Realizations os 7/3/15 - note page 4 updated - Page 3

Great work dear friend... Its like u have opened each and every yhm fan's heart and felt our feelings and wrote this. Absolutely awesome. Each and every word in the diary is so so perfect.. U have written very well and interesting. Congrats and hats off to ur effort. Cv's pls try to put something in the show like this.

Originally posted by: elene93

Nice OS.
I wonder now if he is the same as Subbu initially I thought he was not bothered about my inability to conceive but I am wondering now if he did not have kids would he be still with me after knowing my condition or would he have left me like Subbu did?---but this is a bit too much. There is no single instance on the show that hinted he would and based on his passion for his loved ones, it's quite clear that he would never leave a girl whom he loves if she's barren or not, be it Ishita or anyone else.

Beautiful OS ...

Originally posted by: .Harshita.

Sorry to poke in between but its not in dat sense acc. to me...

Raman always prioritize his children over Ishita...

Wen it comes to Adi...he always makes Ishita suffer...

Mistakes are ought to happen once...

Doing same thing again n again...shouting at her...blaming her...hurting her n then just a SORRY...I don't think its fair enough...

The point is equating Raman with Subbu is preposterous and if Ishita's "thought process" is like that, then one would question what is the progress in their relationship? NOTHING. I repeat there is not a single instance on the show that depicted Raman would act like that. Rather he married her when he knew Adi would be only Ashok's son but it didn't bother him. Yes, he married her for Ruhi but her infertility never came into his mind. Just think, if he was in Subbu's place and very much in love with her, would he care whether she's infertile or not? NO chance.

@Bold: I would disagree but even I agree for the sake of argument, isn't it same for every parent? Ishita always prioritizes Ruhi over Raman, do you complain then?!

Amazing & Emotiona Update😭😭😭...Cvs can never come close 2 dis..Hats off 2 u👏

Originally posted by: elene93

The point is equating Raman with Subbu is preposterous and if Ishita's "thought process" is like that, then one would question what is the progress in their relationship? NOTHING. I repeat there is not a single instance on the show that depicted Raman would act like that. Rather he married her when he knew Adi would be only Ashok's son but it didn't bother him. Yes, he married her for Ruhi but her infertility never came into his mind. Just think, if he was in Subbu's place and very much in love with her, would he care whether she's infertile or not? NO chance.

@Bold: I would disagree but even I agree for the sake of argument, isn't it same for every parent? Ishita always prioritizes Ruhi over Raman, do you complain then?!

@elene ...everyone has different point of views...right???...Wat u think is right on ur part...n am really not bashing Raman coz I love him,Ishu n IshRa way too much...but am quite pissed off at him for blaming Ishita for no fault...obviously they love each other...nd love doesnt need show-off...BT sumtimes it is essential to show ur concern...

@Maya: It's a work of fiction, I appreciated it.

Yeah, We write all kinds of stuffs in a diary and Ishita can too! But at the same time it's true that there nothing has happened on the show that could keep Ishita guessing what would Raman do if he were Subbu!

Raman acted as a condescending jerk, I'm not denying it but he never uttered a word or gave her a hint that would make Ishita ponder about her infertility or shortcomings. Even in their early days of marriage Raman never behaved like he wanted a child from Ishita or he was not happy because Ishita's infertile. These two were simply busy with their silly fighting.

I'm not very fond of so called "healing track" coz last time we saw a very bad execution. More importantly, your partner's love should be enough to heal you with time and that's what exactly happened when Ishita said "you complete me, Raman" and even the medical report doesn't hold any significance to her now. And I'm pretty sure, we will never see Ishita comparing Raman with Subbu out of her insecurity or anything. In the same way, Raman will never doubt Ishita/ accuse her of infidelity again. If CVs reverse it, then one would obviously question the progress of their relationship because these two are bases of their love.

@Harshita: Yeah..you're right. That's why I put my pov here and then you butted in with your questions, I replied again. I never said you or anyone bashed Raman/Ishita.

Hi Maya di
Well written
I think dat CVs shud show something like dis,ppl wud actually like a show which wud show abt women self respect.
Its high time dat IshRa's shud b back to wat they were earlier.
I totally agree wid u dat there are some ppl who are like d Ishita mentioned in ur OS.

This is beautiful... a really great way to get out all her feelings and make sure he understand the impact of his words . Terrfic job.