Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 9

Originally posted by: RaimaV

<font color="#0000CC"><font color="#000000">My view after today's episode:</font>

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman
tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child!
It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance--
you need a child to love your spouse!



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Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Ishita will marry Shagun if Ruhi's custody is given to Shagun.

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Ishita will marry Shagun if Ruhi's custody is given to Shagun.

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Thanks for the welcome.

Actually Ishra themselves don't take their words seriously when they accuse each other just as we must forget that Raman said Zindagi barbaad kar di we must also forget that Ishita said that Ruhi hai toh humara rishta hai something, (Sorry didnt catch the exact dialogue).

It can be interpreted in two ways -

Raman meant literally Ishita destroying his life or he was just angry n just meant that whenever she stops him from doing something or takes decisions on her own (like Rinky case or Sarika case or Shagun or Param) without discussing with Raman affects his family and him (which includes Ishita as well as her meddling nature has affected her the most than any other person).

Ishita saying Ruhi hai toh humara rishta hai means - She literally means that or maybe she means that Ruhi is my life if she is not here I won't be the same Ishita that I am and a broken Ishita won't be able to be a good wife- which might result in a problematic marriage.

In both cases above I took the meaning of the words as not literally but what made them say those words, hence m not angry on either of them.😛

Originally posted by: serious

Megha.. don't take legal proceedings in the Indian serials seriously, they are only used for a matter of convenience...

if legal proceedings are to be taken seriously.. RKB can't even go near Aadi bcoz of the court order.. magar ruka tha kya ? 😛

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

It is shocking and unbelievably that a sane person would sign some random papers blindly. That to a top CEO like Ramu.

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

The problem with Ishita and Raman's relationship is that they have always placed other relationships ahead of their marriage even after realizing what they mean to each other. And along those lines, they have always dealt with things individually, rather than as a unit - whether it's because of their lack of trust in each other, or not wanting to hurt each other, that's a different discussion altogether but it is this very issue that has brought them to the crossroads that they are in right now.

From my perspective, what I see is an unhealthy attachment that Raman has towards Adi and Ishita towards Ruhi - although I do think the balance tips towards Ishita and Ruhi more because when it really came down to it, Raman was ready to be away from his son if it meant keeping his current family intact. The same cannot be said for Ishita though - if it ever came down to choosing between Ruhi and Raman - the choice for her is clear.

Raman is clearly equally responsible for what has happened as much as Shagun is - no one should sign on a piece of paper without reading it/ trusting a lawyer blindly. But when it really comes down to it, he is definitely more level-headed and more capable of handling the issue than Ishita is. While Ishita's reactions yesterday were completely justified, the Ishita they showed today was not. I will wait to see how the whole kidnapping thing plays out before commenting further on that.

This show has gone back to where is started - sirf Ruhi ke liye (at least where Ishita is concerned)