raman has to respect ishita's feelings

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: PILOT900

Yes if he truely loves ishita,he has to remain celibate throughout his life, without going stray,that is what is true love! I want raman to love ishita for the person she is and not for fulfilling his manhood desires

Just out of curiosity, what class are you studying in?

Edited by ankitasen - 10 years ago

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daisydolly

@daisydolly

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: PILOT900
He cant act like a despo, if ishita doesnt want physical relationship,he cant force her😡 I dont know why the cvs are hell bent on showing raman who only thinks nowadays from one one angle,physical intimacy is not the only thing to sustain your marriage🤢 I would love to see a show where a couple dont share any physical relationship yet their love and relationship is very strong! I was shocked as to how he thought of having children without consumnation, or have they done it aldready,i am so confused! If they havent, then its shocking and he clearly was giving her an hint in the form of these report

Dude when you get married, YOU live with your spouse without any physical relationship... SPARE YHM... Such Sick ppl on earth... You badly need some counselling... Get well soon... MORON

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iffanvidz

@iffanvidz

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

did you notice ishitha's reaction???

when raman said ok let us go home...😆

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anjs

@anjs

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: PILOT900
Yes if he truely loves ishita,he has to remain celibate throughout his life, without going stray,that is what is true love! I want raman to love ishita for the person she is and not for fulfilling his manhood desires

1. its what you want...and you are not a part of their marriage...its just Ishita and Raman...so they have to decide

2. we dont know, whether Ishita WANTS IT or NOT...she hasnt clearly mentioned it

3. Raman does love Ishita for what she is, that is why he keeps praising her and is also very supportive. He didnt force her to go for the therapy, he just gave her that gift n let her decide what she wants...normally, this thing amount to loving a person as that person is...

4. i dont have a right to judge you, but your choice of words are very crude...esp bt that desire part.

5. True love doesnt mean not touching your lover...true love means supporting your lover right thoughout all aspects of life...that includes the physical intimacy part, if your lover is naive and shy...and Raman is doing a commendable job, so far

as i mentioned earlier also, these desires are part of a marriage...platonic marriages might be there, but they are very rare...and that too happens after proper discussion...here the leads havent even discussed and decided anything n we are all ready to blame them...

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aarti hari chandana

@Ishradivani

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Do u hav a minute idea of Wat ur speaking????

Did raman force ishitaa anyday for physical intimacy????

He dint tried to tat .agar aapko lagta hai ki hug karna n giving her lost hope of motherhood as a gift is forcing her thn i m sure u must consukt a doctor

N how d heel on urself u decided tat ishita dont want any relation with raman agar nahi chahiye hoti thn ydid she try to seduce him wit tat dance before adi hospital one???

N please wait till they decide wat they want???dont give ur conclusions

N ha i would be greatlysurprised if anyone tell me tat if u truly love ur wife u shud nt maintain physical relation wit her when she z also head over heels in lovewit u

Please dont create these controversial posts just to attain attention or bash raman

I m a bit selfish when u bash raman bt i knowmany ppl wil agree wit me here if nt u

N true love is always being wit thm in thick n thin n choosing their happiness before us for ur info raman did evrythng a husband would do in fact par more than. Tat

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..sudha_suressh..

@sudha_suressh

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: PILOT900
He cant act like a despo, if ishita doesnt want physical relationship,he cant force her😡I dont know why the cvs are hell bent on showing raman who only thinks nowadays from one one angle,physical intimacy is not the only thing to sustain your marriage🤢I would love to see a show where a couple dont share any physical relationship yet their love and relationship is very strong! I was shocked as to how he thought of having children without consumnation, or have they done it aldready,i am so confused! If they havent, then its shocking and he clearly was giving her an hint in the form of these report

did u watch the same scene that every one watched 😕 why are u connecting such a beautiful scene with physical intimacy, see first get the correct meaning of the scene and then make post about it

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Mehak Ashraf

@Mehak_KPian

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Ishita has never said no to physical intimacy. We have seen from the past few episodes, months back that both were coming closer to eachother and if you remember they were about to kiss when Adi kaand happened and Romi interrupted them. Raman is not a despo. He loves his wife, and he knows she loves him too. And, its normal for a couple to consummate when they are in love. Raman has never forced himself on Ishita. I think Ishita too want to get physical but she is shy or afraid of her infertility issue. I think it will be Raman who will make her deal with her with this issue. If Ishu was not comfortable with physical intimacy, she would have never allow him to hug, or even touch her! You people are seeing the different view of such a beautiful scene.. Ishita torned the report because she is afraid, if she doesn't gets pregrant then people will again get a chance to bash her, and she will be shattered again. So, she is happy with whatever she has! And Raman, showing the medical report doesnot mean that he wants to get physical. He actually cares for her and doesn't want people to call her barren. Raman has always respected her.

Edited by ..Mehak.. - 10 years ago

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DiyaRathore

@DiyaRathore

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

You are getting the wrong picture. Ishita is inexperienced and shy about it but she never said she doesn't want physical intimacy. If you remember their rain dance/kuch kuch moment, you will understand she wants it too. At the end of that dance when Raman came close to her, she smiled and closed her eyes in an anticipation that he would kiss her. When she opened her eyes and found him not around her, she was clearly disappointed. Raman wasn't sure about his feelings back then but Ishita was and that was enough for her.

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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

It was the most beautiful scene in recent times of YHM bringing out the very message of YHM! It was a perfect mohabatein moment! ❤️

It made Raman the perfect husband who wants to fill his wife's life with all colors and joys. It wasnt his desperation but his honest attempt to understand and erase off his wife's sorrows and misery when being called a baanjh!

Coming to the physical intimacy not required in marriage waala part...

Physical intimacy is important in every marriage. That's what keeps the marriage, the life and the love ticking.

Its not their wedding night but a night after 1 year of marriage. He isnt a stranger to her and he wasnt anywhere near forcing her. He was romantically teasing her and she was shyly refusing. And anyone can understand that her shy no was more than a yes. She needs a push from him like any wife who has had an arranged marriage and has fallen in love with her husband.

Its just that the teasing Raavan in him who wants to wait till she sheds away her shyness to pursue any further!

Edited by vidya.anand - 10 years ago