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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: taara113

But why should he accept a non-iyer, it's important to him and im sure his girl always knew and all her life she never had an issue with it...she had always dreamt of an iyer wedding with an iyer boy and thats the impression she gave to her parents...

We can't just give such shocks to parents and ask them to accept...I always feel II is not trying hard enough...She needs to convince her dad that RB is good for her...Appa does not need to love him but he should not be marrying of his little girl to guy he believes is manipulative evil and does not love II, its unfair on him...


II herself thought some updates ago that R&B had never been the kind of guy she would have dream about. He is a completely alien type of man for her. But do you think she could have gone to Appa and told him that she wants to marry this Punjabi guy whom have a father's scandal and a tumultuous sex past life because she is sooo attracted to him that she can't think clearly ? Because at that time her feelings were not really clear. Even today she can't explain her feelings and she can't either defend R&B in front of her father about his feelings for her or his commitment because she doen't know anything about that. There lie her insecurities in my point of view.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Yes Ive said this a dozen times, this wedding wont happen in real, no Iyer Dad would be convinced atleast in my family, II marrying Sree and living in Cupertino is as yawn inducing as errmm... I will be quiet.

I cannot imagine my boys turning gay, I try my best to accept it but cant. I HAVE SOME OF THE NICEST FRIENDS THAT ARE GAY/LESBIAN

So I have a HUGE flaw😭

Conflicts and dissenting opinion makes for good story telling, If II talks and Appa is happy with R&B I dont think there is any need for me to continue the story

An unhappy Appa and a smug R&B make a better read😃


AGREED...

Just like I feel the Paris bit should practically be sorted out b4 marriage buy then it would not be an interesting read.

Aap quiet...acha 😉

Also it might happen to someone in real life...how do v knw...v r nt god :)

Edited by taara113 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: adlin1784


II herself thought some updates ago that R&B had never been the kind of guy she would have dream about. He is a completely alien type of man for her. But do you think she could have gone to Appa and told him that she wants to marry this Punjabi guy whom have a father's scandal and a tumultuous sex past life because she is sooo attracted to him that she can't think clearly ? Because at that time her feelings were not really clear. Even today she can't explain her feelings and she can't either defend R&B in front of her father about his feelings for her or his commitment because she doen't know anything about that. There lie her insecurities in my point of view.


I get her insecurities...
My thing is Appa is fair in his behavior...
Imagine his girl is marrying a guy abt whose feelings and commitment she is herself confused... How can Appa be ohk...
I think she does get Appa's anger and his reasons also, she has never said he is outrightly wrong...
But she is not had one heart to heart like she did with Vandu or a few things she said to Amma...
II n RB shld give some assurance, frankly I don't knw how and what but I think patents deserve this much...
But ya then it will be like a happy bollywood movie (hahahaha) and not so much fun to read so as Nish said vl cont with brooding RB and angry Appa

Edited by taara113 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl


me also team appa rather i get him and the looming scandal ..no middle class dad would be comfortable.. in SoSy everyone is true to there characters if II knew for sure only then she can convince appa right she is right now in a land she herself doesnt know - thats why the insecurities etc
chalo finally leaving now .. now pray the snow doesnt melt 😆


Anu, in SOSY with all the scandal and R&B's previous relations, I am all in for APPA ... Whatever he is doing is completely justified...though he expresses it childishly and does not want to acknowledge even one gud thing about R&B.

Mine was a general rant about our father's generation. There is this stigma that generally prevents them from looking good in other caste boys and always praising and hiding the faults of Iyer boys ( Iam talking about Iyer fathers). Even if there is no scandal and even if R&B had only 1 or 2 gf's before, Appa will never accept. That is what I see in the current society and that it is wat I pointed out.
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Posted: 10 years ago

I get her insecurities...
My thing is Appa is fair in his behavior...
Imagine his girl is marrying a guy abt whose feelings and commitment she is herself confused... How can Appa be ohk...
I think she does get Appa's anger and his reasons also, she has never said he is outrightly wrong...
But she is not had one heart to heart like she did with Vandu or a few things she said to Amma...
II n RB shld give some assurance, frankly I don't knw how and what but I think patents deserve this much...
But ya then it will be like a happy bollywood movie (hahahaha) and not so much fun to read so as Nish said vl cont with brooding RB and angry Appa



