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Mehak Ashraf

@Mehak_KPian

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Posted: 10 years ago

#51

The sadest part is Raman doesn't have anyones support. Leave about Biwi.. he doesn't have family support as well.. each and every memeber of the family tried to console Ishita but none of them tried to console Raman except for Bala. C'mon Raman is also going through the same pain!

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aarti

@nicegul

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Posted: 10 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..
The sadest part is Raman doesn't have anyones support. Leave about Biwi.. he doesn't have family support as well.. each and every memeber of the family tried to console Ishita but none of them tried to console Raman except for Bala. C'mon Raman is also going through the same pain!

i truly agree with u...cmon i mean hadd h...amma's accident track k tym bhi raman ko kisine samjhne ki koshish nahi ki...all family members were on ishu's side...matlab kuch bhi ho jaaye...ishu ki bhaalyi k liye raman jab usse door jaa rha tha tab bhi no one tried to understand his feelings...tab bhi evrybody was by ishita...jab at tym of ruhi's custody reopened..raman ne mihir ki galti apne sar li and kaha admit kiya ...still no body even tried to know y did he got angry... noo..tab bhi he was only at fault and sab usparr chadh gaye... i mean cmon yaar...Raman tooo loves Ruhi alot...aise hi ruhi ne use..anpi lyf ka sabse imporatnt person Favourite person nahi mana h...becoz she knows how much best father is Raman/...I think on the whole..only RUHI is the only person who understands her Father and loves him very much..ishu n family toh sab bhool jaao...this tym too...ruhi will understand her father...and wont blame him for the mess...

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Amii

@Amii90

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Just to give another insight for those who think Ishita is overreacting or being unfair to Raman. Take the plight of another mother, for example Vandu. What state would she be in if Bala happened to lose Shravu in the park? It wasn't intentionally done but he lost Shravu. Now someone please tell me what they expect Vandu to do? Should she calm Bala down and tell him it's all ok, mistakes happen! HELL NO! She would go ballistic at him. How does she talk calmly to the man who has lost their child? That is a marriage breaker situation. How would Vandu be able to leave peacefully with Bala if Shravu was lost? You really think their marriage would not go through a major upheaval?

In their situation, Shravu was the result of Bala-Vandu coming together but Raman is the result of Ishita-Ruhi so tell me how is Ishita meant to react in this situation?

THANK YOU & Well said! 👏 I am sure Raman would have reacted the same way (if not worse) had it been Ishita in his place making the contract mistake with this trade-off!

As for Ishita's "overreacting" by talking about their marriage - I remember Raman saying the same to Ishita after marriage when it looked like they lost Ruhi's custody to Shagun as Ruhi chose "her mom" over Raman, which was understood as Ruhi choosing Shagun. Raman told Ishita that he will be sending divorce papers to her as now their marriage does not mean anything. And when Raman asked Ishita why she's crying- she clearly said she is crying for RUHI and not for him!!!

Edited by Amii90 - 10 years ago

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DiyaRathore

@DiyaRathore

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Posted: 10 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Amii90

As for Ishita's "overreacting" by talking about their marriage - I remember Raman saying the same to Ishita after marriage when it looked like they lost Ruhi's custody to Shagun as Ruhi chose "her mom" over Raman, which was understood as Ruhi choosing Shagun. Raman told Ishita that he will be sending divorce papers to her as now their marriage does not mean anything. And when Raman asked Ishita why she's crying- she clearly said she is crying for RUHI and not for him!!!

Well, at that time they both hated each other and were bounded by only "Ruhi ke liye" clause. But everything is changed now, Ishita claims she's madly in love with Raman. If "Ruhi ke liye" clause still exists, then all the progression in their relationship becomes meaningless and indicates that Ishita hasn't moved on at all. So sorry to say, your example doesn't fit into the current situation.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#55

Great post.
No one seems to see from a mother's POV, whose main weakness is infertility, which is less now though. Forget about Ishita, Raman, think from mother's POV, if you had ever thought of a father's POV in case of ADi-Raman.

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ZigBee

@ZigBee

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Posted: 10 years ago

#56

Totally agree with you. 👍🏼 Raman is the villain of Ishita-Ruhi love story, he should be away from them. IshRu don't need him anyways.

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Amii

@Amii90

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

Well, at that time they both hated each other and were bounded by only "Ruhi ke liye" clause. But everything is changed now, Ishita claims she's madly in love with Raman. If "Ruhi ke liye" clause still exists, then all the progression in their relationship becomes meaningless and indicates that Ishita hasn't moved on at all. So sorry to say, your example doesn't fit into the current situation.

That example was used to show Raman's instant reaction to losing the custody - similar to what Ishita's is today!! Being in love with Raman would never supercede Ishita's love for Ruhi - that is the fact and will remain so even if they remain married for next 50 years!

If Ishita was to ever chose Raman over Ruhi, then her love, her desire to be mother, her reason to marry a a man she hated to be with her daughter, would also be questioned by this very forum! There is no win-win!

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_Ridz_

@_Ridz_

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#58

bang on Post Reemz... How can Ishita not react when the sole reason she got all the happiness from Bhalla family and Raman is because of Ruhi... She started loving Ruhi before anything else happened.. even before marrying Raman... and lets think If Ishita would have done the same mistake Raman would have insulted and bashed her too.. I remember Raman bashing Ishita because he could not find Adi once after coming back from office

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K.S.

@K.S.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

<font color="#990000">Well, at that time they both hated each other and were bounded by only "Ruhi ke liye" clause. But everything is changed now, Ishita claims she's madly in love with Raman. If "Ruhi ke liye" clause still exists, then all the progression in their relationship becomes meaningless and indicates that Ishita hasn't moved on at all. So sorry to say, your example doesn't fit into the current situation. </font>

Wats move on frm dat clause..i don't understand..if loving her husband means stop loving your children..she loves her husband along with her daughtet who is d sole reason for her existance..the reason behind why and whr she is in ramans life...sry to say but we knw dat the story is about two different individuals who r connected by common love for ruhi..

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MaahiiVe

@MaahiiVe

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Posted: 10 years ago

#60

I think the most important part here for us is to accept that Ishita and Raman's relationship has not reached it's maturity yet - and it is true that Ishita came into the picture for the sake of Ruhi first.

Ishita isn't wrong - but it also means that Ishita and Raman's relationship is yet to develop into a true supportive companionship - where Ishita would be very very mad at Raman but would still not write off their marriage. But would perhaps instead begrudingly work with her husband to save their daughters' custody instead of writing him off forever.

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