Software Symph 7 'Not too long' 147 - Page 67

Originally posted by: ashu9

Deepthi, tell me about it...If anyone starts crying ll simply stare at the happenings..then suddenly I also join the gang 😆

I dont remember my maternal grand mom talking to my dad, nor my paternal granny talking to her sons in law 😕. Or maybe they did and I missed out those scenes 😆

But of late, I did see my aunt talk to her son in law also my periamma...So times a re changing indeed.

My mom will never talk I believe 😆. She will think " if this one is gone, its for good only "

Originally posted by: ashu9

Deepthi, tell me about it...If anyone starts crying ll simply stare at the happenings..then suddenly I also join the gang 😆

I dont remember my maternal grand mom talking to my dad, nor my paternal granny talking to her sons in law 😕. Or maybe they did and I missed out those scenes 😆

But of late, I did see my aunt talk to her son in law also my periamma...So times a re changing indeed.

My mom will never talk I believe 😆. She will think " if this one is gone, its for good only "

Originally posted by: swathi1990

hehe 😆 😆 Tell me about it. I dont think even my parents would cry. They would be like finally she has agreed to get married 😆 or they would cry feeling for the guy. With the way they are talking, I think my parents will talk well to my would be husband and corner me together. Also I dont think even I would cry. Crying is all done when I left home for the first time during undergrad. Now its been 8 years since I am living alone. Nowadays I have my own home here and even If I visit India , I still think about returning back to my place where I am the queen, where I decide how my place should look and the responsibility of taking care of it.

Originally posted by: deernav

I am also one of them who cries if i come across anything emotional..I dont know how many of you feel this.. but i am particularly vulnerable to Tying Taali/Mangalsutra ritual.. every single time i cry.. i have cried even when i am in no way related to the groom or the bride..that ritual makes me very emotional.. I couldnt however cry in mine because my husband was supposed to press his big toe on mine while tying Taali and he was extremely playful while doing making me forget the emotions for a while..

I am sure your mom will not think about that way when you are married and if she does she better talk to him and warn him whats ahead..

Originally posted by: ashu9

My parents will NEVER cry..I have never cried with my parents ya...I dont know how and why...I am a very emotional person though, I do have eyes welling up and senti talks with friends and loved ones but with my parents I live in a totally different world 😆😆

They will think, she is gone for good re..😆

How I wish I also stayed alone...there is something really nice about being independent...

Originally posted by: ashu9

Deepthi, tell me about it...If anyone starts crying ll simply stare at the happenings..then suddenly I also join the gang 😆

I dont remember my maternal grand mom talking to my dad, nor my paternal granny talking to her sons in law 😕. Or maybe they did and I missed out those scenes 😆

But of late, I did see my aunt talk to her son in law also my periamma...So times a re changing indeed.

My mom will never talk I believe 😆. She will think " if this one is gone, its for good only "

Originally posted by: ashu9

My parents will NEVER cry..I have never cried with my parents ya...I dont know how and why...I am a very emotional person though, I do have eyes welling up and senti talks with friends and loved ones but with my parents I live in a totally different world 😆😆

They will think, she is gone for good re..😆

How I wish I also stayed alone...there is something really nice about being independent...

5 brilliant updates... Story moved kicked up a notch since the walk they took from shanti niketan... II is feeling wedding jitters and none are putting themselves in her shoes n assuagingher fears... Neither R&B nor her family.. They dont realize this is not a regular love marriage or even an arranged marriage. No talking or atleast straight talking will be the biggest challenge in their relationship... R&B is hiding from her his intent to return back paris for good... India was never part of his permanent plan... II just happened to him and has since caused him to turn his small timeoff into a full blown location shift - at least at the moment. Does R&B realize that there is more to marriage than just intense attraction? He did make a decision to get married to her as an impulse... Since he thought the wedding music was the answer to his introspection about his emotions for II... But what he doesnt realize that no marriage is successful without compromise... He is yet to do a proper compromise... He has her figured out but he understands her immense attraction to him... He doesnt realize the depth of her love. She is a regular indian girl, intercaste n love marriage is not something she is doing to look "cool" but because she is too far gone in this relationship to turn back. She is aware of how R&B's every action governs her mood, day and her life even without marriage. She is now just giving into her desires to explore the enigma called R&B. he needs to quit being selfish atleast tell her what she is getting into. Good that she is having pre-wedding jitters. She is talking it out, atleast her side of fears - to some extent - her thoughts regarding having to leave her family - a life she has been living all her life just coz she chose to get married to him, a glimpse into her thoughts about her life that she has lived without R&B - simple n middle class. Her demand of pre-nup even though for herself, will be the perfect communication starter about the important things in marriage n relationship which are equally n sometimes more important than just attraction. I hope atleast now they talk it out - R&B needs to tell her about his plans of moving to paris withher permanently, she'll soon feel cheated if he still does not utter the biggest hurdle in their relationship. II needs to openly voice her fearsthat this is not a regular love marriage n the status difference is eating into her self confidence. She needs to be assured by R&B. Ranjan and R&B's equation is also something she'll feel torn about. Until now R&B hasnt told her how to behave with his dad, his expectations of his wife's interaction with a man he doesnt willing want to be associated with. But II is also unsure about how kindly would R&B take to her gestures of bridging these huge gaps in the father-son relationship. Clearly the girl has a heart who cares for any and everyone good to her, and Ranjan adores her!! So these two would soon develop a fabulous relationship- one of care, love and immense respect. II would be that light at the end of the tunnel in which Ranjan has been travelling since Savita's death in his relationship with all his children maybe. The pre- nup should be discussed n both need to get done with it with no words unsaid and no fears unshared. Maybe it will open up the much necessary communication channel between these two.

Good pre nup out of the way, I loved the clauses , to the point , II can enjoy the wedding,