I never said or thought that Appa was wrong (not completely) but he is really stubborn. And so is R&B. Appa is feeling that he is losing his baby daughter to a man he thinks is unworthy of her value. And like some said it some posts earlier he feels their attraction to each other. R&B doesn't even try to hide it and poor II even if trying she can't completely hide neither.
R&B being himself doesn't even try to comprehend that. Since they're getting married why should he hide himself ? Since the wedding is fixed he doesn't understand their fears. But maybe he also is jealous of what bound II and Appa because till now Appa was the only man in her life. Bala too but Appa is cautious with him and unfriendly since day one. He doesn't feel a threat from Bala but definitely from Appa.

I don't know if I am clear. But this is just my point of view. And that's what is so great with what Nisha created everyone can go with his thoughts expectations and questions about each and every character and detail of the story. And that's what keep us here waiting for updates and reading comments to try to comprehend things differently from what we first understood.
That's the case for me. I love to read comments about story about almost everything sometimes and as I am not even Indian it is so great to see the bounds forged here because most of the reader have in common their memories their culture or moments in their life they find in this wonderful story.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Very well put Swathi

You know WHAT it is?

Its a kind of envy, no its not creepy or incestuous but its a kind of " He has turned my smart intelligent successful daughter into a putty in his hands"
By nature Bala is cheerful, engaging, talktaive warm and affectionate

R&B is quiet brooding, thoughtful and introverted


As a husband/son/father Bala is caring affectionate and loving towards his parents Shravu and Vandita, his masculinity and his obvious sex appeal were never a play in why Vandita constantly thinks about him. Even though he must be all that for Vandita "privately" all Appa sees is a caring son and a loving father and a compassionate husband


In R&B Appa sees a predator, and it bothers him that II WANTS that.☺️ There is a explicit sexuality in II and R&B's interactions that is visible to Appa AND to Amma... Amma takes it as "He loves my daughtera lot" when she sees love bites on her neck

Appa sees it as "HOW DARE R&B EVEN HAVE unsavory/ wicked thoughts about MY daughter?"
I wont allow it...

Sex is a BIG part of R&B and II 's romance, even if it is part of Bala and Vandu's its not visible to Appa so he is OK. Appa is able to see the lust in R&B's eyes since he is a very astute father. If he hadnt proposed marriage and if Appa and II were riding a bus and Appa had seen it in R&B's eyes... he would have slapped some harassment case and have him locked away

In this case the guy, wooed, pursued and claimed his daughter, all under his nose👏👏

If Bala was like this he would only be proud , just like you said😭😭


Wow. Thats an awesome explanation Nish ! to the point ... I totally agree..
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Posted: 10 years ago
"to think of and to be thought of"❤️


Amma didnt wake her until 11. She walked out dazed and checked the time on her phone and was shocked
Amma was making kesari and was making aloo curry rasam and small onion vetha kuzhambu (the non dal sambar)
Appa chanted, when she was done reading her newspaper, she went over to Periappa's to read the latest Tamil gossip from this week's Kumudam for him
He smiled and groaned, she kissed his forehead "I am going to go hand out my wedding cards to Amma's friends" she whispered the secret in his ear
"YESSS I am getting married, enna madiriye romba naughty Periappa but he scolds me too (hes naughty like me)"
She texted the Dude, oh BTW his entry in her phone was now The Dude...
"Do u want to come meet Periappa?" she texted with a heart

"in 30?" he asked
U REALLY WANT TO?" she asked

"Did u not want me to?" he asked with a confused smiley
"I umm... I... I thought... u would hesitate" she admitted honestly

"Why?" he asked honestly
"At 7 tonight? If u are not busy?" she asked, a lump formed in her throat at the thought of not seeing the septugenarian every day, his sparkly eyes always tried to tell her something

It was like he knew what she felt like he would not drool or smile when she cried HOW COULD ANY BODY SAY HE WAS NOT OK?

