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nidhi.b23

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Posted: 10 years ago

#681

chalo finally prenup isnout of the way..im happy at least they didn't kill each other...every issue was handled I guess..he was angry, didn't leave a chance to attack her and she was such a timid soul...he is not interested in what she earns and hiw she spends it..money doesn't matter to him but for her their financial gap is too much...it scares her...he should understand it na..hadh hai...
she want to support her parent...that's really good...

"I thought that was the theme"...ouch...he mince no word when he is angry..would shred her to pieces...

three months later the food bill haunted them...yeh kya tha nisha...darao mat yaar...

im just happy this prenup is over... whatever be the reason i don't like when they fight... know life is not a bed of roses but kya karo i love them both so much...don't want them to get hurtm..PEACE...:)

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samsi74

@samsi74

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Posted: 10 years ago

#682

Originally posted by: deernav
"I want to continue helping my parents" she said

This was the only prenup clause that i discussed with my husband (No papers were signed though)..II is so real.. When she trid disclosing her earnings with him or when she said she will pay for her own clothes i could totally relate to her.. though these things were never discussed in open most of the times my husband understood with time about my clauses whether it was about not changing my name after marriage or being financially independent after marriage..Each one of us here are able to II some way or the other..Kudos to you Nisha for compounding a bit of all of us in to one person that's II..

Same for me too. These things were never discussed but my husband too understood with time, how independent I'm about my career, finances and helping my parents.

But I think II being II, and because of her insecurity, she has to talk about it, have all the clauses in ink, in general make a big issue out of it and in the process make R&B furious😆. Waiting for R&Bs response. I have a hunch that another WW is around the corner which will eventually lead to some sort of verbal commitment from R&B. 😳

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arshi21

@arshi21

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Posted: 10 years ago

#683

I knew Ishita was always uncertain about a lot of things and insecure where Raman was concerned but this kind of insecurity seems out of behaviour to me.

Had this prenup thing come up 5-6 update before this, I would have gladly read through it without a frown but it seemed out of place..not in sync with the progression of story line.

Although I individually enjoyed the chapter, just when it came together as a part of story i did not. Like last few chapters were something else only! Amazing ones.

And no i am not saying every chapter has to be perfect. Its just my view that its a little out of sync with the kind of progression you have shown so far in theit relationship.

I know raman and ishita share a rare kind of relationship. Its unique and i dont question that.

Also i did not understand why raman was still clueless about ishita's behaviour. By now he knows her too well to ubderstand why she demanded a prenup. Is he not?

but there is only so much their relationship can be hit by their insecurities and still seem like a real relationship. Even if its their relationship. :)

Its just my view as a reader. I will retierate that I really like this story. Faults and all. :)

Edited by arshi21 - 10 years ago

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SunshineBliss

@SunshineBliss

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Posted: 10 years ago

#684

On a different note, one of the seven vows of a Hindu marriage does speak about having wealth and prosperity together. I wonder how II and R&B would crack that during the rituals. 😆assuming that would be explained to them.

I remembered from having attended a wedding some months ago where the pandit explained each & every vow with excruciating detail. The goras are always extremely enthused about indian weddings and v eager to know all rituals and the pandit didn't want to lose his moment of glory😆

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Hsp.canada

@Hsp.canada

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Posted: 10 years ago

#685

Originally posted by: ashu9

'Nivi!! Kaisi hai ?? Hope you are doing your exams well..We are all missing you too...Come back soon..Dont worry we would not jump too long 😆

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TanjoreGirl

@TanjoreGirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#686

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

hey nivi a little birdy told us a news😳.. jaldi aaja exam key baad :-) miss you too!!!

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adlin1784

@adlin1784

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Posted: 10 years ago

#687

Hello everyone.

Again wonderful updates Nisha.

So here I go with my thoughts (sorry if I go too far with it but it's kind of interactive thread for me as I don't know what is going to happen next I can't help myself to write my thoughts here as it's the only place I can talk about...And I had Nisha's authorisation.😊) And sorry I don't use lot of emoticons so hope my comment won't be dull.

Anu searched for prenup's meaning on Google and it's about clauses in case of separation or divorce. And that's what R&B talked about ("upon DIVORCE"). But II never talked about that. She wants to make "legal" rules about their married life (as to whom pay for what) in order to keep her independance. As if in all her confused mind and thoughts about their relationship she knows that once she will marry him he will have all control and she will follow (as he knows how to convince her).

Everyone talked about II's insecurities but I think R&B has some too. He wants her to be his as soon as possible he knows about some of her doubts, he can sense when she is troubled but as she is such a talkative person maybe he expects her to express everything. And if she doesn't that means she doesn't want to share... He is angry about prenup maybe because that means she doesn't trust their relationship to last long or maybe because she wants to keem him aside.

Yes he is confident about his commitment but he doesn't want to hurt her or to lose her that is why he didn't tell her about Paris (I don't agree) but if he tells her what will she do ? She can back off. Her father also.

And something I am wondering about : everyone knows that he left everything and settled in Paris but no one thought that he will come back there even after getting married ? Neither Sam or Ranjan ? Don't talk about II she is completely lost cause. Her parents ? Don't know about Tan. Do everyone think because he is marriying her and she being so close to her family he will stay ? In his father's house ?

Maybe Nisha will explain that later.

Voila. I'll stop here. Sorry for my looog comments.

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TanjoreGirl

@TanjoreGirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#688

Originally posted by: nidhi.b23

yes R&B is more sure and has more faith in this relation while II is just so insecure...what i wanted to say was that she is an emotional fool while he is more rational... he has to make her realize that he loves her and provide the security that comes with marriage...

yes yes and yes and it shall happen slowly our SoSy way 😳

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TanjoreGirl

@TanjoreGirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#689

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Yup.. finally it is done... we are gearing up for sangeet... Yay 😆

mrs sagar is not upset re... She observes that II is upset..

ah ok .. but the last one R&B didnt he say are you ok or something ..may be am reading more than needed 😆

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TanjoreGirl

@TanjoreGirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#690

Originally posted by: SunshineBliss
The pre-nup was a brilliant way to bring forth what each of them makes out of this relation. While II is trying to secure her insecurities, R&B for the life of him cannot fathom why she is doing it.

He knows she is no gold-digger, but going the extra mile to insure that is what irks him. And while he does mention Upon divorce' she is far from thinking along lines of separation.

If not anything else, they have certainly mastered the art of getting under each other's skin. Their wedded life will be a blast for sure

agree with everything!! 👏

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