunk state he cant handle too much over-flow of emotions...totally broke down state...he is in...he drunk taaki woh thoda gam aur pi sake...drunk karke ghum ko thoda kaam kar sakte...
I know when he will drunk..kuch hona hi tha...
we get to see...





This just made me go awww on Puttar...🥺




Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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res. M waiting kri.😃
- unres..

Superb Post Kri. I simply loved it...😃

Absolutely agree with you on the fact that Raman's intentions were not wrong, but may be his actions were. . This man has gone through a roller coaster ride today with regard to emotions, right from the joy on getting the news of winning the custody of his daughter back, completely breaking down on seeing his son thinking of attempting for suicide , the take of doctor with respect to the emotional and fragile state of his son, the fear of losing his son, the helplessness he feels being caught between his love for his daughter and son... on and on and on...

I am still not sure if he got intimate with Ishita just to got hold of the papers. I feel that taking the papers back from Ishita may be one of his intentions, but no one can question the love he has for Ishita and may be all he needed at that moment was emotional support and love from Ishita genuinely. The pain and guilt this man was going through was clearly visible in his eyes in the form of tears, because he knew that he is going to hurt Ishita, by standing against her the next day. I still feel that his intentions was not to hide this from ishita and he will definitely tell the truth to Ishita and Ishita will understand the pain and the suffering this man is going through... Poor soul. It is just that he needed her love and support at that point. Just my POV. My heart definitely went out to him today... 😭😭. I know I will be bashed for my take, but again this is my take.😊

As I already mentioned in my previous posts, I have a strong feeling that Raman will definitely have a part to play in getting back the custody of Ruhi, . May be his son also will help him in his mission this time. :). My hope...Looking forward to see how this track unfolds and how Ishra together get the custody back...

From the acting front, KP was exceptional today and so was DT. Hats off guys, You guys were rocking.👏👏

Thanks for making this post Kri. Let us keep our fingers crossed and hopes high.

Cheers
Priya

Edited by priyadarshini.r - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Absolutely loved ur take kri 👏
For raman I just want to add this quote
Dad -So your intentions
were good. That's what
matters.
Son-But isn't, like, the
road to hell paved with good
intentions?
Dad-Yeah, well, so's the road to
heaven. And if you spend
too much time thinking
about those results of actions
you know where you end
up?
Son-
I was thinking 'nowhere,'
but yes i get the point.
We can ignore the result of action when intention is right. No point in overthinking about the actions
Raman was in a fix between wat is wrong and what is less wrong
Raman was not right or wrong today. He just chose the less wrong option.
Kp again proved why he is loved so much! Applaudes to kp 👏 He was perfect today 😊


Edited by RaatKiKali - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaatKiKali

Jo bhi ho u r always right😆

Res😆


Copycat...maine bhi yahi likha,..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: abha2701


Copycat...maine bhi yahi likha,..

😆 Chal is sab mein First page bach gaya! 😆😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No matter how much are intentions are good, are actions speak for us and we are judged on it. I felt no connection today. As much as I understand Raman's predicament towards his children, I found him getting imitate with Ishita for a piece of paper cringe worthy. It was playing with emotions. The biggest problem with this couple is there lack of communication. Clearly telling her about Adi wouldnt have change Ishita's motherly instincts towards one child. Clearly she choice Adi's well being over Ruhi's innocent love. The lesser evil of the two. Because as much as Ruhi needs her parents, Adi's needs them more.
Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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updated...
i dont much to say on track but i have to so much to drool over IshRa...

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