It's difficult to be in Adi's shoes... *updated* - Page 5

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Awesome post and I agree to every point Gan!

Yes, the kids suffer the most in a broken marriage and here Adi is bearing the worst brunt of all.

One thing I wanted to scream out when I saw the Bhalla clan venting and grumbling over the entire fiasco was that they have to be sensible. They always lack in it. Simmi and Toshi ji have to watch their words before they speak it out and should realize that the subject of their discussion Adi is there in the same house.

Usually, we elders never talk serious matters before the kids. we dont let our problems reach them in the gravest rawest form like that. I know Bhalla house is different and their problems are different and graver than usual households but still this is a basic thing which should be followed.

Kids do not have the ability to understand the intricacies of such deep problems. Or perhaps they do have the ability but they also have their own way of understanding half baked conversations. Such over hearing and misunderstandings can lead to unpredictable results.

Anyways coming back to the episode, yes this was a better episode. Very touching and sad. I felt really sad for Adi. The feeling of being ignored and not wanted is really horrible. and even more horrid for kids.

Shagun is not even worthy of being a mother. Adi is in the verge of realizing the real face of his mother. SO yes in a way, it is good. Adi will get a better life and love from all.

Raman is in a real fix. I wont accuse him if he decides to keep Adi with him and not swap back again. Now they have to work and find out ways to keep Adi and also bring back RUhi. no point in swapping because now Adi will never trust and love Shagun like before. her false image in his heart is slowly tearing apart. Suicidal thoughts in such situations are inevitable and I am glad that Raman found it at the right time. I hope Raman manages to pluck out that thought from his son and also give him assurance that they all love him. And he is wanted in the family to make it picture perfect!

But still the spoilers of Raman trying to steal the papers, then Ruhi hating Ishita..all these are totally unacceptable. I hope Raman discusses the matter with Ishita rather than resorting to such hide and seek games.

Bohat lecture hogaya...but like u said, I too am a parent and felt bad for the kids.

Originally posted by: cocololo123

I have to say the reaction of this forum is not surprising at all. I have read posts saying Raman is the villain or Raman differentiates between his children. I HAVE TO DISAGREE big time. Raman loves both is children equally. This is the same man who married a woman who he hated so his daughter can have a mother. So how can this forum expect Raman to choose between his children. I have respect for Raman to try and safe both his children at the same time. Can you imagine if Raman didn't realize how Adi is feeling at the right time, what could have happened to Adi. Suicidal thoughts should not be taken so lightly. The cvs have again choose to talk about a sensitive topic and I hope they dont ruin it and play with our emotions. About Raman being perceived as a scheming villain...I figured that would happen to because he's been crucified the most in the last 6 months on this show to progress the track. If we rationalize why Ishita ran away with Ruhi, then why is it hard for people to rationalize the tough place Raman is in? He does not favor Adi because he is a boy. He wants both his kids to be safe.

I want them to show Raman & Ishita using their brains to get Ruhi back swiftly - because like your notes section say...I, an individual with NO legal background, could probably prove Shagun an incompetent mother in the court of law within 5 minutes. In addition to being alone, jobless, and homeless...Shagun has a history of lashing out at her children, had a child harm himself & fraudulently file a police complaint, had a child drive a car and hit another human being all under her "care." She clearly is no mother to "her" children, and any court could see that.

Plus - they have proof that the contract was null and void - so why the fear of having to give Adi back to Shagun if they can prove her incompetent...? Too many logical questions for this show...

Originally posted by: nb.neha

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For the v first time u are positive about such a disappointing track. The story is clearly moving towards wat the spoilers are stating Which is quite disappointing.

This is an extremely uncalled for track. They have targetted the very soul of yhm - ishima n ruhi.

It seems as if ruhi will never be back to ishita.

Originally posted by: cocololo123

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Originally posted by: sunitas123

Dont worry Neha, she will be back. Did u see the promo?