It's difficult to be in Adi's shoes... *updated* - Page 3

Two children, three parents and the millions of miles in between... what an episode. 🥺

Just yesterday I said this show was lacking the emotional depth it once had... and then this...💔 I can't even gather my thoughts right now but one thing keeps going round and round in my mind- I feel absolutely horrible for Adhi, the poor boy needs his love and family.

But Ru , I can't help but hurt for her too. I still can't see her with Shagun, no matter what... because left alone with that woman our little girl will come out of that experience with just as many psychological scars as her brother.

Forget the OLVs because they are indigestible and heartbreaking, and forget any ideas about wherever they might lead to or whatever games of misdirection are being played. At this point one this is clear- Adhi needs his family but so does Ruhi. And somehow, someway, ISHRA together need to make it happen. They need to reunite their family and the siblings... before it's too late. Both their kids need them. Both their kids need each other.

I don't even know what I'm saying, I can't get over Adhi but my heart keeps dragging me to Ruhi. I feel horrible because I can't focus on Adhi because of my sadness about Ru, and I can't focus on Ru because of my sadness for Adhi. A vicious cycle. But it needs to be stopped. And the only way that can happen is by ISHRA as a team... hopefully that happens. No more individual attempts, hopefully being faced with the reality of both the children's plight will finally force them to come together and work together... soon.



I really want to talk about the scene more in depth but right now, I'm a bit overwhelmed... maybe later. But I look forward to all your takes.

ye lo ji sanam phir aagayein...aaj kuch tere liye leke😆

Originally posted by: RomComFan

Two children, three parents and the millions of miles in between... what an episode. 🥺

Just yesterday I said this show was lacking the emotional depth it once had... and then this...💔 I can't even gather my thoughts right now but one thing keeps going round and round in my mind- I feel absolutely horrible for Adhi, the poor boy needs his love and family.

But Ru , I can't help but hurt for her too. I still can't see her with Shagun, no matter what... because left alone with that woman our little girl will come out of that experience with just as many psychological scars as her brother.

Forget the OLVs because they are indigestible and heartbreaking, and forget any ideas about wherever they might lead to or whatever games of misdirection are being played. At this point one this is clear- Adhi needs his family but so does Ruhi. And somehow, someway, ISHRA together need to make it happen. They need to reunite their family and the siblings... before it's too late. Both their kids need them. Both their kids need each other.

I don't even know what I'm saying, I can't get over Adhi but my heart keeps dragging me to Ruhi. I feel horrible because I can't focus on Adhi because of my sadness about Ru, and I can't focus on Ru because of my sadness for Adhi. A vicious cycle. But it needs to be stopped. And the only way that can happen is by ISHRA as a team... hopefully that happens. No more individual attempts, hopefully being faced with the reality of both the children's plight will finally force them to come together and work together... soon.



I really want to talk about the scene more in depth but right now, I'm a bit overwhelmed... maybe later. But I look forward to all your takes.

@bold...so agree with you ...that is the most difficult part of the situation...both the children's pain...and I hope the cvs dont turn it into a joke as this hits right into the core of both their relationship and that to their children. And YES they need to work together to make their family complete.

yes we call can do with some hugs

Originally posted by: Sunshine80

ye lo ji sanam phir aagayein...aaj kuch tere liye leke😆

you WATCHED yhm? for me?


I LOVE YOU!🤗

Originally posted by: -Gan-

you WATCHED yhm? for me?


I LOVE YOU!🤗

Hum bhi aap se I love you damnit🤗

well I kind of did reverse engineering😆😆...I read your post and then went back and skipped directly to aadhi's part😆 and watched 5 mins. Somehow I did it😳

Originally posted by: Sunshine80

Hum bhi aap se I love you damnit🤗

well I kind of did reverse engineering😆😆...I read your post and then went back and skipped directly to aadhi's part😆 and watched 5 mins. Somehow I did it😳

lol...that's ok..but still it means a lot🤗...and I added the collage to my main post.😳

Beautiful words and edit as usual Gan!

Adi's state of being tugged at the heart today as did Raman's plight!!!

As a parent I can definitely empathize with Raman's predicament, can feel his anguish and can see justification to an extent to his potential future actions suggested by the spoilers!

Adi's feeling of not being wanted escalated with what Shagun said and he is now getting to know her true colors. A very sensitive and important issue which I hope is handled somewhat logically and sensitively by the CVs.

I just hope Ruhi's resentment / hate is temorary (I know it will be , just don't want it to be dragged)

Nina

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Reserve. Have a LOT to say today myself.

Edited.

I am just so moved by the episode today. Just with the mere thought put into it and seeing the predicament of a child whose had to suffer so much without no fault of his.

Him learning his mother only uses him as a pawn and how he's never meant anything more then that to him was devastating. He sees the love Ruhi gets from the family. Just how much Ishita can fight for her and he too wants the same. He wants his mother to fight for him. Or anyone for that matter to want him so desperately. But all he's getting is abandonment. He doesn't want that for Ruhi. He saw what she had to go through and the family had to go through. And its nothing less than a mirror to what he's undergone. He did fight for her today and not for himself like his mother has taught him to.

I am going to be all brutal and state this. A lot of people on the forum say Raman differs between his kids, and they say its because Adi is a boy. I believe he's not the one who feels any difference. It's us who differentiate. It's how we see it and now how it exactly is.

Had it been Ruhi in place of Adi, had she been taken away by Shagun when she divorced him. Raman would have been in the same state and in the fix he is today. He is a father to both. Both these kids mean the world to him. How can he possibly want to choose one over the other. Rather I feel sorry that he's always had to choose one or the other. He could never have both under the same roof. He has never been able to have both by his side. If he's ever wanted to be with one, the other is taken away from him.

For Raman its choosing between hell or high water. Here ANY decision he makes its his loss. He isn't going to feel any less guiltier than he is at this moment.

We as viewers have always been attached to Ishita Raman and Ruhi as family. They're on the banner, they are the soul and base of the show's story and they are whose journey's we've seen all along. But Adi is as much a part of this family. He is Raman's son. How can Raman leave him to feel the way he is. At the brink of wanting to end his life?

Then again Ruhi's pain and her insecurities are just as sensitive as Adi's.

She's had severe abandonment issues too. Always pining for her fathers love, not knowing where her mother really is. When Ishita walked in her life, she changed everything for her. She made Ruhi's world complete. And now after being secure again, being hopeful again.. all that's snatched away from her in a second. And all that she's hanging onto is, her faith on her Ishima and her parents. So yes the break of that trust will hurt her like nothing else. And that cannot be ignored.

I cannot possibly gauge anyone's pain and turmoil at this moment. Raman's confusion, the pressure on him to help both his kids rise from the mess he unintentionally pushed them into. Ishita's pain on staying away from Ruhi. If Ruhi got everything when Ishita came into her life, same goes for Ishita. All she has today is because of Ruhi too. And of course I've said all I could about the kids.

It's tricky and sensitive. But like you said it doesn't look murky or horrendous. I am sure that the spoilers aren't going to be as we perceive them. Have to see how it plays out.

Have to give it to the writers for touching on such sensitive issues. Just hope over and over for them not to make these issues too dramatic for their own interests.

WORD Anku!!👏

especially loved what you said about the difference in forum's reaction to Adi and Ruhi. I also fully agree...we can't overlook one child over the other...they are both important in Raman's life...

and I also am hoping for the same about the CVs giving it with a meaningful path and not turn it into something ridiculous.

Good update Gan !!!