Take Shravu from Vandu... - Page 5

thank you for your post. i got so annoyed with bashing ishita. i dont get it. i know raman/KP is cute hot or whatsoever-but this doesnt mean his character his right always...i m just soo fed up with all bashers-in reality a mother would do exactly wat ishita did.

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

I too live in the West, US to be precise and yes, it's not rare here but not that most of them split because of that either. I do agree with the point though the relationship goes into a bad phase if something terrible happens like the death of a child. But in this case, neither such thing happened nor Ruhi was taken away permanently yet Ishita's reaction seemed over the board.I am okay with it though as Ishita is obsessed with Ruhi. And her obsession will force her to make a hasty move--to elope with Ruhi leaving everyone.

Well, the creator of the show tends to disagree with you. According to her, this show is all about Raman, his past and the bond between Ishita and Raman.

You don't need to apologize to anyone, we are just discussing here and the difference of opinions is a very natural thing.

Yes she will be angry, which ishita is, and has a right to be,but even in her anger she wont question their relationship! She wont run away with shravu! Coz she'll know that shravu needs his father and whole family too. And mind u vandu is one sensible lady. Getting angry,shouting, grieving and running away are completely different reactions!!
if ishita wants ruhi back she can stay and fight along with everyone. She has made a blunder by running away. It may cost her ruhi's custody too.

But i'm happy she's being selfish now (always for ruhi,never for raman :-() and making a mistake like a human in pain!

Yes, agreed. I wanted Ishita to Slap Raman for his mistake. Careless, he did not read those papers himself.

See, I understand your POV. But just try to see from our POV as well.
If Shravu will get lost by Bala, toh Vandu will shout at him and that is obvious but will she call off this marriage? Nahi, na.? Will she tell him that this marriage is for Shravu only? Vandu will not forgive Bala but both of them together will try to find out Shravu later she will take out her anger on him. Lets see IshRa case, over here the problem is Raman hides the deal with Ishita of 4 lakhs and yes, he did wrong by hiding it but Ishu can punish him later for this. Right now, you both need eachothers support. Support eachother, fight for Ruhi together. Later on you can take out your anger on him. If Raman did a mistake by hiding the deal then Ishita is also no less. Don't you think she is making the situation more worse by running away? As it can weaken her case. The problem is you people are seeing only Ishita's POV but not Raman's. Ishita is loosing Ruhi only but Raman is an edge of loosing both his kids. Ishita has family support but Raman is all alone. Raman simply can't choose one over other. I just want Ishu to trust Raman, I know it will be difficult for her but he didn't did anything intentinally. Just trust him, he will bring stay orders by Monday. Let Ruhi be with Shagun over the weekend. Shagun is not going to eat Ruhi. She is also her Mother. Telling Raman that is marriage is for Ruhi. Ruhi hai toh hum hai, was wrong! I thought they have moved on from this phrase long time back!

in real sense mothers r more attached to their children than fathers. female r more emotional than male so they try to over react to any situation. its natural to react in this way becoz she loves ruhi a lot and thinking that she is loosing her in few hours. she is not over reacting, she is going through an emotional trauma!!!!!!!!!!!

i dont know y evrytym regarding child's love...Cvs show Raman as dumb father...who can only ...do dumbiest things...if it happens once then smehow we can understand...butevrytym...whatever in the mood raman is...he only has to domistakes in his childrens case...last tym too...bcz of raman's anger made chance of Ruhi going away from ishu...and this tym too whn raman was in a overconfident mood...made him again a fool infrnt of shagun...and created another situation of making ruhi away from ishu...what dose this mean...Cvs...r showing Raman dose not have ny sense...and Agar ruhi ko ishu se door karne ka track dikhana h toh uska reason somehow shud be raman only...What dose thay want to show...that Raman dose not love ruhi...also loves her less than adi...noo he will never ...make ruhi go away from him even on the cost of his first child adi...But still Cvs have nothing left but to make Ishu shout on raman for ruhi ...and raman shouting on ishu for adi...

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

See, I understand your POV. But just try to see from our POV as well.
If Shravu will get lost by Bala, toh Vandu will shout at him and that is obvious but will she call off this marriage? Nahi, na.? Will she tell him that this marriage is for Shravu only? Vandu will not forgive Bala but both of them together will try to find out Shravu later she will take out her anger on him. Lets see IshRa case, over here the problem is Raman hides the deal with Ishita of 4 lakhs and yes, he did wrong by hiding it but Ishu can punish him later for this. Right now, you both need eachothers support. Support eachother, fight for Ruhi together. Later on you can take out your anger on him. If Raman did a mistake by hiding the deal then Ishita is also no less. Don't you think she is making the situation more worse by running away? As it can weaken her case. The problem is you people are seeing only Ishita's POV but not Raman's. Ishita is loosing Ruhi only but Raman is an edge of loosing both his kids. Ishita has family support but Raman is all alone. Raman simply can't choose one over other. I just want Ishu to trust Raman, I know it will be difficult for her but he didn't did anything intentinally. Just trust him, he will bring stay orders by Monday. Let Ruhi be with Shagun over the weekend. Shagun is not going to eat Ruhi. She is also her Mother. Telling Raman that is marriage is for Ruhi. Ruhi hai toh hum hai, was wrong! I thought they have moved on from this phrase long time back!

Very well said. 👏👏

Awesome post reemz..i am constantly irritated by ishita bashers..The people who r thinking dat ishita is OTT r still in dat feeling dat ruhi is only ramans daughter..We can't change dat mindset..
btw i love ur siggy..