Software Symph 7 'Not too long' 147 - Page 68

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

I feel in this case though R&B is more invested and more sure , II is more insecure and too much self doubt, that will only change slowly

yes R&B is more sure and has more faith in this relation while II is just so insecure...what i wanted to say was that she is an emotional fool while he is more rational... he has to make her realize that he loves her and provide the security that comes with marriage...

Hahahaha... Fun this was 👏

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

Good pre nup out of the way, I loved the clauses , to the point , II can enjoy the wedding,

what's up with mrs sagar? 2nd update she is sad😭 hmmm not well not sure where that is headed,,,,

So pills also out for R&B 😳 amma can have the bedroom ready😆

She is going to continue helping her mom/dad, 👏

they forgot jewelry .😃

he can spend on trips :)books and actually a lot on food 😆

So their married life jhagda is all lined up now😆

Originally posted by: harshita27

5 brilliant updates... Story moved kicked up a notch since the walk they took from shanti niketan... II is feeling wedding jitters and none are putting themselves in her shoes n assuagingher fears... Neither R&B nor her family.. They dont realize this is not a regular love marriage or even an arranged marriage. No talking or atleast straight talking will be the biggest challenge in their relationship... R&B is hiding from her his intent to return back paris for good... India was never part of his permanent plan... II just happened to him and has since caused him to turn his small timeoff into a full blown location shift - at least at the moment. Does R&B realize that there is more to marriage than just intense attraction? He did make a decision to get married to her as an impulse... Since he thought the wedding music was the answer to his introspection about his emotions for II... But what he doesnt realize that no marriage is successful without compromise... He is yet to do a proper compromise... He has her figured out but he understands her immense attraction to him... .

"I want to continue helping my parents" she said

Originally posted by: nidhi.b23

yes R&B is more sure and has more faith in this relation while II is just so insecure...what i wanted to say was that she is an emotional fool while he is more rational... he has to make her realize that he loves her and provide the security that comes with marriage...

Brilliant Nisha. This journey that they have both taken will be an immense learning experience for both of them as they discover each other bit by bit. I think II's fears and insecurities will teach R&B about what commitment and marriage truly mean. At this point in time R&B knows he wants II, will be fiercely loyal to her etc etc but does not realize the true implications of a marriage...the family bit, the compromise that comes with it and the fact that a whole new person is irrevocably attached to you along with all their baggage. I think at this point in time he is seeing this relationship from purely his point of view as if getting hitched is reason enough for II to be drawn into his nomadic lifestyle. II will teach him what it really means slowly and subtly...because what she feels does affect him HUGELY. It's unsettling for him but he will change.

Originally posted by: SunshineBliss

Harshita...totally with you on that...

For him it's all about him at this stage.. He wants her, He gets her..

I guess only when they actually start living together... the drama will unfold

The pre-nup was a brilliant way to bring forth what each of them makes out of this relation. While II is trying to secure her insecurities, R&B for the life of him cannot fathom why she is doing it.

He knows she is no gold-digger, but going the extra mile to insure that is what irks him. And while he does mention Upon divorce' she is far from thinking along lines of separation.

If not anything else, they have certainly mastered the art of getting under each other's skin. Their wedded life will be a blast for sure

Food Bills!!! The ledger that II is maintaining is financial n worldly... What the world would perceive in this union... The ledger R&B is maintaining is the profits he will gain from this union... R&B cannot understand why Ishita is time and again bringing up financial aspect of their union while ishita is unable to question her worth in R&B's life n mind - why a man who is nomad, had no bindings to get married is marrying n that too a middle class girl... What she doesnt realize that for R&B the money or the lack of it has no significance. II's crying has him rankled. Hereyes big n red, has him purturbed. He is egging her on so she finally blurts out what is on her mind n her intent behind this pre-nup. What remains tobe seen is how then R&B would take to the marriage preps. N how he discloses to her their impending paris move. Both have agendas that need addressal but its all coming out wrong in their attempt to give words to their silences.