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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
Ek baat samajh nahi aa rahi...

Shagun chapter KAB aur KAISE close hoga?

Bahot pakkta hai abb usse dekhne mein.


CVs please. You have reduced me to beg this of you, please (if you are reading this) CLOSE this shagun drama.

PLEASE.

AND NO. Making Raman lose his position and money is NOT the way to kick out Shagun.🤔
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
Thanks Gan!!!
Things like raman making ppt, ruhi-ishita making presentation overnight, raman not even caring to save a full ppt presentation ... wierd, dont make sense... But, CVs did it just to postpone C&C... Poor insecure CVs.

Raman is nothing now? His boss is shouting at him in front of everyone and asking him to take rest? How convenient CVs... Raman was ashok's employee y'day and now Malhotra's?

Hope they dont show him on the streets for drama sake😆

Shagun needs to get out of their house, adi can realise the truth of his family but, I prefer he stays with shagun. She is selfish but, she gave birth to him and love him in her own twisted way.

Mihika truth need to come out and Mi-Mi should kickstart. Before that I feel rinki will confess her love for mihir to ishita... my guess.

Anyway the episode was a jump from romance to drama just for the heck of it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The episode was pretty disjointed.. From such an emotional high of yesterday.. this was kind of a free fall !!!
I would really have preferred a smoother transition to the newer track..

Liked the sense of reluctance in Adi when he thanked Ishita for the food.. I really felt for him..

For Shagun, Adi has always been a commodity n a meal ticket, to be used and abused as per her will. Though I disliked him in the earlier episodes, my heart went out to him today. He adores his mother unconditionally and unequivocally.. But her love is so conditional !

Totally confused about Raman and his boss ! What exactly is Raman's position in his company ???

Will have to wait for the next few episodes to understand where this track is headed !!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14
Today's episode was once again like laying multiple foundations for future track.

I eagerly started to see the continuity of yesterday's episode but was let down badly. The CVs had enough time to show shagun's non existing anniversary celebrations elaborately but here for the actual one they had to just show the entire family just returning tired...Time and again am ranting the same kind of issues...Looks like no end to it and we have to live with it.

Adi - Shagun : I really felt bad for adi. No kid deserve such a mom. However something which I was not very convinced was the way CVs portray Shagun's attitude towards adi. I know she is an extreme self obsessed character but she was never shown in the past that she does not completely care for Adi. We cannot completely rule out that she never had concerns on his future...

Few instances...

- She questioned Ashok for bringing Adi back from boarding school while the exams were nearing

- She allowed bala to coach Adi thining that she cannot take risk or mess up with his future.

- She went back to Ashok and asked him to sign the papers on legal adoption related stuff else she threatened to call of the marriage

- She took the blame in the accident track

- She was shown to do different recipes in the past just for Adi and

But now all of a sudden they just show adi to be considered as just a shield for her and nothing else . It is so unreal that she does not even bother about his food , projects etc

Rather taking this path , I would have really preferred CVs to deal with parenting issues more realistically especially the blind love repercussions.

Now coming back to adi - shagun equation, One thing that I really wanted to appreciate is Adi's unconditional love for shagun. Everyone here wants adi to realize shagun's true intentions and leave her but seeing today's episode I dont know why but I feel, it would be more appropriate if Shagun realizes her mistake and give what adi really wants in his life. If there is one relation where we just cannot give up completely despite knowing they are at fault is parent- child relationship. There may be hardships for ever in that relation but life time attempt to get back on track will always be there.

Adi - Ishita: I really really loved the scene today especially the heartfelt thank u from adi.

Rest of the episode I am just skipping my comment as Raman's actual role puzzle itself is still not over for me. Just 1 question to the boss.

Mr Boss, Where were u when Raman made decisions earlier for all the previous projects, bidding, etc etc...










