Custody *Note on pg 11 about Ishra* - Page 4

Originally posted by: paru_rox

I thought I was watching the old YHM today. Excellent !!!

-- To all those saying Ishita loves Ruhi more than Raman. Yes she does. Always will. Not only Ishita, every mother in this world loves her child the most (except for women like Shagun).

Reminds me of a something someone I knew told me years ago --- I love my husband. But after I had children, they are my No 1 priority. No one comes before them, not even my husband.

So yes, Ishita will go against the world if it come to her daughter. And that includes her husband too. A mother fights for her kids, saves them in every way possible. This is just what Ishita is doing. Also she knows Ruhi cannot live without Ishita and that Shagun would never take care of her. She is fighting for her daughter & her safety.
I pity all those who cannot understand this & say that she needs to compare the love she has for a daughter with her love for her husband.

-- Toshi ji can cut her crap. Her ballistic haye tauba is what led to this shit. Also it doesn't help that her son still doesn't get his ex-wife's conniving ways.

Originally posted by: maaloo

Just seeing your collage has me crying Gan.. I can feel Ishita's helplessness, and emotions and its tearing me apart.

Dont know if I have what it takes to watch the episode. ..

Actors of YHM. .take a bow.

Will update this space if I watch the episode..

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

I didn't think this Shagun was any different than the 7:30 pm vamp Shagun except she had some sensible dialogues tonight. She claimed that she wanted Ishita to know how it feels to lose her child and all, she made it look like she was doing all this so they can never take Adi from her but she didn't show a pinch of care towards Ruhi. She treated Ruhi as if she was just another knight standing between her and IshRa. Take Ruhi down and check mate! She was still the lying and manipulating mother towards Adi.

They showed her to be very cunning tonight and if she is- then this Shagun knows that they still have the records of their previous discussions, that they have the copy that she gave to Raman's lawyer which they can use to prove her forgery. Although she claims this as a custody battle, her whole game plan is based on the fact that she can break IshRa up with the advantage of court being closed. Because even if the deal was legitimate, they could always contest it on court and get Ruhi back and in the process, prove that Shagun is incompetent to take care of Adi.

So, no, she doesn't get my sympathy or empathy. If anything, I hate her more now.

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Episodes of contrast today! It was all about life through the perspective of Ishita and Shagun. An emotional episode to say the least, Ishita's plight was so gut wrenching making me teary and then the kiddos just made me bawl. Too many feels right now to process this so I am going to very brief, once i regain my composure I shall return with my rambling.

"What separates privilege from entitlement is gratitude." - Brene Brown

The difference between Shagun and Ishita is that while the former thinks her rights as a parent are an entitlement, Ishita on the other hand treats parenthood as a privilege with an increasing sense of gratitude towards her husband, her family and more importantly towards her daughter. Again a contrast between Ishita and Shagun as a parent.

"I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and brotherhood is a condition people have to work at."
Maya Angelou

Again a contrast between Ishita's kids and Shagun's kids. While Shagun made Adi and Ruhi brother and sister by birthing them, Ishita made them siblings by infusing them with love, tenderness, care and sense of responsibility towards each other, Ishita made them their father's children and gave them a bond of love. Today's Ishita's kids showed that they were siblings and true progeny of their loving and upstanding father, and it will be Ishita's kids, this pair of siblings that will bring the Bhallas out of this mess.

"When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching -- they are your family. "
" Jim Butcher

Again it was a contrast between Shagun's family and Ishita'a family, Shagun left this family divided and in shambles, a father not on talking terms with his son, a MIL too distraught by his Son's plight, a father refusing to acknowledge his daughter. All of them divided breathing under the same roof, while Ishita's family is a reflection of unity, all bonds strong, a family overflowing with love, understanding and a dedication to make each other happy. Today Ishita's family stood together as a unit trying to weather this unfortunate storm, everyone trying their level best to get a solution to this problem, everyone trying to make each other's life better. Ishita's family is a picture of solidarity while Shagun's was a fragmented mirror.

Regarding puttar I felt for him, I really did! To find yourself so close to having happiness back and to have his family complete and then in an instant see all your dreams shatter in front of your eyes. 😭 I am sure it must not have been easy to see your wife in pain when all he was trying to do was give her all the happiness. Lack of communication is going to be puttar's flaw, in shutting Ishita out he has shut out happiness...at least for the time being.

How tragic that the one person that can heal puttar is the one he has hurt the most. I know puttar and missus will turn the corner and come out of this victorious, they will be a team again but meanwhile puttar will hurt, missus will say things in anger and try to shut out puttar, i only hope puttar fights and don't let missus shut him out.

#Puttar fight for your family

#We are with you.

#Read before you sign papers

#Facepalm

Will return tonight to add more.

PS: The picture of Ruhi and Adi in your collage. 😭

Originally posted by: Veeann

I found myself actually empathising with Shagun today for a bit. I know she was wrong, but she is fighting for her child too.

IMO, everyone acted so well today. This will be such a heart wrenching track. 😭

PS - love that shot of Adi Ruhi G. And the one of Ishita and Raman, their last moment of solidarity in this battle? For tomorrow, Ishita will shut out Raman.

Just saw the third pic in your collage, that of Shagun gloating, and my momentary empathy for her dissipated. She is gloating - you don't gloat when you are destroying your child's life.

Sorry, my thoughts are evolving.

Originally posted by: paru_rox

-- To all those saying Ishita loves Ruhi more than Raman. Yes she does. Always will. Not only Ishita, every mother in this world loves her child the most (except for women like Shagun).

Reminds me of a something someone I knew told me years ago --- I love my husband. But after I had children, they are my No 1 priority. No one comes before them, not even my husband.

So yes, Ishita will go against the world if it come to her daughter. And that includes her husband too. A mother fights for her kids, saves them in every way possible. This is just what Ishita is doing. Also she knows Ruhi cannot live without Ishita and that Shagun would never take care of her. She is fighting for her daughter & her safety.

I pity all those who cannot understand this & say that she needs to compare the love she has for a daughter with her love for her husband.


PS -- The offscreen drama in YHM is almost like a comic fest now & utterly hilarious. The least everyone could have done was compare notes & get their stories right 😛😆