She cried laying on his chest... taller than Appa her was 6'1"
the nurse stopped her from laying her head on his chest, she shushed him and cried into Periappa's banian

"I think for you he will let me come over to D II and so I think u are very special to me" she told his soaked banian

Appa had helped him shower as always, and he was wearing a spotless white veshti with green zari border (Periappa got the most expesnive shirts and veshtis at home, now and always)
His clothes were always ironed though he spent 15 hours a day laying down, he never went anywhere, if the weather was good then he would be taken for a stroll in his wheelchair

Appa would smear vibhuti on his forehead after the shower and comb his hair, a professional barber would come by every other day for a shave, and every month for a hair cut
He looked like he was a aging 74 year old did not seem sick to her at all

Amma brought her second dose and nudged her "Get up and shower kanna we have to go to Janakpuri to Vikaspuri, Rajouri Garden and Lajpat Nagar, you insisted, otherwise I would hand them all at school

Ii nodded, Amma wiped her tears off, "Chumma chumma kann kalanga koodadu nee kalyana ponnu" (u shudnt cry so much you are the bride now"
She smiled

"Paiyyan enna solran?" Amma teased "what is he saying?"

"Just nodding or smiling Ma" she said happy
"Nambathula nee pesinde iruppe, avalukku kuduthu vechirku nee kedaikka" (u keep talking in our house, they are so lucky to have your chirpiness)

"You are lucky to have his quietness?" II teased

" So sober and well behaved he is very calm... so wealthy but never has shown any attitude, our boys would not be like that" Amma said brimming with pride

II felt more torn, it hurt her more when things were OK...

"How is Akka?" II asked

"she is fine she said she will come today to talk about garlands she has some new fashion ideas for it, but is too tired she says, with her growing belly its hard" Amma smiled

"Krishna" she evoked

she couldnt believe the good fortune that had descended on her house, a vairam/diamond in the shape of R&B and daughter pregnant after 9 years, the best times in a long time
Such a change from last January... Akka had a miscarriage of sorts and Subbu walked away
On Pongal day...

"What can I get for him?" R&B texted
"Nothing actually" Ii said
Amma put away ironed clothes of Periappa in his Godrej... and locked it
"Does he like music?" R&B asked

"Umm no... sometimes he will listen to me sing sometimes he is in great distress" II typed somberly

"I am sorry"

"Thanks she said her vision fogging up
"Has he lived with you all this time?"

"Yes... family didnt want him, we are kindred spirit (my parents didnt want me)" II said

"Sorry I shouldnt have said that"

"II" he warned urging her to open up.

"At 7?" she asked changing topic...

"Nod" he texted with a smile

"Amma I asked him to come see Periappa" Ii said hesitatingly

Amma smiled "What did he say?" she asked eagerly

"Ezhu manikki varen sonnan" II said (Hell come @ 7)

Amma stared out the room wondering what she will tell Appa, she wanted her daughter to have the
freedom to to invite her fiance' but realized he was not the regular fiance.

"Good kanna, ask him what he will eat he can stay for dinner" Amma offered warmly

"I can ask" II said nervously like she was inviting a married man, she was having an affair with to sleep over

Amma hugged her "This is as much his house as yours" firmly walking away

"Amma wants to know if u will eat dinner" she sent a spoon and a fork

"U dont?" he asked

"whatt?" she texted

"Amma wants to know and u dont?"

"Ummm" she blushed
"Invite me II" he texted with a half smile

"I II here by cordially request your presence at D II 887 on Feb 28th for dinner @ 7 PM to dine with Mr & Mrs Iyer.
Looking forward to hearing for you
with warm regards
II"

"Is that it?" he asked

"WHAT DID U WANT?" she texted shocked

"Happiness for both"


"whattt?" she asked confused and angry


He sent a FULL SMILE


PIGG!! "Happiness for both" in return for dinner?" "Varaade da, dont come" outraged

COY bas***d!!

