Custody *Note on pg 11 about Ishra*

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Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I wouldnt put is as gloating...it was more of a 'You wanted to snatch Adi from me...here's my payback!" look...yes she was heartless...but today her actions are not delusional, more in the line of what happens in custody battle...no love lost situation between a couple

True, it happens in custody cases, I have seen the extent to which parents go. But when it's about payback, and about hurting the other to gain vengeance for past slights, then the children end up getting hurt. And that's why my empathy for Shagun disappeared. She is teaching Ishita and Raman a lesson, but in doing so, she is not giving a single thought to the welfare or best interests of Ruhi. She is playing dirty to win and in the process the biggest losers are her children.

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Payal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I want something from you today...I know it would be amazing.

I shall try...maybe in the evening once I've had a chance to work through the feels. For now, I can't.

I love the shot of Adi-Ruhi in your collage. Loved the scene. More later.

Love,

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Res/unRes bc I still can't seem to process all the emotions that were brought to play today...

My heart broke for Ishita today. She is losing her world...why? Because her husband was trying to complete their world. The plight & desperation of a mother was so apparent. She just recently got full custody of Ruhi and had no reason to suspect that the stability of her precious family would be shaken. Her falling at Shagun's feet is just a testament to how much she relies on Ruhi to function. Raman is Ishita's love but Ruhi is her soul.

Similarly, my heart broke for Raman. Not only is the security of his sweet little girl's future being question, but he is the sole cause of this. At least during the 2nd custody case, it was a combo of events (mainly Mihir bashing Suraj's skull though...) that led to the opening of that case. Now the entire onus of burden falls on Raman's shoulders. The precap literally killed me. Ruhi-Raman scenes, as Aun pointed out in her post/GIFs, are more scarce in this show...and I hope that we will get to see more of them as this track progresses.

There is no justice in what's happening to this sweet little family and very hard times are ahead. Biwi will revert back into her shell. She won't stop loving Puttar, but she will hold back out of fear. This beautiful world that they built together has yet again gotten shaken, causing her to react out of fear.

What stood out to me the most though was that this currently stressed family came together to deal with the issue at hand. When it comes to Ruhi, Adi, & Ananya, I don't think the Bhallas will ever fail. They will falter, but they protect their young fiercely.

Puttar shut Ishita out trying to be the hero, and now Ishita will shut him out due to his impulsivity. The loss he is experiencing and the disappointment she is experiencing are in such contrast of that wonderful image your captured in your bedroom collage yesterday, Gan! I foresee Ruhi once again playing cupid for her parents & look forward to seeing that process!

Ishita has pulled Raman out of his darkest times - the accident track, Mani track (sort of...), & guilt track.

Now it is Raman's turn to pull Ishita out of her darkest time, and I have full faith that he will rise to the occasion. It will be hard, but he will not let his beautiful family fall apart.

I will thank the CVs for yesterday & today's episode. They are reminders about just why I fell in love with this show. DT, KP, AH & the entire ensemble cast deserve a round of applause for their performances today! I can't imagine how emotionally exhausting it must be to have to get into their characters so much, but that's why they are actors and I'm not!

#My heart is breaking for Ruhi, Raman, Ishita, & Adi

#They don't deserve this
#The feels are too much!

#I make no sense anymore

I am not normally a crier...but on days with episodes like today's, or when Ruhi called Raman from Ashok's during the party, or when Ishita was broken during the picnic episode...the tears don't stop! I thought the episode was rough enough, but then I saw the precap, causing me to lose it all over again!

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ANU

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
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Brilliant update DOC..BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN...ALL THE BEST 4 UR EXAMS...

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arshi21

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

I agree with you gan! I just hope..hope ruhi goes to ishita and raman forever. And for once and all it stops

..and we get more shades and lahers of this show.

Beautiful acting and performance by everyone. EVERYONE.

Bas yeh solve ho. however amazing actinf and performance they are delivering...i am tired of this track And cant wait for some light hearted scenes

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Wings-of-Fire

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Veeann
I found myself actually empathising with Shagun today for a bit. I know she was wrong, but she is fighting for her child too.
IMO, everyone acted so well today. This will be such a heart wrenching track. 😭

PS - love that shot of Adi Ruhi G. And the one of Ishita and Raman, their last moment of solidarity in this battle? For tomorrow, Ishita will shut out Raman.