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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just looked at your updated post Gan. beautiful Collages. I read more in it than what I see in episode.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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updated on page 1

Gan Beauiful collages...Loved that quote the episode ws more shifting the focus from couple to being Parents...
quite interesting Post u talked about...i liked how u said about Raman's attempt on Adi's front fractured relationship of him & Adi...
I guess going they gave shagun v/s Ishu a mother task ...but with changes they came up in this is what looks interesting...
while Raman will be shown busy with his work front...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm confused ..I thought Ruhi deleted the file by hitting "DEL"...or was it an unsaved PPT?I watched it once...so maybe I was wrong...Please can you guys chime in about that part...depending on the viewpoints, I'll go an edit my main post.😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#18
Nice episode 😛 The Anniversary was cut short very abruptly but then Thts Yhm for u 😆
It was refreshing to see Adi n Ishita like that. Sumwhere it felt like he knows tht she knows the truth n just can't talk against his mom(obviously) n try's to cover up for her. Their bonding can be interesting to watch if showed properly. Raman getting angry on Ruhi was a very natural reaction n a very normal scenario. So it was good to see that. Romi is being punished,let's see how long they drag his story.
Ramans office issues- nice to see something diff but I just hope it's a glitch n my hero will give it back in his style 😳. I don't want a typical Ekta Kapoor scene. I also want a Raman to be equally involved in Adi custody since tht seems to be the track we're heading towards. If this is to get Shaggy out of the picture then it's sad😕. I'd rather my hero take a firm stand n throw her out,sooonnn.
Puttar n Biwi really need to take another step forward in their relation😳 I dint like the abrupt halt after they share such a beautiful moment,n thn...nothing. I don't want the big C now am loving their cute moments but it's desp needs to go one step up now 😳 Sorry one track mind there😆😆
#puttarlookedhottt #IWantPuttar 😳😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

I watched it the episode and apart from a few scenes I missed the emotional connect.

I am going to be short and precise because real life needs my attention right now.
I liked:

  • I liked the realism of the scene between Raman, Ishita and Ruhi. Often times due to stress parents end up yelling at children and invariably yelling at their spouse as well, stress at work is common and it does lead to some unsavory moments at home. I like that YHM is exploring real issues that affect real folks. I also liked show Raman had to prioritize and choose work over kid because that happens a lot and can cause friction between a couple. This track has a lot potential, I hope they do it right and chances of romance are endless in this situation. 😳 #One track mind #Once fangirl always a fangirl
  • I also liked how they are showing that Raman is getting affected at work now that he has a family that he likes to spend time with. Earlier he was just focused on work but now he is trying to be a good father and a good husband while balancing work which isn't a easy feat. It's very difficult to strike a balance between family and work, the struggle is real for RKB and I wanna see how he manages to come out of this one. This has the potential of exploring gender roles in a marriage and the societal expectations of man vs woman at home and at work. I do not speculate on future tracks but if they were to show puttar losing his job, it would be interesting to see how the dynamic changes between puttar and missus. #Puttar can't have it all #I still wanna jump him
  • I liked that they are showing natural bonding between Adi and Ishita, it doesn't seemed forced and I for one appreciate that. My heart went out to Adi sleeping like a homeless kid on the sofa. #Puttar's jigar ka tukda is my jigar ka tukda

What I would have loved to see:

  • Ishita and Raman just got back from their anniversary 'celebration', is it too much to expect a husband-wife spend some quality time in the privacy of their bedroom. May be cut a small cake together, or share some ice-cream or just talk to each other sweet nothings, you know the typical pillow talk.
  • Would have loved to see puttar talking to missus about how good she is with kids even with a difficult child like Adi and then maybe bring up the topic of babies again, I am not saying they should have kids but it's a important conversation to have nonetheless.
  • Would have loved to see Ruhi insisting on sleeping with her parents and both the parents trying ways to make her sleep in her own room, I know wishful thinking but these kinds of moments would have been great post the anniversary celebration that wasn't!


@Doc I loved ur perspective on this...Its so different...this how Raman before used to be..it ws always about work for him no family how that time lived far from family no time for family..Now Raman changing this making him more to real himself...U said about him trying to strike this Balance in b/w a family man & a man who made his career with his hardwork & dedication...
its gives a chance to explore a side of Men who has always been a attempt in striking balance to give time to family & to his work...
this quite interesting attempt cv's r making it if it has something more coming in...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

I'm confused ..I thought Ruhi deleted the file by hitting "DEL"...or was it an unsaved PPT?I watched it once...so maybe I was wrong...Please can you guys chime in about that part...depending on the viewpoints, I'll go an edit my main post.😳


Im not getting into details of this what button she clicked that due to which an computer expert also couldnt find the file after making laptop in recovery mode...LOL
they could have cum with that Ruhi thown water on laptop of simply its broken down by her...
but nt going into details of this...as this is small thing which can be ignorable considering as fiction...this much liberty at-least they have... 😆

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