"Urs before dinner or mine after"


NO... NO NO... NOT IN MY HOUSE... NO... U ARE INSANE..." she texted shaking


"I will pass then" he flirted

"Fine"

"Where are u?" she asked

"Taj Palace meeting a start up" all day" he completed

"What do they do?"
"Its a solar cell company from North East, Gangtok actually" he texted

"Oh niice, is there a website?" she asked

"Not really I think, will know more soon"

He sent a half smile after a few minutes

"U think I am prying" she sulked

"No u turn me on" he said bluntly
Her insides lurched... she walked out of Periappa's with a dry mouth

She walked to her room and opened her Godrej, realized all her clothes were packed away got the smallest one out on the bed, and pulled out a beautiful orange/green chiffon with a almost sleeveless blouse

Readied herself in an hour 12:30 ish... took a picture texted him "On a date with Amma"


"stop by at Malcha Marg I was never invited" he accused

she blushed

"I can send u the video after the wedding" she texted

"Who are u marrying?" he asked

"Beckham" she said

"Ouch" he texted

"Get some tats then" she texted

"All over" he said with a devil

" Iam not doing THAT again" she sent a blush



Amma: Lets grab a bite to eat and go, I have to come back go to the tailor,
then go out to check the IIT Gate and Vasant Vihar flats Akak booked, now
its only word of mouth reservation, deposit needs to be paid, I am off all week Appa has to go until Wed, U ARE GOING UNTIL THURSDAY


II panicked "sorry Ma"

"Are u coming tonite?" she texted

"Only if WE are "on"" he texted

"Please da" she begged cooing

She hated him she wanted him she messed with him she cooed to him she laughed with him, she flirted and ached, and craved...

He sent a half smile

She threw her phone on the bed and went to eat... a slow smile forming on her lips her heart ready to explode with the intense desire

This ALMOST MARRIED thing is pretty cool

"To be thought of and to think of"☺️



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Thanks so much for staying/being and getting up early for the story sake, couldnt be a greater reward for me. Thanks so much. Hope u are having a fabulous trip, is it overseas? You quote a different time, Spore?

I hope u find a R&B a 6'3" IYER dude in the seat next to you... and I hope you have the most engaging discussions about economy and politics and it culminates in .a set of choodas tirumangalyam and kaliras😳

I know its not important to be married to be happy and all that jazz

I am married and I am happy so I pass along the good stuff whenever I can😃

Safe Travels Sudhi!😃😃


No Nisha. Not Singapore. I'm in India only. Home is just three hours away. I quoted that time because that's when I woke up. The update came later but you said 4:30 am ist so I had set my alarm for that.
I won't actually mind a 6'3" iyer dude. I'm sure I'll find one with your blessings.
Insomnia
Appa is back. Hadn't heard his rant in a while. I'm waiting for another face off between appa and r&b. Everything the man says or does scandalises appa. Bala would have never said that on his face that I went to jaipur because I wanted to see her. He wouldn't have gone to jaipur in the first place.
I think amma likes r&b but is unable to say it or gush about it like vandu. He has impressed her. But it's always like that. If you get your dream man mothers and sisters gush while Fathers and brothers sulk and vice versa.
He just said likewise and ended it. Not fair. He should've come to take her to malcha marg. I guess he doesn't like snooping and thus avoids coming to her place.
I'm waiting for the mehendi function. And I want him to be there.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Somehow the pre-nup details sound like things discussed in past...how do they compartmentalize their emotion...R&B his anger at hearing her disowning everything that is his and II her insecurities about this relationship and their status difference...they sound n feel like 2 different people in each situation.😲
II is such a sweetheart... She wants to share with him her most innocent relation..with her periappa... N R&B is such a sweetheart... He wantsto meet periappa...anything that will get him II's company. 😆
I dont like how appa is making II feel about her fiance being unwanted n almost an outcast for appa in DII
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harshita27

Somehow the pre-nup details sound like things discussed in past...how do they compartmentalize their emotion...R&B hus anger at hearing her disowning everything that is his and II her insecurities about this relationship...they sound n feel like 2 different people in each situation.😲

i dont


We all do that dont u think?
we sweep things under the carpet
the most uncomfortable WE DO IT THE MOST
I am sure there are millions that will talk it out I am not denying that either.

These two are not it😃

I didnt want a couple that constantly talked about everything that bothers them. They will eventually figure it out i feel😃

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