Just saw the third pic in your collage, that of Shagun gloating, and my momentary empathy for her dissipated. She is gloating - you don't gloat when you are destroying your child's life.

Sorry, my thoughts are evolving.

I didn't think this Shagun was any different than the 7:30 pm vamp Shagun except she had some sensible dialogues tonight. She claimed that she wanted Ishita to know how it feels to lose her child and all, she made it look like she was doing all this so they can never take Adi from her but she didn't show an iota of care towards Ruhi. She treated Ruhi as if she was just another knight standing between her and IshRa. Take Ruhi down and check mate! She was still the lying and manipulating mother towards Adi.

They showed her to be very cunning tonight and if she is- then this Shagun knows that they still have the records of their previous discussions, that they have the copy that she gave to Raman's lawyer which they can use to prove her forgery. Although she claims this as a custody battle, her whole game plan is based on the fact that she can break IshRa up with the advantage of court being closed. Because even if the deal was legitimate, they could always contest it on court and get Ruhi back and in the process, prove that Shagun is incompetent to take care of Adi.

So, no, she doesn't get my sympathy or empathy. If anything, I hate her more now.

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cloudy24

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Hi gan di... ur collage s worth many bucks.i love that hold of raman. wether raman was right or not im unable to say becoz cvs are at fault for showing him like this. i just got glimples of dt in the firat few mins becoz i cant see ishu falling in shagun's feetdt was brillant.as many says mother ll love their children more than any other.i may differ with many here i think regarding shagun today..sorry for that..i felt she was utterly nasty bitching selfish🥱 she was saying dat taking away the child ll give us pain.they ll also should know wat i go through...seriously... she manipulater her son n separated him from his father who loves him and also till now she s manipulating...n ruhi s concerned she never cared n never will.ruhi s a pawn to break ishita.adi s pawn to break bhallas...😡 i dont know y i cant see a mother in her. ishu breakdown was excellance.. cvs making raman at fault s not acceptable..as far as my knowledge if brain cells die it wont regenerate.. wen did shagun started having brains😲😲 ..adi ruhi scene was new to me😳 ruhi n dadu... i really need a daduromi reacted they way i was reacting... common man someone shut her up.🥱 precap ripped the heart out of me. I hav cravings for ruman. But if it comes this way i would creat an ocean around me...shagun was vocal abt her needs.. she just needs revenge thats iT. Other than that its just to convince others.becoz of her revenge its her own children s getting affected.😡 regarding raman my fav person, cvs dont be a sadist. Pls stop butchering raman..pls stop making raman guilty of the things u make him to do. He s losing both his son n daughter n also his world s shattering.. hive him some rest pls.

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ipournami

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Truly a heart rending episode. Divyanka's grief was palatable. Each were st their elements. You have captured the emotions so well in your collage. Great job G.
This track is keeping me hooked but so sad that my husband is asking me why am looking so troubled. If I tell him the real reason I would hear an ear full so I just contributed it to a long day.
What acting. Each made a lasting impression. Don't want to see tomorrow's episode but can't help it. I guess raman is getting a taste of his own medicine of a verbal lashing when ishita is upset (that being the understatement of th he whole episode)

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

My head is all over the place...I don't even know what to say...The feels in tonight's episode to much to even comprehend.

Loved the Adi-Ruhi shot Gan...that was such an amazing scene both the kids had no idea about the impending doom...but in this episode atleast Aditya comes to know what he is dealing with but Precap ke hisaab se Ruhi has no clue at all...She is happy, content and is looking to settle the matters between her Papa and Ishima. And the tears when he got to know about the deal #heartwrenching. Can't believe that this is the same boy who we saw 1 month back...today you can't help but feel for the young child for being a puppet in the hands of his parents...😭

I felt like somebody stabbed me in the heart...DT was that amazing. The vortex of emotions Ishita went through was just too much to stomach.😭 This is like Ishita's second birth and everything she has today is because of Ruhi and to know that the reason is about to be snatched away from you in 24 hrs... There is nothing more devastating that the reason for your existence being snatched away from you...and we saw just that but Ishu being Ishu...kept fighting and precap too shows she is still fighting.

I am not a mother but her every word, her every plead, her every tear tugged at every corner of my heart. It's been ages since YHM made me feel this way... and after the recent episodes we had this was like a whirlwind...still not able to calm my heart!

I have a doubt...Why did Raman say 'I need time to think' before Shagun gave the 24 hrs limit? What is there to think...shouldn't he have said I am not exchanging kids, chosing one over the other...this is no barter system or something on those lines? He got tricked into signing (I'll let go off his dumbness) but on knowing what Shagun did should he just have put his foot down and then decided to fight for Adi later? Is there something I am missing?

I love Puttar but I wanted to snap his neck when he said...Ishita ki haalat dekho...Shagun hai uska zimedaar...Can't he still see that his anger, his impulsiveness and his need to hide things from Ishita is what caused all this or made it worse? Having said that to see know that you are this close to tasting happiness, complete contentment only for it shatter like glass...I know how that feels, I am sure sab zindagi mein kahin na kahin must have gone through that pain... and so I could relate to him more today though my snapping neck comment stands.

Every actor was fantabulous...AH was in her element today...after ages I saw the Shagun Arora that greeted me in the earlier days...the conniving, vile woman. Shagun was a selfish bit*h today but the difference it today they gave her some sensible dialogues that made her look less bimbo and more vamp.

If the precap is any indication Ishita is all set to lash out...Looking forward to how they plan on executing it.

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Anjali

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Posted: 10 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
Episodes of contrast today! It was all about life through the perspective of Ishita and Shagun. An emotional episode to say the least, Ishita's plight was so gut wrenching making me teary and then the kiddos just made me bawl. Too many feels right now to process this so I am going to very brief, once i regain my composure I shall return with my rambling.

"What separates privilege from entitlement is gratitude." - Brene Brown

The difference between Shagun and Ishita is that while the former thinks her rights as a parent are an entitlement, Ishita on the other hand treats parenthood as a privilege with an increasing sense of gratitude towards her husband, her family and more importantly towards her daughter. Again a contrast between Ishita and Shagun as a parent.

"I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and brotherhood is a condition people have to work at."
Maya Angelou

Again a contrast between Ishita's kids and Shagun's kids. While Shagun made Adi and Ruhi brother and sister by birthing them, Ishita made them siblings by infusing them with love, tenderness, care and sense of responsibility towards each other, Ishita made them their father's children and gave them a bond of love. Today's Ishita's kids showed that they were siblings and true progeny of their loving and upstanding father, and it will be Ishita's kids, this pair of siblings that will bring the Bhallas out of this mess.

"When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching -- they are your family. "
" Jim Butcher

Again it was a contrast between Shagun's family and Ishita'a family, Shagun left this family divided and in shambles, a father not on talking terms with his son, a MIL too distraught by his Son's plight, a father refusing to acknowledge his daughter. All of them divided breathing under the same roof, while Ishita's family is a reflection of unity, all bonds strong, a family overflowing with love, understanding and a dedication to make each other happy. Today Ishita's family stood together as a unit trying to weather this unfortunate storm, everyone trying their level best to get a solution to this problem, everyone trying to make each other's life better. Ishita's family is a picture of solidarity while Shagun's was a fragmented mirror.

Regarding puttar I felt for him, I really did! To find yourself so close to having happiness back and to have his family complete and then in an instant see all your dreams shatter in front of your eyes. 😭 I am sure it must not have been easy to see your wife in pain when all he was trying to do was give her all the happiness. Lack of communication is going to be puttar's flaw, in shutting Ishita out he has shut out happiness...at least for the time being.

How tragic that the one person that can heal puttar is the one he has hurt the most. I know puttar and missus will turn the corner and come out of this victorious, they will be a team again but meanwhile puttar will hurt, missus will say things in anger and try to shut out puttar, i only hope puttar fights and don't let missus shut him out.

#Puttar fight for your family
#We are with you.
#Read before you sign papers
#Facepalm

Will return tonight to add more.

PS: The picture of Ruhi and Adi in your collage. 😭

Doc...where are your charan kamal??

Sashtang dandavat pranam...This was such an amazing read, the feels of the episode on one side and this one gives a whole new dimension to the episode...AWESOME yaar...seriously 👏